My hubby n I were married for a year now. We got married after we get to know I'm pregnant. We were delighted on my pregnancy at first but his family side has opposition when we planned our marriage. I suffered a lot emotionally during that period as my hubby was the only son and he was brought up in a traditional family. His sister has humiliated and said lots of nasty words that u can imagine on me. My hubby is unable to help me out as his family hierarchy is to keep quiet n let them said whether they r right or wrong. I didn't want to go through our ROM but my hubby had promised me that everything will be better after our child is born. After our marriage, my hubby was staying at my Plc which is own by my mother n me. He was ok with this idea but his family members n friend starts saying he is "ru zhui" (married to girl's family) n in the end, during my pregnancy, I was alone taking care of myself most of the time when he returned to his Hse. I was very upset and his family members was always there finding fault on me every few weeks. I dare not tell my family members as I dun want them to get involve with them... Which will make things worst. After our son was born, my hubby came back n stay with me. (We go over my mil hse to stay on weekend) . Although he has disappointed me in his role as a husband, I was expecting him to be a good father which he promised he will be. He was very enthusiast to learn everything. We had a good peaceful 2 mths until I told him I'm getting a job because I'm financially dry up(my hubby only pay for my hospital bill at that point). Then came the problem, who is going to look after our child? We had alot of quarrel to put at the infant care(no vacancy), his mother(making lot of fuss)... in the end i quit my job to take care of our son. my hubby willing to give me $800 per month as salary for me where he will buy pampers n milk powder. i agreed to him though i know my expense per mth was $1200 as i own a car. I was thinking I could get a job after my son had a vacancy in the infant care. Lately, I notice my hubby does not play nor take care of our son, he will come home saying he is very tired and will sit down n play his phone till he sleeps. I'm tired of this kind of married life and I wanna out. Yesterday our son was down with fever, after seeing our son taken the medicine, he ask me to take care of him while he goes back to his mother's Plc to stay. Even today he is still not back yet except for 2 phone calls to check on our son. At this point of marriage, I have given up hope on my hubby, he indeed is a good man(no drinking, gambling or prostitute) but he did not give me the support I needed whether it's financially or mentally). I'm trying to find a job lately but nobody ask me to go for interview yet. I hope I could annual our marriage cos we are married for less than 3 yrs and am afraid he will contest for my son. And I do fear his family members will threaten me. I dare not talk much in my fb as they track on my whereabouts previously. My heart really cannot take it and I'm trying very hard to stay alive. I hope someone can advise, if I can annual my marriage n keep the custody of my child without him contest for it as I'm married to him after knowing my pregnancy.