Love my boy more for now until he is old enough to 'ignore' me and go out with his friends =). After that, hubbby more coz he is the one who will accompany you for the rest of your life. Hubby and I have this talk before and we both acknowledge that since we decide to bring life to this world, we have to be responsible and let him feel love. I do not know how to put it in words but both of us do know what it meant. =)