nightingale
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Dear experienced mummies,
Am going to be a first-time mum and am planning to breastfeed my baby as far as possible. I'm wondering whether to engage the services of a confinement lady, because I'm not too comfortable with having someone else in the house, and I figured that I would have to get up for night feeds anyway.
If my mum is able to help in the day with cooking and watching the child, and hubby and mother-in-law manage the household chores, do you think we will do okay without a confinement lady? Are there confinement ladies who come only during the day, and would this arrangement be sufficient? We have no domestic helper and do not plan to engage one.
Would appreciate your thoughts on this!
Am going to be a first-time mum and am planning to breastfeed my baby as far as possible. I'm wondering whether to engage the services of a confinement lady, because I'm not too comfortable with having someone else in the house, and I figured that I would have to get up for night feeds anyway.
If my mum is able to help in the day with cooking and watching the child, and hubby and mother-in-law manage the household chores, do you think we will do okay without a confinement lady? Are there confinement ladies who come only during the day, and would this arrangement be sufficient? We have no domestic helper and do not plan to engage one.
Would appreciate your thoughts on this!