young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~

[Mama Ina]

mama ina, haiiiiiiiii dearie, same-same with me, baru today I start nak menyibuk kat sini, 28 young mama lah ni

Yup, saw ur intro.. Tu ar i saw forum ni macam seronok gitu kan kita leh share problem and tukar opinion ni smua kan.. Hope i can be included in ur forum..

Cheers to all mum.. ancing_wub:

 

[Mama Ina]

Welcome abroad Mama Ina and GrannyVogue! Jgn segan2...Buat rumah sendiri ye..Hehe..Ina you are still young mother lah..U werking or a full time housewife?

Hi, hi, thanks.. Suka sangat sangat seh leh buat umah sendiri.. heeheehee.. Yah, i am working mum, keje ofis hour.. :001_302:

 

[Mama Ina]

welcum Ina... buat mcm umah sendiri k.. klau nk tanye ape2 soalan.. dipersilakan.. ol of us will do our best to chip in our pendapat.. so u tinggal ane..? FTWM ke SAHM..??

Hellloooo... Thanks.. FTWM ke SAHM?? heehee.. me ada skit blur nOh.. Apa tu?? My hse pat woodland tapi for now rent out and staying with my mum pat yishun.. Happy sangat2 to rent out the hse cos ada chance to get rid those uninvited people who tak tahu malu to stay my hse for free.. Coming soon lah by this year kena move alek woodland cos budak2 dah nak start sekolah kan.. Ni hati tengah belah hati ni.. cos "I don't want to go home"!!!!! Nanti org2 yg univited smua ikut masok alek ar.. :embarrassed:

 

[lis]

Hellloooo... Thanks.. FTWM ke SAHM?? heehee.. me ada skit blur nOh.. Apa tu?? My hse pat woodland tapi for now rent out and staying with my mum pat yishun.. Happy sangat2 to rent out the hse cos ada chance to get rid those uninvited people who tak tahu malu to stay my hse for free.. Coming soon lah by this year kena move alek woodland cos budak2 dah nak start sekolah kan.. Ni hati tengah belah hati ni.. cos "I don't want to go home"!!!!! Nanti org2 yg univited smua ikut masok alek ar.. :embarrassed:

haha.. okok.. FTWM = Full Tym Working Mom n SAHM = Stay At Hm Mom..
so u're working rite..? hmm.. u tgl yishun temporarily..? i pon tgl yishun.. u sebelah ane..? sape plak yg nanti nk ikot u alek umah u klau u pindah alek woodlands..?

 

[arabjunior]

Hi welcome mama ina..

welcome to the forum n uat lerr cm uma sendiri.. hehehe.. oh ya lis.. hapi bdae!!! (walaupun belated ok jgk lerr kan..)

 

[lis]

thnx for the wish.. nk prezzie..? hehehe ~~~ *kidding* n HEPI B'DAE TO U DEAR...!!!!!

 

[arabjunior]

prezzie.. ok la.. i bake for u n u bake for me...

 

[esteesky]

hELLO sISTERS!!Salam perkenalan!!! ancing_tongue:
wAhh..didnt know there iS this kind of forum here..:001_302:
Im a newbie here anyway..
Hmm..Lupa lak..iM a 28YRS old mummy age 3yrs in aug..
Currently working & im staying Jurong east..

 

[Mama Ina]

haha.. okok.. FTWM = Full Tym Working Mom n SAHM = Stay At Hm Mom..
so u're working rite..? hmm.. u tgl yishun temporarily..? i pon tgl yishun.. u sebelah ane..? sape plak yg nanti nk ikot u alek umah u klau u pindah alek woodlands..?

