Before marriage, I told my fil dat I dun mind staying together. But now, after I given birth, I regret Wat I said before...
Babies cry a lot. My baby cries very loudly at times. And there are a few occasion my fil will come over and ask whether Isit time for the baby to drink her milk. When ever the baby cry a lot and a bit too loudly he will jus come over and ask the same question. He give me an impression that he feel irritated by the crying. My bil will bring his 1y/o boy over to ask his mother to look after every week day. I dunno if I'm thinking too much or Wat. But there was once when my baby is crying, he taught the boy a new word "cao si ren" very noisy in Chinese. We are staying in a 3 room flat and I was in the room at that time, I can hear clearly in the room that he is teaching the boy that..
They bought over the corridor many years ago, and the window in my room is always closed. Every evening, when the boy is active. He will run about and many times he run to my room. When my bil maid is busy doing other things, my mil will help to look after the boy. She will bring the boy out of my room as the boy will try to touch almost every thing. She will den close my room door. I noe she doesn't wan the boy to disturb my dd, but hello my room window is closed shut. And we only have our fan on. Do you think the air is good for the baby?
Our room doesn't have enough sunlight shinning in as they bought over the corridor many years ago, and my room is jus next to it. Our room window is block by dat corridor, also they always closed their corridor window. We have to clear that area up for my maid to come next week, so by den I guess my room will be even darker.
My mil did help to take care of my dd. she help me carry up my dd when she is crying while I'm nt inside my room. I don't have much choice but to employ a maid to help take care of my dd when I need to return to work, cos I seriously do not think my mil can help to take care of my dd when I'll be at work. Cos till now she only carry my dd nv help to feed her milk etc. I can't ask my bil maid to help me always as she need to care for the boy.
Ytd night my dd was crying again I told my husband dat maybe dd is crying cos she haven poo in 2 days. It was ard 8-9pm at that time. He went to the living room to ask his brother who is there to fetch the boy home. His mother over heard and say loudly why bb nv poo nv say. Den his father ask to bring down the bb to neighbourhood clinic to check up. I tell my husban. I dont wan to bring the baby out at night and I don't think I shld bring baby to neighbourhood clinic instead of pd. do he went out to get some gripe water for the baby to try first.. I haven taken my dinner at that time. My mil tell me to take my dinner and she will help to look after my bb. I tell her I don't have appetite. But she still wan me to eat. I told her I rly don't have appetite den she walk away unhappy.
I don't like ppl telling me to do dis or do dat. I'm so nt use to their life style. It's so different from mine.
Babies cry a lot. My baby cries very loudly at times. And there are a few occasion my fil will come over and ask whether Isit time for the baby to drink her milk. When ever the baby cry a lot and a bit too loudly he will jus come over and ask the same question. He give me an impression that he feel irritated by the crying. My bil will bring his 1y/o boy over to ask his mother to look after every week day. I dunno if I'm thinking too much or Wat. But there was once when my baby is crying, he taught the boy a new word "cao si ren" very noisy in Chinese. We are staying in a 3 room flat and I was in the room at that time, I can hear clearly in the room that he is teaching the boy that..
They bought over the corridor many years ago, and the window in my room is always closed. Every evening, when the boy is active. He will run about and many times he run to my room. When my bil maid is busy doing other things, my mil will help to look after the boy. She will bring the boy out of my room as the boy will try to touch almost every thing. She will den close my room door. I noe she doesn't wan the boy to disturb my dd, but hello my room window is closed shut. And we only have our fan on. Do you think the air is good for the baby?
Our room doesn't have enough sunlight shinning in as they bought over the corridor many years ago, and my room is jus next to it. Our room window is block by dat corridor, also they always closed their corridor window. We have to clear that area up for my maid to come next week, so by den I guess my room will be even darker.
My mil did help to take care of my dd. she help me carry up my dd when she is crying while I'm nt inside my room. I don't have much choice but to employ a maid to help take care of my dd when I need to return to work, cos I seriously do not think my mil can help to take care of my dd when I'll be at work. Cos till now she only carry my dd nv help to feed her milk etc. I can't ask my bil maid to help me always as she need to care for the boy.
Ytd night my dd was crying again I told my husband dat maybe dd is crying cos she haven poo in 2 days. It was ard 8-9pm at that time. He went to the living room to ask his brother who is there to fetch the boy home. His mother over heard and say loudly why bb nv poo nv say. Den his father ask to bring down the bb to neighbourhood clinic to check up. I tell my husban. I dont wan to bring the baby out at night and I don't think I shld bring baby to neighbourhood clinic instead of pd. do he went out to get some gripe water for the baby to try first.. I haven taken my dinner at that time. My mil tell me to take my dinner and she will help to look after my bb. I tell her I don't have appetite. But she still wan me to eat. I told her I rly don't have appetite den she walk away unhappy.
I don't like ppl telling me to do dis or do dat. I'm so nt use to their life style. It's so different from mine.
Jia you!