remarry also have to depends if we've got a good bf who can be a good husband & father to the child or not. hahaha! =PHi mummies,
Just wonder any single mum have plan of getting remarry? What if all his family know and accept your child but not the dad? Anyone got the plan of throwing a banquet dinner or just a simple ROM? Let's share share :biggrin:
Hi Ting,hi vendi! welcome back.
keke, i guess its been about 1 yr already? glad to hear that things are going well for your girl and bf!
pin is doing well with my bf too, keke, she's been calling him daddy since god-knows-when and though he is not arnd very often, she still misses him (though she keeps saying she doesnt). his family accepts us readily, so i dont have any issue with that. we are planning to marry in early feb 2012 and will be holding a wedding banquet dinner. his mum doesnt mind whatever wedding style we want, as long as we keep the tea ceremony traditions.
actually imo, since you have decided to live with your future inlaws, it would be best that they can accept you readily too, if you n your bf insist to marry against his father's wishings, things might not be as easy n smooth in the future. when are you planning to marry? i think best is to get your bf and his mother to talk and persuade his dad over before you both gets married. it's better for both you n your girl too, esp since you want to live with them.
Hi hi!Hi Ting,
Nice to hear from you again :001_302:
Ya lo my gal will also ask when her 'daddy' never meet us n will ask daddy lei n whenever she do her drawing now she will draw her daddy also lol :001_302:
I wanted a simple banquet but his mum don't allow so no choice just ROM will do. Mine still a long way too cos my granny just pass on so maybe end of 2012 bah. The mum also don't know how to tell her husband about this haiz but since still got time I will let her mum help me on this :001_302:
Hihi,Hi hi!
Give his Dad time. Am sure your girl will win over his heart. =)
How old are his folks? My hubby, as you can see from my earlier post, took 9-10 months before he told them. He wanted them to get to know me and like me as a person first. Kae, my son, is a very "dong shi" kid and won their hearts over when they met him. It took a while for Kae to totally feel comfy with them to really hug them and all though... ^.- But he really loves them lots.
Have his folks met your girl before? And how are your folks reacting to his mum's wishes?
Just give in to them first? Maybe next time, when they are more accepting, you can have renewal of vows celebration, and you can have a more memorable dinner/ lunch banquet then. =) That's what a friend of mine did. You can hold it with close friends & relatives which will make it more meaningful than the typical Chinese wedding dinner where you'll have to go around and say hi to even relations you have never really met before. ^.^ Hopefully some time would have passed and the relationship btw you all will be better by then. =)