woofy55
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Hi Mummies
My boy is now 3.5yrs old in Nursery class. He's been attending the same school since 18th months. On and off.. he's been refusing school.. there's some point of time, we talked to him to say that Daddy/Mummy need to go to work.. he go to school... and he's okay and will walk into the class himself. Recently, I feel that he's getting more "sai nai" (pampered).. he's like wanting to be a baby again.
(But when times when we wanted him to know we love him .. we say he's my baby boy, he will say he is not a baby anymore - he's a big boy!)
Anyway, recently - he will just say he doesn't want to go to school again.. and want to stay at home. How can I encourage him to go to school again without resistant? We tried reminding him that he has some good friends that he enjoyed playing with in school.. he will be okay for a while.. but at the school door, he will resist again.
I think he enjoyed our company too much, he feels fine just hanging out with us. He's the only child. I wonder what else I can do to avoid resistance. Should we made family time more boring..? But it's not right, right?
Please share your experiences? Thanks!
My boy is now 3.5yrs old in Nursery class. He's been attending the same school since 18th months. On and off.. he's been refusing school.. there's some point of time, we talked to him to say that Daddy/Mummy need to go to work.. he go to school... and he's okay and will walk into the class himself. Recently, I feel that he's getting more "sai nai" (pampered).. he's like wanting to be a baby again.
(But when times when we wanted him to know we love him .. we say he's my baby boy, he will say he is not a baby anymore - he's a big boy!)
Anyway, recently - he will just say he doesn't want to go to school again.. and want to stay at home. How can I encourage him to go to school again without resistant? We tried reminding him that he has some good friends that he enjoyed playing with in school.. he will be okay for a while.. but at the school door, he will resist again.
I think he enjoyed our company too much, he feels fine just hanging out with us. He's the only child. I wonder what else I can do to avoid resistance. Should we made family time more boring..? But it's not right, right?
Please share your experiences? Thanks!