blackpiggy
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yeah, he's overseas, even if you dont go over to your mom's he dont know or cant do anything, just do it once and prove to him you can handle it.actually even if he insist u stay at ur mum's place, u can refuse? not like he will know.. just do it n PROVE to him u can do it. then he wont disallow u to stay at ur own hse alr.
whether you can cope or not, is up to u to tell him, not he tell u. u should know your own capabilities right?he is afraid i cant cope with bb at home. then say me n bb at home only for 3 weeks, later anything happen, nobody can help. if go my parents place, then everyone can help. coz of the travelling to work with bb on hand ( i cant bring pram to take bus n train, alone cant bring up n down in bus ), he say v xin ku. he just dont want me to suffer physically.
but my concern is like, marry out liao, got own house, still want to bother my parents. like marry out de daughter still go home trouble them. but my parents are supportive that i go back their place. not about me, but more like wanna play with my girl. hehe! before my girl was borned, im their fave. now im second. haha!
ya its troublesome to use pram when taking public transport, u have baby carrier? u can use that. I use baby carrier when i bring son out alone.
if your parents think u are no trouble then u shouldnt worry too much. ultimately, its still YOUR choice whether u want to move over for the 3 weeks or not.