In this forum, there are lots of rumblings and discussion with regards to how much to give in-laws, giving too much to in-laws, how much to give own parents, rate to give parents who look after their grandchildren, etc.
Let's reverse the role.
Just wondering, once your child start working, how much do you expect him/her to give to you? After he is married? If you look after your own grandchildren on a regular basis, how much do you expect?
if you have more than a child, what will you do if some give more, and some give less? how will your children split paying the medical fees among them if you have long term illness? plus if your son's wife start nagging your son that he is paying so much for you (as compared to other siblings), how will you feel? what can you do?
i'm just thinking there are so many complains of unfairness.. just wanting to know what are the perspective if we imagine a change of roles.
let's talk in terms of current prices (ignore inflation). don't have to share every question i posted here. just want know about your general view.
Let's reverse the role.
Just wondering, once your child start working, how much do you expect him/her to give to you? After he is married? If you look after your own grandchildren on a regular basis, how much do you expect?
if you have more than a child, what will you do if some give more, and some give less? how will your children split paying the medical fees among them if you have long term illness? plus if your son's wife start nagging your son that he is paying so much for you (as compared to other siblings), how will you feel? what can you do?
i'm just thinking there are so many complains of unfairness.. just wanting to know what are the perspective if we imagine a change of roles.
let's talk in terms of current prices (ignore inflation). don't have to share every question i posted here. just want know about your general view.