beggingplease
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Sorry I dont know where to go.
Some years ago, i met my wife-fell in love got married. i love her extremely much. i only think of her and work. 2 years ago we have our first kid.
All this while we had been staying at her mothers place as she is the only child and only her mom left. To me its ok.
But now because of the child it seems that things are bad. Her mother didnt take care of her when young (grandmother) but now wants to re-live motherhood and fatherhood.
There is no respect that i am the husband or father. I have no right to say anything. Nothing about the food or the drink or the household furniture. the fridge i cant put anything- mother in law needs the whole fridge.
She fetch and collect my kid from school and then claim she cooks and feeds and cares for him like god. Backside also dont wash. The house so dirty until she wears slippers inside but the kid crawls around. Got part time maid. One comes to play with the kid for a while once a week. Another one comes to mop the floor and iron the clothes but complains that the "man" clothes difficult. (only man is me).
Anytime anything happen- This is MY GRANDCHILD and this is MY DAUGHTER. then must call uncle, aunty, grandfather, grandmather, niece, nephew to come blame me.
Everytime, "I dont allow this in MY house" I dont allow that in my HOUSE. I will choose the maid for my house. There will be no camera in my house. Dont touch anything in my house.
Even though the house is soooooooooooooooo dirty until got mold. the child can go hospital! The bed so dirty until the child got bites all over the face, body, legs.
All she want is the child to sleep in her room with her like some toy. I HATE HER HATE HER HATE HER.
I am tired. I worked so hard that i made sure my child dont need to worry.
But all i want to do is kill myself
I understand my wife problem. She cannt leave her mother alone. She also need to work because its not easy being 24 hour mother. She also need her friend and her time.
But what am i- sperm donor?
can i go through the next 18-20 years in this shit?
I am not saying my mother is anygood. but she has her own house and doesnt really interfere. She cannot as i tell her not too. yes she nags at me and life in general but never at the wife.
My wife and i relationship i think is dying. Why i dont like going to her mother's house.
I will either kill myself or her. Myself is easy, then my wife can move on.
I will miss my family i will miss my child. my heart is so heavy. god please kill me
Some years ago, i met my wife-fell in love got married. i love her extremely much. i only think of her and work. 2 years ago we have our first kid.
All this while we had been staying at her mothers place as she is the only child and only her mom left. To me its ok.
But now because of the child it seems that things are bad. Her mother didnt take care of her when young (grandmother) but now wants to re-live motherhood and fatherhood.
There is no respect that i am the husband or father. I have no right to say anything. Nothing about the food or the drink or the household furniture. the fridge i cant put anything- mother in law needs the whole fridge.
She fetch and collect my kid from school and then claim she cooks and feeds and cares for him like god. Backside also dont wash. The house so dirty until she wears slippers inside but the kid crawls around. Got part time maid. One comes to play with the kid for a while once a week. Another one comes to mop the floor and iron the clothes but complains that the "man" clothes difficult. (only man is me).
Anytime anything happen- This is MY GRANDCHILD and this is MY DAUGHTER. then must call uncle, aunty, grandfather, grandmather, niece, nephew to come blame me.
Everytime, "I dont allow this in MY house" I dont allow that in my HOUSE. I will choose the maid for my house. There will be no camera in my house. Dont touch anything in my house.
Even though the house is soooooooooooooooo dirty until got mold. the child can go hospital! The bed so dirty until the child got bites all over the face, body, legs.
All she want is the child to sleep in her room with her like some toy. I HATE HER HATE HER HATE HER.
I am tired. I worked so hard that i made sure my child dont need to worry.
But all i want to do is kill myself
I understand my wife problem. She cannt leave her mother alone. She also need to work because its not easy being 24 hour mother. She also need her friend and her time.
But what am i- sperm donor?
can i go through the next 18-20 years in this shit?
I am not saying my mother is anygood. but she has her own house and doesnt really interfere. She cannot as i tell her not too. yes she nags at me and life in general but never at the wife.
My wife and i relationship i think is dying. Why i dont like going to her mother's house.
I will either kill myself or her. Myself is easy, then my wife can move on.
I will miss my family i will miss my child. my heart is so heavy. god please kill me