I am working in the day, taking care of my daughter after work, having problems falling asleep at night and then waking up in the middle of the night to pee or make milk for my daughter. Totally drained!
I intend to only start preparing the baby stuffs during my maternity leave. Need to clear up some space for his stuffs, clean the room, do some last minute shopping and so on...
I also wish to spend some time with my daughter before her didi's arrival. I am afraid that baby will arrive early since his jiejie also arrived 8 days before EDD.
I worked until the week the baby was delivered. She's overdue by 4 days. I have chosen elective natural birth but ended up with an emergency c-section on a weekend (Sunday to be specified). Hence, my maternity leave started on a weekday.
I've colleagues who chose to start their maternity leave 1 week before their EDD.
i worked till i deliver too.. so i get to spent the most time with baby when she's born.. it's my first pregnancy, and i was overdue by 5 days.. it's sat, i went in to see gynae in the morning, then went into hospital for induction..
my mummy gave birth to her first child (my sister) past EDD too..
everyone is different.. my auntie gave birth 3 weeks in advance of EDD..
so, up to individual how they want to plan their ML.. some do some shopping before the delivery, so they took some days off in advance..
Chinese 7th month is near, I have ex-colleague who ask for inducation in advance of her EDD as she dont want her baby to be born during 7th month.. so for those who ask for induction in advance of EDD, it is easier to plan for the ML..
for those of us who waited for the call to deliver, it is harder to plan.. =s
For me not chance to apply for Materity Leave as BB comes earlier than expected
But my original plan was 1 week before my due delivery.
It's good to save as much as u can for after birth usage as u know there will be couple of visit for injections.