OOOOhhhh.. heeheee.. Baru me tahu FTWM & SAHM... Alah malunye... :shyxxx:
Me staying pat blakang swimming pool sana.. Adalah insan2 yang tak tahu malu nak stay wit us.. Dah kasi stay with us tapi buat umah tu macam mak bapak nye umah lak.. Never even respect the owner of the house.. Tinggal satu umah dengan dorg, kita nak tengok tv ke hang out pat living room punya lah susah end up makan minum tgk tv smua pat bilik dah kita ni macam tenant bilik aje padahal umah tu i yang bayar tau.. haiz..!! Not only that lah bila they bought toys for their kid they can say to the kid never ever let my kids touch.. Apa eh cakap gitu? Macam kita ingin sangat seh.. Abih bila kita susah mintak tolong dorg they act bodoh, tak best dpt orang mcm gitu stay ur hse for free?? Dah lah si isterinye tak tolong kemas umah step datin jek, tangan pun panjang and suka nah nak bodek2 dengan my mum in law.. Padahal my mum-in-law bukan suka dia sangat.. She also bertopeng depan her cos apa nak buat kata anak menantu jugak.. My mum in law lagi ketawakan dia kalau dorg laki bini gaduh but then i diam je tak kuasa nak masok campur ar.. So i make my hubby to rent out the house cos hubby tak tahu mcm mana nak sound dorg suruh kua kan.. Now je dengar dorg tinggal umah kawan dorg untuk SEMENTARA.. Cos my hubby kasi reason in kenapa kita nak rent out pasal settle kan hutang2 lah.. SO nOw they heard kita dah settlekan hutang2 so shud anytime be going back to my own hse soon.. Dorang ni pandai lemahkan hati my hubby.. haiz!! Tapi i dah nekad, kalau my hubby let them stay again with us.. I will leave the house.. Yesh!!! But i know lah my hubby kalau leh pun he wish to say NO to them but then he is the type of person susah nak sebut NO to others.. haiz...!! Susah lah kan gini macam.. Terpaksa me kena jadi jahat lah..

Ever since we rent out our house, my hubby and me so happy seh.. Hidup kita pun menambah senang, syukur.. And what we find out hidup dorang lak baik2 jadi senang berubah jadi tak yah cakap lah kan.. ni smua "wat goes around comes around".. Maklumlah dah puas tak advantage of us now time for u people to learn tuk hidup sendiri pe.. heehee..

Am i talking too much here? SOrry friends kalau i cakap melebih ehk.. By the way i tak tahu macam mana nak post thread lah.. hmmmm...

 

[Mama Ina]

Hi welcome mama ina..

welcome to the forum n uat lerr cm uma sendiri.. hehehe.. oh ya lis.. hapi bdae!!! (walaupun belated ok jgk lerr kan..)

Thanks.. Oooh.. bday nye lis ehk??? Happy belated birthday to u lis.. heeheehee.. boleh g2 ehk type pat sini nak wish her.. tumpang skali lah.. Anyways u ladies have multiply????

 

[EnFlor]

Mama Ina, watz your relation with them ? Saudara or just kenalan ? Read your entry, memang too much orang macam tu. Betulnya tebal kulit and kebal telinga dorang ni. Memang professional free loader. Kalau I siang2 dah kasi my hb ultimatums. Kira u are quite patient jugak tau.

For me, i am not comfortable if ada orang2 lain in my house staying for too long. Last time, with maid around pun, i tak kena gaya. If my parents or PILs stay lama2 at my hse, i kindda 'suffocate'...bukan apa, cuma restricted freedom sikit. Prefer to be my own BIG BOSS n dictator in my own house. :001_302:

 

[lis]

welcum eateesky..! buat mc umah sendiri ye..! jurong west sebelah ane..? dlu i tgl jurong west jugak.. kat daerah sekolah hong kah sec sane.. skrg skolah tu ngah reno..

thnx ina for the wish.. hmm.. psl ur biras tu.. i pon tk tau mcm mane nk comment tentang org mcm gni.. i can onie read but no comment.. hhehe.. sorie.. but yg penting u ngan hb must work hand in hand in dealing w tiz kind of ppl.. klau tk nanti umah tangga goyang beb..!! mesti ade persefahaman..

 

[Mama Ina]

Mama Ina, watz your relation with them ? Saudara or just kenalan ? Read your entry, memang too much orang macam tu. Betulnya tebal kulit and kebal telinga dorang ni. Memang professional free loader. Kalau I siang2 dah kasi my hb ultimatums. Kira u are quite patient jugak tau.

For me, i am not comfortable if ada orang2 lain in my house staying for too long. Last time, with maid around pun, i tak kena gaya. If my parents or PILs stay lama2 at my hse, i kindda 'suffocate'...bukan apa, cuma restricted freedom sikit. Prefer to be my own BIG BOSS n dictator in my own house. :001_302:

welcum eateesky..! buat mc umah sendiri ye..! jurong west sebelah ane..? dlu i tgl jurong west jugak.. kat daerah sekolah hong kah sec sane.. skrg skolah tu ngah reno..

thnx ina for the wish.. hmm.. psl ur biras tu.. i pon tk tau mcm mane nk comment tentang org mcm gni.. i can onie read but no comment.. hhehe.. sorie.. but yg penting u ngan hb must work hand in hand in dealing w tiz kind of ppl.. klau tk nanti umah tangga goyang beb..!! mesti ade persefahaman..

Hey there..

