Loisatsau
New Member
Hi there,
I went back to Malaysia for 6 months to delivery my baby (2 months before due + maternity leave). I had a beautiful image of a happy family living together and keen to return to Singapore with my small boy and start my new family life with my husband. However life sometimes does not turn out the way we planned. I'm going to be a single mom soon and currently stressed out and clueless on how I should bring up my baby alone here when I do not have any family members to rely on.
My baby is now 4 months old, living with my parents back in Malaysia, while I'm working full time in Singapore. My friend has suggested me to give up my HDB, and the wonderful job i have here; pack up and go back Malaysia to start my life there from zero. With that, my parents would be able to help me to take care of my son. He will get the love from his grandparents and I feel he would be growing up in a more 'balance' environment.
But giving up everything in Singapore and start from scratch in Malaysia is not easy for me either. I'm also thinking of bring him over SG when he reaches 2 y.o. But I will have to put him at the Childcare centre 7am-7pm while I go to work. Somehow I feel this would be tough for a single mom who needs to juggle work and baby at the same time. I do not know what to expect as this is my first and only son.
I'm stressed out as I have just received principle approval for my Singapore Citizenship. I would need to decide NOW if I should take up the citizenship and continue living here, or I should give up and return home.
Appreciate some advice from all of you, especially those who raise up their kid alone in Singapore !
I went back to Malaysia for 6 months to delivery my baby (2 months before due + maternity leave). I had a beautiful image of a happy family living together and keen to return to Singapore with my small boy and start my new family life with my husband. However life sometimes does not turn out the way we planned. I'm going to be a single mom soon and currently stressed out and clueless on how I should bring up my baby alone here when I do not have any family members to rely on.
My baby is now 4 months old, living with my parents back in Malaysia, while I'm working full time in Singapore. My friend has suggested me to give up my HDB, and the wonderful job i have here; pack up and go back Malaysia to start my life there from zero. With that, my parents would be able to help me to take care of my son. He will get the love from his grandparents and I feel he would be growing up in a more 'balance' environment.
But giving up everything in Singapore and start from scratch in Malaysia is not easy for me either. I'm also thinking of bring him over SG when he reaches 2 y.o. But I will have to put him at the Childcare centre 7am-7pm while I go to work. Somehow I feel this would be tough for a single mom who needs to juggle work and baby at the same time. I do not know what to expect as this is my first and only son.
I'm stressed out as I have just received principle approval for my Singapore Citizenship. I would need to decide NOW if I should take up the citizenship and continue living here, or I should give up and return home.
Appreciate some advice from all of you, especially those who raise up their kid alone in Singapore !