trying to conceive, please help & advice
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quincy1986
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hey dont fret.
i have also been trying for about 2 years.
you have seen a gynae already right?
firstly how's the results from your check up with gynae, for both you and your husband?
what did chinese doctor say?
i have also been trying for about 2 years.
you have seen a gynae already right?
firstly how's the results from your check up with gynae, for both you and your husband?
what did chinese doctor say?
quincy1986
Active Member
feel free to further spell out what is the slight problem with your hubby.
i have mentioned this in another thread: my hubby is going to be 40 this year. last year's sperm analysis shows that he has got abnormal sperms.
last year's scanning shows that i have cysts on both my ovaries but gynae advise that surgery is not required at this moment.
recently 1 lady ttc for about 1 year and manage to conceive.
previously her hubby went for sperm analysis and her gynae gave her hubby some supplements that is believed to help generate more healthy sperms.
then she herself is constantly following her tcm doc's advise, like keeping her womb warm
and she has been taking EPO, pre-conception multi vitamins and royal jelly prior to that.
so i would like to follow her ways in diligently taking supplements and taking advises from doctors.
i have mentioned this in another thread: my hubby is going to be 40 this year. last year's sperm analysis shows that he has got abnormal sperms.
last year's scanning shows that i have cysts on both my ovaries but gynae advise that surgery is not required at this moment.
recently 1 lady ttc for about 1 year and manage to conceive.
previously her hubby went for sperm analysis and her gynae gave her hubby some supplements that is believed to help generate more healthy sperms.
then she herself is constantly following her tcm doc's advise, like keeping her womb warm
and she has been taking EPO, pre-conception multi vitamins and royal jelly prior to that.
so i would like to follow her ways in diligently taking supplements and taking advises from doctors.
hi, he having difficulty to ejaulated, sometimes pull out, don't want to continue anymore, tired or give up, either continue by HJ or that it, let it naturally go back as it is.
HJ him before, average around 7-9 minutes, when ejaulated, abit only, swollen too.
recently change to another chinese sinseh, recommend by a friend from the forum, as mention before, sometimes he pull out, don't want to continue anymore, without ejaulated, go back to sleep, the next day, when wake up, underwear soak with semens (sometimes abit of blood), even didn't realise whole night sleeping.
looks abit heathy, menses not regular timing, luckly have stock in my handbag & office locker all the times in cases.
go back & see the chinese sinseh, he say, maybe the medicine still not fully accepted in our body system, takes sometimes. already going 1/2 year already.
HJ him before, average around 7-9 minutes, when ejaulated, abit only, swollen too.
recently change to another chinese sinseh, recommend by a friend from the forum, as mention before, sometimes he pull out, don't want to continue anymore, without ejaulated, go back to sleep, the next day, when wake up, underwear soak with semens (sometimes abit of blood), even didn't realise whole night sleeping.
looks abit heathy, menses not regular timing, luckly have stock in my handbag & office locker all the times in cases.
go back & see the chinese sinseh, he say, maybe the medicine still not fully accepted in our body system, takes sometimes. already going 1/2 year already.
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quincy1986
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@CLady
this situation needs medical intervention other than chinese medicine.
when you saw your gynae previously he already have this problem?
this situation needs medical intervention other than chinese medicine.
when you saw your gynae previously he already have this problem?
quincy1986
Active Member
i see. i really empathize with you.
i am not a specialist. but i feel both your condition needs time to recover with medical attention.
and no matter how long the time, please be patient.
so very sorry if i am very frank here.
i suggest both of you go through all the treatments first until maybe your menses is regular then you think of baby making.
i am saying this with extreme concern for both your health.
please take real good care first.
i am not a specialist. but i feel both your condition needs time to recover with medical attention.
and no matter how long the time, please be patient.
so very sorry if i am very frank here.
i suggest both of you go through all the treatments first until maybe your menses is regular then you think of baby making.
i am saying this with extreme concern for both your health.
please take real good care first.
hi, thanks for your concern, I'm fine, just my hubby slight problem only.
last time when this happen, all of us even both our family members are very concern about his health,
our sex life comes to halt for few months, he feel very depress too.
