glam-mummy
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I'm a soon to be single mum. Been married for 2 coming 3 year. Through out my marriage this wasn't as smooth sailing for us. The moment we moved in to our matrimonial flat, he started to get violent. We would have physical fights even throught out my pregnancy. After a while I stopped Being physical. He didn't stop. Throughout all these fights, he said that I was the one who started. He said I provoked him with the things I say. I admit I was not the best wife and I did really crazy and extreme things when we were fighting.
I've gotten a PPO against him and on Christmas day, he hit me again. I reported him to the police, he kept saying that I'm selfish and I nv think for our son if he have to go to jail. He said he loved me a lot and he can't believe that I called the police for these type of family matter. He said he dont deserve all these from me since I was the one who provoked him with my words. To him, he felt ashame to have a wife like me who reports her own husband to the police.
Now he is seeking a lawyer to file for a separation. I'm feeling very upset and slightly depressed. I worked so hard to keep this family together. Till date, even aft I reported him to the police, I state this is a family issue and I do not want to bring this matter to court.
Has anyone been through similar situation? How can I move on with my life? Each time before I sleep, I keep thinking about we used to cuddle each other to bed, I don't know how to fall asleep without crying myself to bed.
I've gotten a PPO against him and on Christmas day, he hit me again. I reported him to the police, he kept saying that I'm selfish and I nv think for our son if he have to go to jail. He said he loved me a lot and he can't believe that I called the police for these type of family matter. He said he dont deserve all these from me since I was the one who provoked him with my words. To him, he felt ashame to have a wife like me who reports her own husband to the police.
Now he is seeking a lawyer to file for a separation. I'm feeling very upset and slightly depressed. I worked so hard to keep this family together. Till date, even aft I reported him to the police, I state this is a family issue and I do not want to bring this matter to court.
Has anyone been through similar situation? How can I move on with my life? Each time before I sleep, I keep thinking about we used to cuddle each other to bed, I don't know how to fall asleep without crying myself to bed.