hi mummies,
wondering if any of you is leaving baby with your mom. What does your mom do with the baby the whole day?
not sure if i'm being overly concern, but i have many concerns with leaving my baby with my mom -
1stly - worry that my mom will make my baby sleep all day - my mom insist for me to install sarong, which i did already and she likes to put baby into it to rock her to sleep. I really dont like it, but the truth is baby does sleep in it well enough. and u can let her sleep as and when per your routine. but precisely because of this, i'm worried my mother will jus put her into the sarong and rock her whole day! what if when i come home, my baby having slept the whole day and dont sleep at night. I'm sure that's not good right? has any of you experience this before?
2ndly as i am bfeeding my baby totally. and my baby does not like to bottle feed.. so she drinks very little.. when i'm feeding her, i really try my best to force her to drink more. but my mom will just put her back to sarong again, rock her to sleep then say try to feed again. sometimes it doesnt work, then when i ask my mom "did she drink?" she will say, baby dont want to drink.. full stop. but can't be baby dont drink so u dont force right? i'm very worried cos she drank so little in the day, so she will wake up many times at night to feed. this again make my life bad when i come back from work..
i've not gone back to work yet.. but i can foresee this happening. i've commented about this a few times to my mother.. and we quarrelled about it.. she saying that she knew i will have a lot of complaints about her taking care of my baby.. but i feel that she's being a little inconsiderate by not thinking whether i will have problem taking care of my baby when i get home from work..
sometimes i just feel that might as well send to infant care.. where they have a structured routine that ensures my baby gets wellrounded developement rather than just sleeping
maybe i'm just being over-concern - do any of you mummies have any issues with parents helping with the baby?
wondering if any of you is leaving baby with your mom. What does your mom do with the baby the whole day?
not sure if i'm being overly concern, but i have many concerns with leaving my baby with my mom -
1stly - worry that my mom will make my baby sleep all day - my mom insist for me to install sarong, which i did already and she likes to put baby into it to rock her to sleep. I really dont like it, but the truth is baby does sleep in it well enough. and u can let her sleep as and when per your routine. but precisely because of this, i'm worried my mother will jus put her into the sarong and rock her whole day! what if when i come home, my baby having slept the whole day and dont sleep at night. I'm sure that's not good right? has any of you experience this before?
2ndly as i am bfeeding my baby totally. and my baby does not like to bottle feed.. so she drinks very little.. when i'm feeding her, i really try my best to force her to drink more. but my mom will just put her back to sarong again, rock her to sleep then say try to feed again. sometimes it doesnt work, then when i ask my mom "did she drink?" she will say, baby dont want to drink.. full stop. but can't be baby dont drink so u dont force right? i'm very worried cos she drank so little in the day, so she will wake up many times at night to feed. this again make my life bad when i come back from work..
i've not gone back to work yet.. but i can foresee this happening. i've commented about this a few times to my mother.. and we quarrelled about it.. she saying that she knew i will have a lot of complaints about her taking care of my baby.. but i feel that she's being a little inconsiderate by not thinking whether i will have problem taking care of my baby when i get home from work..
sometimes i just feel that might as well send to infant care.. where they have a structured routine that ensures my baby gets wellrounded developement rather than just sleeping
maybe i'm just being over-concern - do any of you mummies have any issues with parents helping with the baby?