i guess it is a matter of time u get used to being a SAHM.. It took me one and the half year to adjust to adapt. It is not easy to become a SAHM. First of all, we are so used to working environment, and usually when i got home, housework and laundry are done. Kids are well fed and dinners are always ready. The moment i took on the role of SAHM, i have to learn to cook, take care of my 3 kids, housework, homework and etc.... And the most difficult part is our self-esteem. My "self"... I had lost it. And during that stage, more or less we just felt so insecure, felt we are nothing but just a housewife, worthless. We are down and no one understand us.I don't really know why...it's like I still look like before, just that I gained 5 kg. But somehow I feel unattractive, & I keep thinking hubs gonna have an affair, that he will no longer care bout me & will just treat me as the mother of his child. I don't really know how to explain this part of it either. =(
Now that i look back, there is nothing wrong with me at all. It's a passing phrase that every newly SAHM will go thru, i guess. Just trust yourself, that u had made the right decision. And you are fortunate and happy..
Once you are happy, positive thinking and attitude, u will want to look good too... Take good care of yourself so that u can provide the kind of care and love to your kid and hubby...