my SIL, abt 40 yo, single, fr Msia, stayed at my house coming to 5 years, she earned more than me, but didn't pay a single cent or contribute to the house. Everyday come home, watch tv, ask the maid to do this do tat, play computer game, read books and sleep. My husband said since no other pp in Sg fr home is here, its our duty to take care of her FOC. Everyday, I have to make sure she is well fed with nurtitious meal, if I cook something which is fast food, my husband will be angry that I don't feed his dear sister well.
My sister, divorced w 2 girls, aged 5 and 9, staying w me. She used to be her own boss, working as hawker, but biz no good, stall closed down, now she working as cashier for other hawker. Ever since she started working for other pp, she now always on the phone even when she at home, bo chap her two kids, tell me to take care of them and teach them homework, but her two kids abit noti, and I oso have to take care of my own 5 yo. If I "delegate" the task of caring her own kids to her, on the slightest error, she will beat them, slap them, feel that they take up alot of her time.
Now my sister's happiest moment is going to work, tho she always complaint work is difficult. When I offererd her money to stay at home so that she can take care of her kids, she want higher pay (I offer to match her current) pay, bonus etc, in the end, I gv up.
If her kids no good, she blame me no take good care of them, now she tok to her co-worker and boss more then she tok to me, she said I interferring with her personal life when I stop her from toking on the phone for too long.......
My sister, divorced w 2 girls, aged 5 and 9, staying w me. She used to be her own boss, working as hawker, but biz no good, stall closed down, now she working as cashier for other hawker. Ever since she started working for other pp, she now always on the phone even when she at home, bo chap her two kids, tell me to take care of them and teach them homework, but her two kids abit noti, and I oso have to take care of my own 5 yo. If I "delegate" the task of caring her own kids to her, on the slightest error, she will beat them, slap them, feel that they take up alot of her time.
Now my sister's happiest moment is going to work, tho she always complaint work is difficult. When I offererd her money to stay at home so that she can take care of her kids, she want higher pay (I offer to match her current) pay, bonus etc, in the end, I gv up.
If her kids no good, she blame me no take good care of them, now she tok to her co-worker and boss more then she tok to me, she said I interferring with her personal life when I stop her from toking on the phone for too long.......