SunShine07
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Wonder who can help.
I feel my life had got no peace. I offen feel threathen that I will lose my job.
We now living separated, he is living in JB and me in SG. I used to stay there and reason why i left him was because he ever hit me (many times in the past years) an affair which i feel i can't forgive and forget all this incident and he is a very self-centred person.
He keep asking me back but i dun feel comfortable firstly staying in malaysia as i dun feel safe and secondly i scare he will kill us there one day if i ever talk things that will provoke him again. He is someone who is out of control if i somehow provoked him in words.
Now he is working near me, and always go lunch together, sometimes if i dun go with him, he would suspect i had a guy lunch parnther....offen, he would accuse of me having affairs and sleep with other man which make me feel very disgusting about him. Or he would threathen to come to my office and there was once when i refuse to talk to him, he keep calling my office! :bmad: I always feel threathen and at times i can't really work. If this continue, i will lose this job...
He didn't pay or give me maint for my son's expenses. He said becos my son is not stay with him, so i have to pay for all and becos i choos to leave him and stay in sg. yet he ask me for money when we rented out our HDB flat. He ask to give him half cos that is also his flat. He force me to draw out the money yesterday but i dun have my atm card with me. And keep pressing to transfer. He got a lot of money, but he refuse to give me any for my son.
I need to ask if i can get any protection from the law? I dun have much evidence to say that he used to hit me or threathen me. I dont need his money or what, but i really wan peace. I wan to work here but i can't if he is around. i feel that i am going crazy already, at times i really wish to kill him! i so scare that i would really do it.......
Any advice on how to get the protection order with case like me?
I feel my life had got no peace. I offen feel threathen that I will lose my job.
We now living separated, he is living in JB and me in SG. I used to stay there and reason why i left him was because he ever hit me (many times in the past years) an affair which i feel i can't forgive and forget all this incident and he is a very self-centred person.
He keep asking me back but i dun feel comfortable firstly staying in malaysia as i dun feel safe and secondly i scare he will kill us there one day if i ever talk things that will provoke him again. He is someone who is out of control if i somehow provoked him in words.
Now he is working near me, and always go lunch together, sometimes if i dun go with him, he would suspect i had a guy lunch parnther....offen, he would accuse of me having affairs and sleep with other man which make me feel very disgusting about him. Or he would threathen to come to my office and there was once when i refuse to talk to him, he keep calling my office! :bmad: I always feel threathen and at times i can't really work. If this continue, i will lose this job...
He didn't pay or give me maint for my son's expenses. He said becos my son is not stay with him, so i have to pay for all and becos i choos to leave him and stay in sg. yet he ask me for money when we rented out our HDB flat. He ask to give him half cos that is also his flat. He force me to draw out the money yesterday but i dun have my atm card with me. And keep pressing to transfer. He got a lot of money, but he refuse to give me any for my son.
I need to ask if i can get any protection from the law? I dun have much evidence to say that he used to hit me or threathen me. I dont need his money or what, but i really wan peace. I wan to work here but i can't if he is around. i feel that i am going crazy already, at times i really wish to kill him! i so scare that i would really do it.......
Any advice on how to get the protection order with case like me?