pegpatme
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really wonder if there's anyone who is going through the same thing as me!! so that he/she could unds me and give me advice. =(
Yes, as all may know I'm a mother of 1. I'm actually a divorcee right after my baby is born. It's a long story back, all I can say is I did gave my ex severe chances before I made up my mind to file for divorce.
2Years later, I met this current BF of mine, at first it was kind a hard for him to accept my daughter. As he is young for his age but still he is older than me ! After sometimes and all the thing we've been through.. he accepted my daughter and now we are sort of living together with my mum , grandfather , my daughter and my maid.
Things doesn't goes well for my side cuz my mum is a single mum. She has an affair and thus my dad choose not to give her chance anymore and therefore she applied a re-sale 3rm flat which we are living now. Her BF paid the deposit of this house and we are still owning the renovation fee! He is a lousy guy who drink and gamble, and once he lost over 100k at RWS and my mum went to get loan for him. And now of course my mum is badly debted.
And I've been really trying my best to help with my family financial . I paid for my maid's salary, and also paid for my daughter 's expenses.
whenever my mum quarreled with her BF she will find me and vent anger on me.
And now my ex is paying for the maid salary, so I will be paying my mum $500 monthly! But she say my BF stays here is a hazard . Thus we will be paying the electric bills as well! Which is average $170 monthly.
I work as a admin, getting home like 1.2k monthly.
so can u guys tell me how much am I going to left after paying my mum alone!!
I have my own bills to pay, I pay for my own expenses as well!
If my mum appreciate for what i've did , i wouldnt be ranting here.
But she doesnt. She go around and tell her friends or our relatives that I am a useless person.
And even I bring my daughter out like after 8pm she will call and scold me.
She only scold and scold me. Even if I keep quiet when she scolds she will still say "why you not happy ar" even when i'm quiet.
she pushing me very hard.
I really couldnt take it.
What can i do about it!!!!
Yes, as all may know I'm a mother of 1. I'm actually a divorcee right after my baby is born. It's a long story back, all I can say is I did gave my ex severe chances before I made up my mind to file for divorce.
2Years later, I met this current BF of mine, at first it was kind a hard for him to accept my daughter. As he is young for his age but still he is older than me ! After sometimes and all the thing we've been through.. he accepted my daughter and now we are sort of living together with my mum , grandfather , my daughter and my maid.
Things doesn't goes well for my side cuz my mum is a single mum. She has an affair and thus my dad choose not to give her chance anymore and therefore she applied a re-sale 3rm flat which we are living now. Her BF paid the deposit of this house and we are still owning the renovation fee! He is a lousy guy who drink and gamble, and once he lost over 100k at RWS and my mum went to get loan for him. And now of course my mum is badly debted.
And I've been really trying my best to help with my family financial . I paid for my maid's salary, and also paid for my daughter 's expenses.
whenever my mum quarreled with her BF she will find me and vent anger on me.
And now my ex is paying for the maid salary, so I will be paying my mum $500 monthly! But she say my BF stays here is a hazard . Thus we will be paying the electric bills as well! Which is average $170 monthly.
I work as a admin, getting home like 1.2k monthly.
so can u guys tell me how much am I going to left after paying my mum alone!!
I have my own bills to pay, I pay for my own expenses as well!
If my mum appreciate for what i've did , i wouldnt be ranting here.
But she doesnt. She go around and tell her friends or our relatives that I am a useless person.
And even I bring my daughter out like after 8pm she will call and scold me.
She only scold and scold me. Even if I keep quiet when she scolds she will still say "why you not happy ar" even when i'm quiet.
she pushing me very hard.
I really couldnt take it.
What can i do about it!!!!
