Actually infant care is a good alternative if the fee isn't a problem.
My friend places her baby there since 3 months, her daughter is well taken care of and happy
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My friend places her baby there since 3 months, her daughter is well taken care of and happy
yes, luckily there's subsidies and baby bonus to help out
Yes I do agree with you. Baby tends to be more open and independant in a way.. not too pamper by the elderly alsoActually infant care is a good alternative if the fee isn't a problem.
My friend places her baby there since 3 months, her daughter is well taken care of and happy
Yup!!! I think there will also be less conflicts over how the child should be taken care of!Yes I do agree with you. Baby tends to be more open and independant in a way.. not too pamper by the elderly also
My daughter is over pampered, my mom gives in to her all the time! I become the 'bad guy' and she becomes my daughter's favourite =.="
Yes I understand how you feel! I dont wanna pamper my gal else it will be tough for her in future as not everyone will pamper her the way we do..
pangsn7376
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But how come no one think about hire the maid to take care the baby??
Me and my husband think to hire the maid, we hope can hire a good maid.
Me and my husband think to hire the maid, we hope can hire a good maid.
I guess because maid is considered an outsider so someone will still be needed to supervise her.
Some people might also feel uncomfortable or has limited space/room to spare
pangsn7376
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I agreed maid is considered an outsider, some more don't know the maid is good or not.
But if both take care by nanny, will cost me SGD 1,200.. and me and hubby need to do the night shift... Don't know can we "tahan" the night shift. And sometime my hubby he need to OT till midnight, this mean I alone have to take care both kids after fetch from nanny house.
Headache about this also. Me and hubby have not get a solution for this.
Anyone have good suggestion.
But if both take care by nanny, will cost me SGD 1,200.. and me and hubby need to do the night shift... Don't know can we "tahan" the night shift. And sometime my hubby he need to OT till midnight, this mean I alone have to take care both kids after fetch from nanny house.
Headache about this also. Me and hubby have not get a solution for this.
Anyone have good suggestion.
I guess because maid is considered an outsider so someone will still be needed to supervise her.
Some people might also feel uncomfortable or has limited space/room to spare
I guess you would really need a maid then so even childcare operates from 7am to 7pm.
Will there be anyone to supervise the maid when you or your husband is not around?
What kind of pain is that?
Though I have given birth before, I still cannot tell how does contraction feel like >.<"
Wow that's early for contraction eh!! I think I have diarrhea since last night.. still thinking should I go see doc...
It feel like mense cramp but it much more painful... it comes abt 20-30secs and go off... and come again in awhile....
You can do a search online Braxton Hicks contractions.
Must be kena bacteria especially from milk.
Few days ago.. i also feel abit not so painful but since wed night i pain till now.
Plz go and check with your gynae.. rather be safe then sorry
I went yesterday.. he say is normal...
pangsn7376
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Hi Triquetra,
I got no one at home to supervise the maid... this is also we worry. But do you think if I install CCTV will help??
Thanks you for your advice.
I got no one at home to supervise the maid... this is also we worry. But do you think if I install CCTV will help??
Thanks you for your advice.
If no one is there to supervise the maid, you really should install CCTV.
At least you know what is happening and see if your neighbours can help to look see look see a little when you are not around.
Or at least try to talk to your HR and let them know your situation, see if it is possible to arrange your work schedule in a way that you or your husband will be home to see the maid.