Yup, actually my hubby's bro lah.. And my mum in law nye anak kesayangan maklumlah kata anak bongsu.. In fact i ever had a big quarrel with my mum in law tau.. COs she keep side her that son i realise macam my hubby ni bukan anak dia lak.. Padahal i tengok eh all they way part dorg susah, selalu cari my hubby to settle their problem and i don't understand at all kenapa dia leh side kan his another son tu.. I piss off sampai leh terkurang ajar tau pat dia.. Dalam hati ada lah rasa tak baik kan buat g2 dengan org tua tapi too much lah cos she the one suruh anak kesayangan dia stay wit us and say he will fork out some cash lah kan as rental gitu lah.. Tu takpe masa anak dia stay wit us he bring along dia nye wife yang masa tu blum nikah tau stay sama2.. I dah macam OMG!! Dah tu buat anak pun pat umah i.. Umah islam ke pe ni?? I bukan lah warak sangat ke agama kuat ke ni smua lah.. Nak cakap i baik dulu pun i penah buat jahat pe.. No one perfect.. But still i ingat kita ni kan agama islam, and also i have 2gals tau.. I tanak eh anak2 i leh terikut jejak dorg ni smua... Actually i been pestering my hubby to sell this house and buy a new house tau.. Cos this house 4room flat very big kind nye.. ANd dono why i hate this house cos macam rasa kotor lah.. Haiz..! But my hubby suka he say dah susah nak dapat umah besar macam gini.. :embarrassed: Entah lah kan.. We wait and see lah nanti bulan 12.. I pun dah warn my hubby i say, make sure ur parent je allow to stay there.. Lagi satu bilik i nak rent out orang or make the room for my kids je..

By the way, thanks all for willing to hear my heart yang headache and pain pain ehk.. heeheeheehee.. Macam lega gitu dah say out.. Cos been keeping it macam geram jek tau everytime kalau ada family gathering pat hubby nye side.. Skarang je i kalau nampak dorg i buat dorg invisible gitu tak layan langsung.. DOrg step nak baik2 but me act macam takde orang seh invisible ar... haahaahaa.. My mum in law and hubby tahu my perangai very well, dorg cakap betol nye buruk... tapi to me bagus pe buat gitu dari i bukak mulut lagi menambah dosa tau.. haahaahaa..
(macam paham)

Cheers everyone..

 

[ross]

I'm happy to meet up again with my friends and ex-colleagues kat Jakarta. Now trying to pack my stuffs yang dah berlambak2 nak angkut balik. Mana yang kirim suruh beli lagi. Dah lah my baggage overweight then my friends ada yg kasi gifts for my daughter plak. Ada yang bulky terpaksa i kena handcarried kiri kanan balik nanti. Dah tak glamour. Hehe.
Kurang ajar my hb sampai dia bilang i shop all the stuffs for a year punya supply. Mentang2 duit dia :bmad:

Talk about ppls staying with you, before marriage i dah bilang my hb that i don't want family member staying with us. Boleh datang stay for a while but not tumpang2 coz I like our own space. So, when we got our own place siang2 i dah inform everybody about that. Seems that they understood and after a year nobody sounds anything to us. I'm a very straightforward person. I like freedom and kalau rumah i nak tunggang terbalik pun i tak kisah. :001_302:

Dianayousof,
You kalau nak teropong rumah i make sure jagan i tengah mandi plak. hehe

Wishing all mummies at this forum HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!

 

[EnFlor]

hey morning all.....yipeeeee, the 'burden' has been lifted up from my head. Kalau tak kepala rasa 'sempit' semacam. Frm now boleh hooray2 (but for the time being only)

Wah ross, shopping sakan awak ni. Kelakar kah baca your post. Bahasa pun bukan main marah kan dia. :001_302: ( i pun same-same jugak sumtimes)


Mama Ina, glad to know that you are now more at ease and in peace at your own place. Carry on with your intention to turn the other spare room for the kids. Kalau kids tak nak tido in the rm, convert it jadi their playrm or sumtin. At least, u have no reason to let out the rm for relatives yg nak menagih kesempatan lagi.

lis....skarang i can bukak oven balik, back to baking. U have any simple recipes for baking cakes or cookies. Simple meaning, pakai pukul tangan takda mesin2. My mesin putar dah rosak ah. Prefer those with chocs. Kalau ada share sini. Thank u in advance darlin!

Project dah abis, now back to be a reaaaalllll full time hsewife - cleaning, cooking, baking and have lotsa fun with the kids. Have a good great weekends y'll.

