jaybaobei
Active Member
I have a pair of 2yrs 3mths old twins. now expecting with #3.
all along i have been doing all this tasks (bath, sterilize milk btl, make FM, make prune/ribena drink in their sippy cup,cut their nails) without entrusting to my maid cos she is very blur & dishonest kind meaning if she happens to see my boy/girl fall down or knock their head, she will keep mute. i even explained to her that i need to know how they fall/knock so that i can monitor their bruises/wounds. not to scold her. but she still keep mute when they got bruises.
there was few occasions when i tell her to look after them & im in kitchen, suddenly my boy/girl cried & i rushed to them. i saw her carrying my girl/boy and i asked her what happens. she just say "nothing" or "i dont't know". i was so pissed off cos she was with them & how could she not know anything.
last nite at my dad house, she yelled at me in front of my dad & eldest sis's maid. both maids were so shocked, asking how can a maid yelled at her mdm. i told them already immune to her madness. what pissed me off was she raised her voice & lied in front of me thinking im a nerd not knowing what happens. last 2 wks she told my dad maid that i might be pregnant cos never saw me use/throw pad & have morning sickness. but last nite she yelled at me saying if my dad maid never tell her, she will never know that im pregnant. she was the KPO one to tell others but now she pointed her fingers at me. i have not consult gynac yet. my intention was to tell her that i need to hand over to her cos im pregnant (after consultation) but she yelled at me first. she said my dad maid know that im pregnant. reason being my dad & eldest sister told their respective maid that they must assist me when im at my dad house (to lighten my load). tats how they came to know that & not me who tell them personally.
all along my gastric is not that good. will tend to produce gas if have late meal. so that time i do not know that im pregnant & thought maybe is gastric flu. so that time i tell my maid that my gastric not so good so try not to cook too much for my share. last nite she yelled at me (in front of both maids) saying actually im pregnant & not gastric flu. i was so mad cos in the 1st place i really clueless about my nauseous (thought is gastric flu) & even i found out that im pregnant, do i have to clarify/explain to her? can't i have my privacy?
btw, she always like to argue back whenever i pointed her mistakes. but last nite she was too much cos she raised her voice & pointed at me. that time we are in master bedroom. even my sisters in kitchen also can hear her yelling.
my sister advised to change since now im still in early stage and can afford to teach the new maid. my sis said my maid was very rude to talk back & yelled at me. even she have any grudges, she should wait until we reach home & settle and not yelled at my dad house.
but all my family members & the 2 maids are not surprised about my maid yelling cos all along she tends to have abit mental case. even the 2 maids also hardly talk to her. i even asked why they dont't talk to her, they said my maid seem abit weird. so last nite incident was not very surprising to them.
i need advise to keep her (close 2 eyes) or change new one?
will she yell at me again?
only god knows...
all along i have been doing all this tasks (bath, sterilize milk btl, make FM, make prune/ribena drink in their sippy cup,cut their nails) without entrusting to my maid cos she is very blur & dishonest kind meaning if she happens to see my boy/girl fall down or knock their head, she will keep mute. i even explained to her that i need to know how they fall/knock so that i can monitor their bruises/wounds. not to scold her. but she still keep mute when they got bruises.
there was few occasions when i tell her to look after them & im in kitchen, suddenly my boy/girl cried & i rushed to them. i saw her carrying my girl/boy and i asked her what happens. she just say "nothing" or "i dont't know". i was so pissed off cos she was with them & how could she not know anything.
last nite at my dad house, she yelled at me in front of my dad & eldest sis's maid. both maids were so shocked, asking how can a maid yelled at her mdm. i told them already immune to her madness. what pissed me off was she raised her voice & lied in front of me thinking im a nerd not knowing what happens. last 2 wks she told my dad maid that i might be pregnant cos never saw me use/throw pad & have morning sickness. but last nite she yelled at me saying if my dad maid never tell her, she will never know that im pregnant. she was the KPO one to tell others but now she pointed her fingers at me. i have not consult gynac yet. my intention was to tell her that i need to hand over to her cos im pregnant (after consultation) but she yelled at me first. she said my dad maid know that im pregnant. reason being my dad & eldest sister told their respective maid that they must assist me when im at my dad house (to lighten my load). tats how they came to know that & not me who tell them personally.
all along my gastric is not that good. will tend to produce gas if have late meal. so that time i do not know that im pregnant & thought maybe is gastric flu. so that time i tell my maid that my gastric not so good so try not to cook too much for my share. last nite she yelled at me (in front of both maids) saying actually im pregnant & not gastric flu. i was so mad cos in the 1st place i really clueless about my nauseous (thought is gastric flu) & even i found out that im pregnant, do i have to clarify/explain to her? can't i have my privacy?
btw, she always like to argue back whenever i pointed her mistakes. but last nite she was too much cos she raised her voice & pointed at me. that time we are in master bedroom. even my sisters in kitchen also can hear her yelling.
my sister advised to change since now im still in early stage and can afford to teach the new maid. my sis said my maid was very rude to talk back & yelled at me. even she have any grudges, she should wait until we reach home & settle and not yelled at my dad house.
but all my family members & the 2 maids are not surprised about my maid yelling cos all along she tends to have abit mental case. even the 2 maids also hardly talk to her. i even asked why they dont't talk to her, they said my maid seem abit weird. so last nite incident was not very surprising to them.
i need advise to keep her (close 2 eyes) or change new one?
will she yell at me again?
only god knows...