Is third party reason enough to file a divorce?

[Ting]

yah, i hv my dd,it's good enuf...n as long as u can earn money to support u n ya bb, NO ONE will dare say anything....n no need to worry cant find another bf..hehehe

 

[tommyBoi]

To me, it's not about forgiving or forgetting. It's about a matter of choice. About how she wants to live on at that time and how i want to live on. If both of us agree that being together is still ultimately what we want, then it's a fresh new day again.

Hi Newbie.. mayb i ask u a simple qn, just give me a simple ans ok.. haha

If u r caught having affairs, 1) will u apologise and ask ur wife for forgiveness, or 2) u tell her wat u told us as above..

Just choose 1 or 2 please.
Cheers!!

 

[Jasmine]

Are you going to give another chance? why & why not?

NONO for me. If DH had an affair that means there's no-more trust between us, so i dont see the point of staying together as a couple.

Once bitten, twice shy .. I often tell DH too, think hard before having an affair cos once it happen that means no turning back.

 

[Ting]

hmmmm, but if our dh really hv affairs outside, we also ought to think abt ourselves if we had been a good wife....

 

[mae]

Exactly ting...we might question ourselves what shortcomings di we have to our husband or what made our dh unhappy about us.

 

[Ting]

yes mae, maybe we oso neglect them emotionally n physically lor..tts y they go out n look for other women...anyway, just wanna ask u mummies, IF ya dh hv an affair outside but is a only love no sex kind, wud u consider a divorce oso?

 

[xiaodaisy]

if hubby willing to change i don see why not giving him a chance n also out family a chance for it but once a glass is broken n mended back e scars will forever be dere.. altho mouth say forgive but deep in e heart u will always feel hurt wenever u tink of it...

 

[taSha's eLmo]

for this moment i can say that i'll leave him but if it really happens i dnt knw wat to do..i pray that it will not happen to me..i love my hubby dearly and i expect him to feel the same..that's the reason y we got married..if he still tink of hanky panky then might as well dont get married as it will affect our children...