adlieyn
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How having a baby changed your life ? ; cause it change my life .
hello mummies !! This should be my very first post here .. Well , I'm wondering you about you mummies out there ; does having baby changed your life totally ? It really change mine ; really ..
Well , actually , I'm a young mummy here ; aged 19 .. Love to enjoy and have fun .. I dont't usually care what people say . Sometimes I even feel that I dont't treasure the people around me ; especially my mom ; I just think that she always work and got no time for me .
I realized about my unexpected pregnancy in October last year .. Shocked but still happy about it .. I only realized it when about for 3 months didn't having period .. It was kindda hard for me to tell my bf at first , but still , I got to tell him ..
So we planned to keep this baby and will get married.. We have been together for 3 years now .. As I'm still young ; I get really scared to go back home , as each day , my tummy gets bigger .. My parents didn't know about it yet but only my sister .. It's kindda hard for me to keep this from my parents .. But thanks to my sister that she told my parents about it on January last year .. Luckily my parents are sort of the type that are very understandable and try to stay clam about it .. My parents told my bf to ask his parents to come over and discuss about this .. But for 4 months straight , my parents have been waiting . I know he was scared to say this to his parents .. Everytime I said to him that I'm gonna call his mom and told everything , he will say , please dont't , as his mom just recover from some illness , I know that is not some stupid excuses cause I have visit her mom at the hospital that time . I know he didn't prepare for marriage that time as I know that he is seeing girls behind my back ..
Being pregnant was hard , always having mood swing and always ended up arguing with my bf .. He didn't have the initiative to buy baby stuff despite when he already know my due date was sooo near already . I got everything using my own pocket money plus with the help of my auntie and my mom . I only go to my very first check up when the baby is 8 months plus !! He got very excited when he knew I'm expecting a baby girl , as that was what he always wanted .. We were happy back then . We always talk regarding baby ..
Due date - 12 June 2009 .. But I guess luck wasn't on my side .. Dear was caught for doing something wrong ; 8 more days before my due date !!! It was really hard for me , from that day , I knew that I have to go through everything w/o him .. I guess this was the prefect time for me to call his mom and explain about the unexpected pregnancy .. I was relived when his mother an accept what as happen .
His court date was on my due date !! Still attend . Baby was born on 16 June .. I remembered I cried non-stop , he promised he be beside me during labour , but nobody was there to accompany me .. Sad .. Right after baby girl is born , I keep saying to myself to at like a mother now , no more enjoying with friends only .. Got to think about baby now .. Think like a matured adult . Slowly I learn simple things that I have not even have done before like bathing a baby , even simple things like changing diapers is challenging for me ..
Having her in my life indeed change me , into a better person , into a responsible person .. I love my daughter and I treasure the people around me more as I could feel a mother's love to their daughter .. I treasure my mom now more than before .. I knew she work hard to support my famaly therefore my father who is undergoing dialysis .. I knew she do this for the sake of my falimy .. She is the breadwinner now ..
My bf have even changed too .. He knew that he is already turning 28 years old , an no longer fool around and got to really think about his future and being a daddy . He started to do his 5 daily prayers ( for muslims ) .. He will be released in next year march . We both know that we got to changed for our lil girl sake .. And I'm glad that things happen the way I wanted ..
Although this is an unexpected pregnancy , I believe that I got the very best for my daughter . I thank my family and my bf family for all the help and support .. All things that have happen indeed making my life a huge different .. I think like adult now , I stop thinking of having fun with friends only ..
Will get married next year when he is released , I requested tagging for him , hopefully they give him a chance to released early as her daughter need her daddy .. and I hope that he will got a proper job to hold his responsibility as a daddy and I won't mind if I dont't mind if he wants to continued being a tattoo artist .. I love my life and looking forward to next year !!
Having a baby indeed changed me ; do you ??
Personal Blog : www.simplyheradlieyn.blogspot.com
Preloved Baby Items ; prams , carrier : www.buyortrade.blogspot.com
Preloved Branded baby/children clothes : www.takealook-adlieyn.blogspot.com
hello mummies !! This should be my very first post here .. Well , I'm wondering you about you mummies out there ; does having baby changed your life totally ? It really change mine ; really ..
