tommyBoi
Alpha Male
Edylie is our famous "doctor" here, Last time he also change the sex for me... and so i am today.. Alpha Male. :tlaugh:He knew, he PM the other Ed liao.... waiting for his 'sex' to be changed.... :001_302:
Edylie is our famous "doctor" here, Last time he also change the sex for me... and so i am today.. Alpha Male. :tlaugh:He knew, he PM the other Ed liao.... waiting for his 'sex' to be changed.... :001_302:
the thing is dat i decide to turn the story to the police that he only threatened to commit suicide so he wont kena charge...I agree that u might not be at a losing.
1) u can work n support yrself n child
2) u hv a steady job. he doesnt. Ensure yr CPF has monthly employer's contribution.
3) he has suicide issue, dangerous for him to keep child.
U may hv cheated but that doesnt give him the right to be lazy n rely on ppl. A married man shld be responsible for his own family, not his aged mother or wife. A man who cant even earn a decent living + threatened to end an innocent kid's life is no way better den you! Dont be frighten. If u want a divorce, make sure u r standing on firm grounds.
Did u kept the police record of his suicide threats? Must keep it if u want to win custody. If dont hv, see whether u can hv one for rainy days. A man who wants to die with yr kid is really dangerous. After repeat chances so doesnt repent .......... got to think of a 'bright plan'.
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Indeed. My sex op is pending now... waiting for Doctor Edylie to be back. LOL!Edylie is our famous "doctor" here, Last time he also change the sex for me... and so i am today.. Alpha Male. :tlaugh:
I am actually a small eater, and can survive on banana on the whole day. But when I am with the right company and mood, I will gorge myself with food.:tlaugh:so easy to feed....... btw, u eat a lot?????:err:
This is the clearest indication you are not ready for it. In layman terms... anything unsure, don't do it.divorce is deft on my mind but i cant bring out to say it to him again. afraid of the consequences and a belief at the back of the mind to give him another chance. i am afraid of wat the future is for my dd if i divorce... i wanted her to hav a happy family not a broken..
You have found yourself the best "weapon" but you have not used it effectively. You might want to harness on this and when his friends start to lose respect for him and drift away from him, he will start to realise he need to be respectable to keep a family and friendship alive.as for his frens, i noe them very well.. only 1 of them is married the rest are either single or has a child but not yet married.... i told one of them about this and he was pissed of with hubby cause its the umpteenth time he does this. even he promised his frens that he will find a good job...
Nobody is looking down on him, unless he is looking down on himself. Even if someone is looking down on him, that's only because he gave the reasons for others to look down on him. If a father and husband failed to provide for his family, what respect does he wants? Respect he wants... earn it.even he said, "why is everyone looking down on me??"
When heated arguments are about to come, we should be able to sense it. In this instance, get out of the situation. No, I don't mean running away from home but remove ourselves from the possible environments where there are chances of any exchange of rash words. Stay away from one another to cool down, then resume talking again.i cant look at him on the face now or talk to him...
haha no leh.. i'm not loh.. cos......... wahahah i don understand wat he saying .. too chim for mi haha lolxNow now, all mummies are impressed by ED. HAHA.
haha no problem with us u comfirm is with e right company n mood haha.. amk got a steamboat at $10 oni loh n its eat all u wan haha, bring u go dere sure sibei wu hua de loh hahaI am actually a small eater, and can survive on banana on the whole day. But when I am with the right company and mood, I will gorge myself with food.
:tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:hahahah.. When it comes to food, it's mei wan mei liaoz ah.. Heeheehee.. :tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:eh how come off topic again? :tlaugh:
TOY BOY??? A huge one??? :001_302:One night of steamboat... one week worth of training gone.
Reminds me of the hotplate in Marina South though. But wouldn't I look like a toy boy sitting among so many chio mummies? LOL!:tlaugh:
Still on track mah... when Julee comes here and see food discussion, she gets tempted and she won't feel so troubled anymore. Stress relieve~:tlaugh:eh how come off topic again? :tlaugh:
:tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:Still on track mah... when Julee comes here and see food discussion, she gets tempted and she won't feed so troubled anymore. Stress relieve~:tlaugh:
One night of steamboat... one week worth of training gone.
Reminds me of the hotplate in Marina South though. But wouldn't I look like a toy boy sitting among so many chio mummies? LOL!:tlaugh: