dumbocarebear
Member
is it normal to not have the gush of love feeling for my baby boy who is only 2.5 weeks old?
whenever i look at my boy, i only have the feeling that its an infant who needs to be care and not like what internet says, you will have that gush of motherly love for your son.
and these days when i'm alone, sometimes the feelings get so overwhelming and my tears will just drop. i'll cry badly for a while before i manage to settle down my emotions.
i think this is not getting right..
anyone know if i can get any counselling (phone or email type) anywhere?
i guess all these emotional rollercoaster have been made worse when the people at home keep doesn't want to hear what i say with regards what to do to baby. like not feeding him with plain water when he is hungry. he needs milk when hungry not water. on one side, they (parents & grandma) will say dun carry baby the moment he cries, but on the other side, they all rush to carry him the moment he make noise.
i do not have many friends to talk over all this. and i dunno where to seek the answers for all this.
i feel so bottled up and depressed.
worse off, my breastfeeding path is not smooth either. making me more stressed up.
i am most worried over the fact now that i do not have that gush of motherly love for him now.
anyone can advise if this is normal and what should i do now?
whenever i look at my boy, i only have the feeling that its an infant who needs to be care and not like what internet says, you will have that gush of motherly love for your son.
and these days when i'm alone, sometimes the feelings get so overwhelming and my tears will just drop. i'll cry badly for a while before i manage to settle down my emotions.
i think this is not getting right..
anyone know if i can get any counselling (phone or email type) anywhere?
i guess all these emotional rollercoaster have been made worse when the people at home keep doesn't want to hear what i say with regards what to do to baby. like not feeding him with plain water when he is hungry. he needs milk when hungry not water. on one side, they (parents & grandma) will say dun carry baby the moment he cries, but on the other side, they all rush to carry him the moment he make noise.
i do not have many friends to talk over all this. and i dunno where to seek the answers for all this.
i feel so bottled up and depressed.
worse off, my breastfeeding path is not smooth either. making me more stressed up.
i am most worried over the fact now that i do not have that gush of motherly love for him now.
anyone can advise if this is normal and what should i do now?