Well , actually , I'm a young mummy here ; aged 19 .. Love to enjoy and have fun .. I dont't usually care what people say . Sometimes I even feel that I dont't treasure the people around me ; especially my mom ; I just think that she always work and got no time for me .
I realized about my unexpected pregnancy in October last year .. Shocked but still happy about it .. I only realized it when about for 3 months didn't having period .. It was kindda hard for me to tell my bf at first , but still , I got to tell him ..
So we planned to keep this baby and will get married.. We have been together for 3 years now .. As I'm still young ; I get really scared to go back home , as each day , my tummy gets bigger .. My parents didn't know about it yet but only my sister .. It's kindda hard for me to keep this from my parents .. But thanks to my sister that she told my parents about it on January last year .. Luckily my parents are sort of the type that are very understandable and try to stay clam about it .. My parents told my bf to ask his parents to come over and discuss about this .. But for 4 months straight , my parents have been waiting . I know he was scared to say this to his parents .. Everytime I said to him that I'm gonna call his mom and told everything , he will say , please dont't , as his mom just recover from some illness , I know that is not some stupid excuses cause I have visit her mom at the hospital that time . I know he didn't prepare for marriage that time as I know that he is seeing girls behind my back ..
Being pregnant was hard , always having mood swing and always ended up arguing with my bf .. He didn't have the initiative to buy baby stuff despite when he already know my due date was sooo near already . I got everything using my own pocket money plus with the help of my auntie and my mom . I only go to my very first check up when the baby is 8 months plus !! He got very excited when he knew I'm expecting a baby girl , as that was what he always wanted .. We were happy back then . We always talk regarding baby ..
Due date - 12 June 2009 .. But I guess luck wasn't on my side .. Dear was caught for doing something wrong ; 8 more days before my due date !!! It was really hard for me , from that day , I knew that I have to go through everything w/o him .. I guess this was the prefect time for me to call his mom and explain about the unexpected pregnancy .. I was relived when his mother an accept what as happen .
His court date was on my due date !! Still attend . Baby was born on 16 June .. I remembered I cried non-stop , he promised he be beside me during labour , but nobody was there to accompany me .. Sad .. Right after baby girl is born , I keep saying to myself to at like a mother now , no more enjoying with friends only .. Got to think about baby now .. Think like a matured adult . Slowly I learn simple things that I have not even have done before like bathing a baby , even simple things like changing diapers is challenging for me ..
Having her in my life indeed change me , into a better person , into a responsible person .. I love my daughter and I treasure the people around me more as I could feel a mother's love to their daughter .. I treasure my mom now more than before .. I knew she work hard to support my famaly therefore my father who is undergoing dialysis .. I knew she do this for the sake of my falimy .. She is the breadwinner now ..
My bf have even changed too .. He knew that he is already turning 28 years old , an no longer fool around and got to really think about his future and being a daddy . He started to do his 5 daily prayers ( for muslims ) .. He will be released in next year march . We both know that we got to changed for our lil girl sake .. And I'm glad that things happen the way I wanted ..
Although this is an unexpected pregnancy , I believe that I got the very best for my daughter . I thank my family and my bf family for all the help and support .. All things that have happen indeed making my life a huge different .. I think like adult now , I stop thinking of having fun with friends only ..
Will get married next year when he is released , I requested tagging for him , hopefully they give him a chance to released early as her daughter need her daddy .. and I hope that he will got a proper job to hold his responsibility as a daddy and I won't mind if I dont't mind if he wants to continued being a tattoo artist .. I love my life and looking forward to next year !!
Having a baby indeed changed me ; do you ??
Personal Blog : www.simplyheradlieyn.blogspot.com
Preloved Baby Items ; prams , carrier : www.buyortrade.blogspot.com
Preloved Branded baby/children clothes : www.takealook-adlieyn.blogspot.com
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