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ger-mummy

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Two Parties involve; my hubby(A) & his supervisor(B)

A:Mi Xue 25yr: 842.... Meng Qi 817....
B: oh K, which one should I take
A: The girl all look nice, 917.... Ying Ying, this service is good
B: Boss, give me some suggestion , which one is better
A: any of them also good, decise yourselve
B: Have you tried before?
A: Ying Ying & Bei Bei tried before, the other two nope.
B: oh Ok. $80 include Hotel
A: NO

Chinese: (Original)
A:米雪25YR: 842.... 梦琪:817....
B: 哦K 我应该拿那一个
A: 长的都不错, 917.... 莹莹这个服务很好
B: 老大给意见, 我拿那一个吗
A: 几个都很好,你自己拿决定啦
B: 你Up过吗
A: 就莹莹和贝贝,其他两个没有试过
B: 知道了是八十包HOTEL吗
A: 没包




When I asked him who is ying ying & bei bei, he said he found on website & gave the number to his supervisor. I ask him did he tried, he replied he want to try but did not take action.

He think I will believe him....
 
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ger-mummy

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That is the case, he deleted the message. Lucky I took picture already.
He think I will believe him. Anyway, I intend to get PI to chk on him.

& file for divorce.
 
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Ting

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but his sms alr stated he tried b4 the YY n BB ma.. >.<"
anyway better to get a PI to get solid n concrete evidence.. these sms cant proof that he is cheating.
 
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missymelody

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Escorts? damn. Sorry but yr husband sucks. Even If wanna eat outside also rmb clean mouth and del msg la. Wtf leh!! I think if I read such msg from my hubby hp, he can simply f off on the spot!!
 
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ger-mummy

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He think he act pity, I will forgive him. BIG NO NO...
I alr get a PI to chk on him, but chk on him when he get his pay. SO meaning the week after next.

I wan him to know that girl are not easy nowaday....
 
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simon73

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ger-mummy said:
He think he act pity, I will forgive him. BIG NO NO...
I alr get a PI to chk on him, but chk on him when he get his pay. SO meaning the week after next.

I wan him to know that girl are not easy nowaday....
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Curious, is he a good responsible father & hushand....character etc?
 
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MyHappyKids

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Quote from your original post "A: Ying Ying & Bei Bei tried before, the other two nope."
So what does this line said?


ger-mummy said:
Two Parties involve; my hubby(A) & his supervisor(B)

A:Mi Xue 25yr: 842.... Meng Qi 817....
B: oh K, which one should I take
A: The girl all look nice, 917.... Ying Ying, this service is good
B: Boss, give me some suggestion , which one is better
A: any of them also good, decise yourselve
B: Have you tried before?
A: Ying Ying & Bei Bei tried before, the other two nope.
B: oh Ok. $80 include Hotel
A: NO

Chinese: (Original)
A:米雪25YR: 842.... 梦琪:817....
B: 哦K 我应该拿那一个
A: 长的都不错, 917.... 莹莹这个服务很好
B: 老大给意见, 我拿那一个吗
A: 几个都很好,你自己拿决定啦
B: 你Up过吗
A: 就莹莹和贝贝,其他两个没有试过
B: 知道了是八十包HOTEL吗
A: 没包




When I asked him who is ying ying & bei bei, he said he found on website & gave the number to his supervisor. I ask him did he tried, he replied he want to try but did not take action.

He think I will believe him....
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jean85

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If this happen to me, I will immediately divorce him. No room for negotiation and thats what I told my hubby before I marry him.
 
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ger-mummy

Member
My terms to him;
1) $1000 maintainance allowance for child (of coz as time goes on, gotta increase. He earn ard $4000 a month)
2) Every weekend she can stay over at their place, school holiday also can.
3) He can br her for holiday if he wan. (Provided my girl want it also)
4) Her birthday, I dun mind celebrate 1 day before/ after her actual day.
5) CNY, 1st day morning will be at my place. She will go over in the afternoon.
(His parent only goes pai nian in the late afternoon)
6) School function, meet parent session will allow him to go.

