When is a good timing to have 2nd baby?

[Triquetra]

I just gave birth to my 2nd baby,My kids r 2yrs gap apart.. i feel 2-4yrs gap is good enough,too far apart,things they play/learn will be very diff n hard to play with each other.. i wanted to have a 3yr gap as i think its best timing.. at least the toddler will be able to speak n understand words/behave well enough.. my son is very notti n active at 2.5yrs old now while newborn require quite alot attention too.. im taking care of them alone during daytime so its kinda hard when the toddler cant understand my words n dont behave while the newborn is crying.. we had to separate both of them in diff rooms to avoid my son from bullying baby girl..

Do the kids sleep in the same room?
My daughter still wakes up and cries for milk in the middle of the night, I am so worried that the 2 kids will disturb each other's sleep since both will be sleeping with us.

 

[shopaholic]

Hi will your 2 yr old child get agitated easily when the baby cry at night and are u staying in the same room with both kids.

Not really. I slept with the elder one in another room while hubby slept with the baby.