 

[ross]

EnFlor
Haha, i geram sikit wt my hb lah. I tension if he mengomel me shopping for this and that. When i think back, i don't shop much for myself but the baby. He told me i shop for the baby only the things i like. Mesti lah macam my bb tau what she want to buy. But anyway, i pun understand his situation and try to stop my habbit of shopping for unecessary things. Imagine i used to work and hv my own money and suddenly i hv to depend from my hb for everything. Cuma dia mengomel ajer i tension sikit. But i'm glad that i manage to save a lil bit now coz i never save during my working days.:001_302:

 

[PRINCESSES]

hello ladies.... im back!!! sorry sorry sorry i realised i lama tk log in.... byk nyer post being posted tk terbaca sey dan pening kepala sampai dah lupa nk reply post kat sapa!!!! sotong nyer aku!!

Ada new mummies in the club "welcome mummies"..

eh eh sapa tinggal yishun?? i pun yishun-er.. lol.. mana tahu ehk skali we at the same neighbourhood ke, terserempak kat pasar ke or mana2 ke?? hehe... "eh dek ni rupa nye!! " haha..

LIS- lis yr birthday ke?? biler?? sorry la tk tahu nahu... biler i baca post aru tahu...anyway, "HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY GIRL... SMOGA PANJANG UMUR, DIMURAHKAN REZEKI, DIBERIKAN KESIHATAN DAN BAHAGIA DUNIA DAN AKHIRAT. AMIN"
oh ya i read one of yr post... that u've changed ever since marriage. alhamdulilah... me too... byk perubahan mentally, spiritually dan ehem ehem... PHYSICALLY !! HEE
thks to my hubby who was my inspiration and motivator... because of him i byk ubah...im glad for u too lis!! cheers to us

OH YA... HAPPY BELATED MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL MUMMIES SG.... WE ROCKS!!!!
TAKE CARE EVERYONE... SAMPAI CHAT LAGI DI LAIN POSTSSSSS...
LUV TO ALL...

 

[Princezz Lotus]

Hi...

Im new in this Forum and ive just had my 1st baby girl, now 2 months old. So currently on Maternity Leave...

Hope to get to know more people here as most of my friends are unmarried...

 

[PRINCESSES]

EnFlor
Haha, i geram sikit wt my hb lah. I tension if he mengomel me shopping for this and that. When i think back, i don't shop much for myself but the baby. He told me i shop for the baby only the things i like. Mesti lah macam my bb tau what she want to buy. But anyway, i pun understand his situation and try to stop my habbit of shopping for unecessary things. Imagine i used to work and hv my own money and suddenly i hv to depend from my hb for everything. Cuma dia mengomel ajer i tension sikit. But i'm glad that i manage to save a lil bit now coz i never save during my working days.:001_302:

HEHE I UNDERSTD YR SITUATION... ME WAKTU 1ST CHILD PUN GITU... ASAL MASUK KEDAI CHILDREN'S WEAR KE CHILDREN'S STUFFS, CONFIRM CAPAI SESUATU!! BUT NOT SO BAD AH.. SO FAR HUBBY TK NGOMEL CUMA KENING DIA ADA KERUT SIKIT AH... HEHEH.. ITU ADA MAKNA TU!!!
PAT DAH 2ND CHILD ADA KURANG SIKIT MAKLUM LA... ANAK DAH 2 BELANJA KENA KURANGKAN LA... ANYWAY SINCE I HAVE 2 GIRLS , MY 2ND DAUGHTER WE BYK WEAR BACK HER ELDEST SISTER'S CLOTHING... JIMAT DAN SELAMAT!!! RECYCLE ...

BUT THEN AGAIN WITH THE BAD ECONOMIC ,ITS WISE TO BE THRIFTY FOR OUR OWN GD.. KALAU RASA ADA KELEBIHAN ARU LEH BELANJA LEBIH SIKIT...KALAU TKDE, KWANG3!! RELAX LA KAK ROSS YE... DONT TENSION2....

 

[PRINCESSES]

Hi...

Im new in this Forum and ive just had my 1st baby girl, now 2 months old. So currently on Maternity Leave...

Hope to get to know more people here as most of my friends are unmarried...

HI PRINCEZZ LOTUS... 1ST LY CONGRATS ON YR NEWBORN... WELCOME TO THE CLUB... INTRO LA... UMUR U BERAPA?? TINGGAL MANA?? BET U R WRKING COS U WERE SAYING U ON MATERNITY LEAVE.....
ANYWAY, LIKE THEY SAY "BUAT CAM UMAH SENDIRI YE PAT SINI..."
JGN MALU JGN SEGAN.. APA2 JUST LUAHKAN....
CHEERS TO U...
OH YE HOPE NOT TO LATE TO WISH U HAPPY BELATED MOTHER'S DAY!!!
TAKE CARE