now things look better, can have sex already but difficulty to "shoot" , even if "shoot", not much, sperm count lower
I think the chance of me get baby is very minimum.
no worry, I'm OK, used to it, no need to say sorry.
hows both of you now, after taking supplements and taking advises from doctors ?
take care too.
last time when this happen, all of us even both our family members are very concern about his health,
our sex life comes to halt for few months, he feel very depress too.
now things look better, can have sex already but difficulty to "shoot" , even if "shoot", not much, sperm count lower
I think the chance of me get baby is very minimum.
no worry, I'm OK, used to it, no need to say sorry.
hows both of you now, after taking supplements and taking advises from doctors ?
take care too.
quincy1986
Active Member
trying to conceive, please help & advice
hope your hubby dont rush into things.
my hubby sometimes feel upset that i'm still not pregnant too. i am trying to control my emotional stress so that i may get pregnant someday. i havent see the effect of the supplements yet because actually i have just started yesterday. wish us luck
hope your hubby dont rush into things.
my hubby sometimes feel upset that i'm still not pregnant too. i am trying to control my emotional stress so that i may get pregnant someday. i havent see the effect of the supplements yet because actually i have just started yesterday. wish us luck
pipilili
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Caldy: Unless you are getting old(in your mid 30s) else you should just relax and try monthly. While reading, I notice its your hubby having probs. I hope you don't mind me saying but I think your hubby needs to see a urologist. My urologist seems to be good seeing male patients cos I see his clinic filled w men! I see him for UTI and I am a female la.
hi, I 30s soon, trying all this year, still not pregnant yet, hubby slight problems due to accident after we married, see few specialist, still the same, please share with me your urulogist contact details, thanks in advance from me 1st.
hi, Dr Goh Shen Li, she from Kandang Kerbau Hospital.
hi, try once, no luck, scared to try again.
Hi, Clady, I can't help but want to tell u n hubby not to get depressed. I agree it's important for your hubby to seek medical treatment but at the same time relax n don't stress yourselves out. Wish u luck n success with the urologist.
I m in my late 30s n I have been trying maybe about close to 2 years in total. At first Been trying almost a year Then Early last year Gynae found a growing cyst at my ovary so I went for the op to increase the chances of conception thereafter. continued to try few months later, and my hubby was getting impatient again after half a year when there was no 'news'. In Dec I went for my annual check up and told Gynae I want to do IVF as I don't want to wait. Gynae advised its been only 6 months n we should actually try for a year after the surgery, she said maybe I can come bk in 3 months again. I told myself I won't be so lucky n be pregnant within 3 months, but will give myself just a little more time n believe i will come back in 3 months. then lo n behold, I think it's when I relieve myself of the stress then to our delight, I found in Jan that I am pregnant! We are both very very happy n couldnt believe it. .. finally!
So I know what it is like to try n hope n have no success, it can get demoralising. But I think it is really important that u seek medical help where needed n not stress out too much. All the best!
I m in my late 30s n I have been trying maybe about close to 2 years in total. At first Been trying almost a year Then Early last year Gynae found a growing cyst at my ovary so I went for the op to increase the chances of conception thereafter. continued to try few months later, and my hubby was getting impatient again after half a year when there was no 'news'. In Dec I went for my annual check up and told Gynae I want to do IVF as I don't want to wait. Gynae advised its been only 6 months n we should actually try for a year after the surgery, she said maybe I can come bk in 3 months again. I told myself I won't be so lucky n be pregnant within 3 months, but will give myself just a little more time n believe i will come back in 3 months. then lo n behold, I think it's when I relieve myself of the stress then to our delight, I found in Jan that I am pregnant! We are both very very happy n couldnt believe it. .. finally!
So I know what it is like to try n hope n have no success, it can get demoralising. But I think it is really important that u seek medical help where needed n not stress out too much. All the best!
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hi tigermama,
congratulations to both of you, all the best, take care.
I have no problems, just my hubby slight problems as mention before.
the chances of me getting pregnant very slim.
PregnantSg
Member
hello CLady,
don't give up hoping for a baby! u can ask your husband to try these 7 lifestyle tips that can help you conceive. praying that you will receive good news soon!