Anyone think my terms is very lenient or demanding? I think is ok
 
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Gem2505

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ger-mummy said:
My terms to him;
1) $1000 maintainance allowance for child (of coz as time goes on, gotta increase. He earn ard $4000 a month)
2) Every weekend she can stay over at their place, school holiday also can.
3) He can br her for holiday if he wan. (Provided my girl want it also)
4) Her birthday, I dun mind celebrate 1 day before/ after her actual day.
5) CNY, 1st day morning will be at my place. She will go over in the afternoon.
(His parent only goes pai nian in the late afternoon)
6) School function, meet parent session will allow him to go.

Anyone think my terms is very lenient or demanding? I think is ok
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wao. i think u're very lenient already. in my case, i will take $ but not let him see children at all.
how old is ur kid? sure u'll win the case? since his salary is quite ok. u alone can handle?
coz i think the court will weigh alot of factors when giving the child custody. if he's all out to fight, u might have a tough time on winning the case. but if child is below 7 or 8, think mummy will have higher chances.

is this the only sms u saw? any calls? or has he been home late or give excuses to go out with friends till late?
no chance of having a whole family back?
 
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simon73

Member
ger-mummy said:
My terms to him;
1) $1000 maintainance allowance for child (of coz as time goes on, gotta increase. He earn ard $4000 a month)
2) Every weekend she can stay over at their place, school holiday also can.
3) He can br her for holiday if he wan. (Provided my girl want it also)
4) Her birthday, I dun mind celebrate 1 day before/ after her actual day.
5) CNY, 1st day morning will be at my place. She will go over in the afternoon.
(His parent only goes pai nian in the late afternoon)
6) School function, meet parent session will allow him to go.

Anyone think my terms is very lenient or demanding? I think is ok
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Hi...is your decision final. No more nego?
Sometime have to spare a though for the child.....
 
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ger-mummy

Member
The only message I saw. Other he hide it very well. He like to go out to drink till wee hours. If he speak the truth, I might consider give him a chance, but he keep deny & deny...

My child is 2YO plus. I am working since after my give back.
 
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Gem2505

Member
ger-mummy said:
The only message I saw. Other he hide it very well. He like to go out to drink till wee hours. If he speak the truth, I might consider give him a chance, but he keep deny & deny...

My child is 2YO plus. I am working since after my give back.
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ic.. just have to make sure u didnt wrong him on the only msg u saw. maybe the content was written out of fun or maybe his guy frens told me or what then he dont want to lose ego when his friend asked him for comments.
sekali he really didnt do it.
ur kid still so small, if possible, talk things out and see if can solve it a not.
most impt is, if u can control ur hubby's $ after this incident, u will be able to hold the family together.

i believe once a guy has too much $ to spare, they will find many KANG TAO.
so i usually make sure my hubby $ are all well taken care of by me.
his credit card bills, our housing bills, hp bills all that, will go thru my hands.
when his pay come in, how much he take home, how much $ going out, where he spend all his $, i will know.
i also will show him where i spend all my $ all that.
 
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ger-mummy

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On sunday, I showed the message to my uncle. My uncle ask him how he know the two girl service was good. He was thinking & din give any answer. My uncle straight away told him, if u din do there is no need for you to think of the answer.

I din show the message to any of the elderly include my parent, that day they keep ask me for answer to give him a chance. All of vexed I show my uncle.
 
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Gem2505

Member
ger-mummy said:
On sunday, I showed the message to my uncle. My uncle ask him how he know the two girl service was good. He was thinking & din give any answer. My uncle straight away told him, if u din do there is no need for you to think of the answer.

I din show the message to any of the elderly include my parent, that day they keep ask me for answer to give him a chance. All of vexed I show my uncle.
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haiz. such situation, very heart ache. i would be at lost. but true enough, if he didnt do, he dont need to think.
that shows he's guilty. he knows u going to file for divorce? did he say anything or felt sorry about what happened?
 
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