crystalpink
Member
Hi all,
Recently, I was being molested by my colleague fm a diff departmt. As i'm new to this co, I dare not bring up the issue to my close colleague within my departmt. When I 1st came in, he volunteered to help me "set up" my PC. (He is an IT programmer). Fm then on, even if my PC doesn't encounter any prob, he will still come very often to "repair" it n gives me "excuses" that my pc needs servicing etc. My female colleague has been hinting me that he has been trying to get close to me. But i'm already married..n i hv been keeping a low profile in my co, so perhaps not many of them kw I'm married n maybe becoz i'm petite, people thought that i'm still a fresh grad. As time goes by, i realized he is very chatty n helpful to all colleagues, not only me, so i did not take any precautions against him. Then one day, when i was on my way bk hme, I realized he had been following me cos i knew he is not staying in my area. He started to chit chat with me n he claimed that he was going to visit a frd. Later, i had a feeling somethg was not rgt so I purposely walked a big round in case he was trying to kw my address. I began to enter a lift which was not my blk hoping that he would walk off.( there is a cctv at the lift area)But unfortunately, he came in with me n hugged me tightly on my waist n touch my buttock and kept asking" What is yr size of waist? it is so small..." I'm so shocked n scared n i tried to struggle but he still hold me tightly until i screamed loudly, he got no choice n let go. The door lift finally opened n he went off, leaving me behind in the lift. I was very furious over this issue n keep brooding over it..
I did not dare tell my colleagues in case they started to gossip until news spread to other departmt. I wish to keep a low profile as i wanted to concentrate in my work but somehw i feel that i'm greatly affected by his actions esp he is still in my co!!
I dare not even let my hubby kw abt it as i'm afraid he will ask me to lodge a police report. I feel really confuse n frustrated.. anyone can advise me???
Recently, I was being molested by my colleague fm a diff departmt. As i'm new to this co, I dare not bring up the issue to my close colleague within my departmt. When I 1st came in, he volunteered to help me "set up" my PC. (He is an IT programmer). Fm then on, even if my PC doesn't encounter any prob, he will still come very often to "repair" it n gives me "excuses" that my pc needs servicing etc. My female colleague has been hinting me that he has been trying to get close to me. But i'm already married..n i hv been keeping a low profile in my co, so perhaps not many of them kw I'm married n maybe becoz i'm petite, people thought that i'm still a fresh grad. As time goes by, i realized he is very chatty n helpful to all colleagues, not only me, so i did not take any precautions against him. Then one day, when i was on my way bk hme, I realized he had been following me cos i knew he is not staying in my area. He started to chit chat with me n he claimed that he was going to visit a frd. Later, i had a feeling somethg was not rgt so I purposely walked a big round in case he was trying to kw my address. I began to enter a lift which was not my blk hoping that he would walk off.( there is a cctv at the lift area)But unfortunately, he came in with me n hugged me tightly on my waist n touch my buttock and kept asking" What is yr size of waist? it is so small..." I'm so shocked n scared n i tried to struggle but he still hold me tightly until i screamed loudly, he got no choice n let go. The door lift finally opened n he went off, leaving me behind in the lift. I was very furious over this issue n keep brooding over it..
I did not dare tell my colleagues in case they started to gossip until news spread to other departmt. I wish to keep a low profile as i wanted to concentrate in my work but somehw i feel that i'm greatly affected by his actions esp he is still in my co!!
I dare not even let my hubby kw abt it as i'm afraid he will ask me to lodge a police report. I feel really confuse n frustrated.. anyone can advise me???
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