Mama Ina
Well-Known Member
I can only say i setuju with u.. And wat ur hubby did also consider noble u know.. I also will do it if later part lets say our parent tua and need so much care and even we have to pay for medical i won't mind.. Kalau dpt adik bradik gitu i can only say "Pegi Jahanam lahh".. That is why lahh for now aje in my head die2 i nak umah sendiri.. Cos now both side masih alhamdulillah even though my mum tu yg byk penyakit she still have a husband pe.. So to me this is the time i have to learn independent.. Cos later part in the future we won't know wat happen and bila lagi aku nak blajar sendiri... And jugak still my MIL masih strong tu pasal i sound BIL ti if got house must bring along the parent IF the parent still can't get their own home.. Lagipun parent masih strong masih boleh tolong jaga anak pe so they shud be ok wat if MIL move with them.. So no issue nye.. Lain ar kalau parent dah tua.. Sometime people tout i am so bad due to wat i want.. Anyway its ok i redha pada apa org lain nak think abt me.. I too can have a good relationship macam mana Ana and u with ur MIL but then not if we stay under one roof.. Still can manage but ada kalanye susah jugak ar nak maintain.. :embarrassed: I always treat equally toward my MIL & my own mum.. Apa yg ku beri pada my own mum i will give the same to MIL.. Everyone equal noh..susah eh bab ginik suma.. my hubby bawak his mum so no choice i have to stay with her together .. coz memang dari dulu nenek yg jaga his 2 girls.. so dorang takleh pisah ngan nenek dorang.. n his kakak n abg taknak jaga her.. n paling kelakar sekali.. dorang can even say to my hubby.. kalau dah jaga.. mummy sakit hubby kena tanggung suma.. aku mcm nak nangis tau bila dorang ckp mcm tu.. tapi my hubby ckp takper.. biar dier angkat suma.. tanggung suma.... n now she jaga my anak i sometimes pity her.. my 2 gerls kalau kurang ajar with her i scold them ... biasalah budak2 kan.. dah terlalu manja.. suma nenek buatkan.. dorang pon kadang2 ingat dorang dah pandai.. i ajar dorang buat keja umah suma.. but mcm ina ckp.. suma mother in law yg masak.. baju pon she basuh then jaga si kecik lagik.. so sekarang i jarang kluar umah berdua... kalau nak kluar slalu malam after bayu dah tido.. weekends kalau bleh i jaga the housen baby also... so consider my own house kan.. so i yg kena jaga da house.. kalau weekends nak kluar i will bring the kids .. but if anak dara dah kluar with their own mum.. then i nak kluar with hubby.. i make sure baby dah betol2 senang hati.. but i bersyukur my anak dara rapat with me.. bleh jaga baby... what i want to do now is to give the best for my mother in law ... kalau sakit i will call orang urut n bring her to see a good doc .. furthermore dier pon gi poly every 6 mnths to chk on her penyakit.. but so far so good.. kencing manis dier tak rabak..in control.. but tu .. she m'sian.. everytime go poly amik ubat for 6 mths.. we kena $300 to 400 satu kali bayar.. pengsan ahh..