Any ladies not working and trying to conceive?

[twinklestarsjta]

There were a period of times where I was trying to find different ways to improve my health.My friend introduced me to a chinese traditional doctor..medicine was a herb black liquid.Dont know was coincidence or what,after I took the medicine,I couldnt sleep well,couldnt concentrate at work,temper was bad,whole day body was tired.After I stopped,the conditions slowly improved and I didnt want to try Chinese Traditional method.

All Excel product have to consume at least 3 months. Maybe you should give yourself a chance again with positive attitude. Try Soe for 3 months first and follow by DNP 3 months surely can see some result. I have recommend to alot people and have come back with testimony and appreciation.

 

[JJDad]

Hi Bini,

My hubby and I have been trying to concieve for 18months already. hubby has low sperm count and was advice for iui. we are ok with the iui but will be trying other options before we go for it. we will start trying this supplement reccommended by a friend then if this dont work out, we will go for iui maybe on dec or january. i plan to quit my job on april 2011.

may i ask what treatment have you gone through as your trying to concieve method? Thanks!

Many yrs back, me and my wife tried for 2 yrs before conceiving. Both of us went for tests. She was ok but my sperm count was low and some were headless and some not moving.

I took lots of courage to go for the semen test as I need to masturbate and collect my sperm into a sterile container in a room in Thomson Medical Centre. At first I was afraid that I may take very long inside the room to produce the sample and the nurses told me that my wife can go in with me but no oral sex and sexual intercourse inside. Another option to speed things up is to borrow a porno vcd from the counter and watch it in the room, which has a sofa bed, a tv and an attached washroom. In the end, I chose the latter and I manage to produce the sample within 20min. Btw, the vcd did not help much...

The gynae will analyse the test results and prescribed some supplements like multi-vitamins and testosterone. The latter really helps in increasing my sex drive as I kind of like gets horny very easily. So we had sex almost everyday and recorded down on a little booklet and plotted the chart of ovulation and dates of ML. In the end, the gynae commented that we should leave a gap of several days in between our ML to let the new sperms re-generate to increase the chances of conceiving. We followed instructions and took our supplements regularly.

After few weeks, I had to go for semen test again to see whether things improve, which turned out to be the same. Just when we were deciding to go for iui, my wife conceived our first child!

So what I am trying to say is: never give up. keep yourself stress-free and miracles will happen! And yes, not forgetting that we went to temples to pray as we go along.

Good luck guys!

 

[arkin2010]

Many yrs back, me and my wife tried for 2 yrs before conceiving. Both of us went for tests. She was ok but my sperm count was low and some were headless and some not moving.

I took lots of courage to go for the semen test as I need to masturbate and collect my sperm into a sterile container in a room in Thomson Medical Centre. At first I was afraid that I may take very long inside the room to produce the sample and the nurses told me that my wife can go in with me but no oral sex and sexual intercourse inside. Another option to speed things up is to borrow a porno vcd from the counter and watch it in the room, which has a sofa bed, a tv and an attached washroom. In the end, I chose the latter and I manage to produce the sample within 20min. Btw, the vcd did not help much...

The gynae will analyse the test results and prescribed some supplements like multi-vitamins and testosterone. The latter really helps in increasing my sex drive as I kind of like gets horny very easily. So we had sex almost everyday and recorded down on a little booklet and plotted the chart of ovulation and dates of ML. In the end, the gynae commented that we should leave a gap of several days in between our ML to let the new sperms re-generate to increase the chances of conceiving. We followed instructions and took our supplements regularly.

After few weeks, I had to go for semen test again to see whether things improve, which turned out to be the same. Just when we were deciding to go for iui, my wife conceived our first child!

So what I am trying to say is: never give up. keep yourself stress-free and miracles will happen! And yes, not forgetting that we went to temples to pray as we go along.

Good luck guys!

You have been great!
I am sure your wife know it.

 

[arkin2010]

Many yrs back, me and my wife tried for 2 yrs before conceiving. Both of us went for tests. She was ok but my sperm count was low and some were headless and some not moving.

I took lots of courage to go for the semen test as I need to masturbate and collect my sperm into a sterile container in a room in Thomson Medical Centre. At first I was afraid that I may take very long inside the room to produce the sample and the nurses told me that my wife can go in with me but no oral sex and sexual intercourse inside. Another option to speed things up is to borrow a porno vcd from the counter and watch it in the room, which has a sofa bed, a tv and an attached washroom. In the end, I chose the latter and I manage to produce the sample within 20min. Btw, the vcd did not help much...

The gynae will analyse the test results and prescribed some supplements like multi-vitamins and testosterone. The latter really helps in increasing my sex drive as I kind of like gets horny very easily. So we had sex almost everyday and recorded down on a little booklet and plotted the chart of ovulation and dates of ML. In the end, the gynae commented that we should leave a gap of several days in between our ML to let the new sperms re-generate to increase the chances of conceiving. We followed instructions and took our supplements regularly.

After few weeks, I had to go for semen test again to see whether things improve, which turned out to be the same. Just when we were deciding to go for iui, my wife conceived our first child!

So what I am trying to say is: never give up. keep yourself stress-free and miracles will happen! And yes, not forgetting that we went to temples to pray as we go along.

Good luck guys!

So are your wife and you planning no 2?

 

[arkin2010]

wah it is late..i normally in in the afternoons to evenings..but then depends if im doing relief teaching or not on some days

Chrish,how are you these days?

 

[chrish]

Chrish,how are you these days?

hi arkin!

i was sick again! Gosh been down with a really bad strain of flu then was with ear infection and a really bad dizzy spell...felt really bad to even get out of bed...like the whole world was spinning! but thankfully ok now..going for relief teaching tomorrow though. And for 3 days next week Oh also we'll be going for a doc appointment the end of the month..we'll be asking the doc for more advices then..like should i go for checks or stuff like that

you? hope you're doing well too

 

[JJDad]

So are your wife and you planning no 2?

hehe.. I already got two kids. one boy (3yr)and one girl(1yr). They are so adorable and are my everything. I love them so much that my wife sometimes told me that I neglected her.

I find that two kids are enough but my wife who loves kids wanted a third one which I strongly refused, citing reasons like tiredness taking care of them and financially draining...because of that, she keep wanting to ML without using condoms but I always insist coz I'm afraid of her conceiving again. She will always start to arouse me first and climb onto me, resisting me getting up to get the condom. So far we had ML many times without condoms and thank god nothing happens. Actually I dun like to use condom but I got no choice.

Does anyone of you facing the same situation as mine?

 

[arkin2010]

hi arkin!

i was sick again! Gosh been down with a really bad strain of flu then was with ear infection and a really bad dizzy spell...felt really bad to even get out of bed...like the whole world was spinning! but thankfully ok now..going for relief teaching tomorrow though. And for 3 days next week Oh also we'll be going for a doc appointment the end of the month..we'll be asking the doc for more advices then..like should i go for checks or stuff like that

you? hope you're doing well too

Hmm... then do update me after your checkup......
Earlier on this year,I too had a long cough that last near 2mths as different doctors I went gave me different medicines,ended up I had "ringing sound" in ears that lasted a long long time.After went to 2 clinic doctors,I went to sgh.Thus was put on an appointment date and underwent a few tests and checkups,without medicine.Doctor at sgh said the sound may follow me forever,otherwise you just let it be since I said the sound did decrease in volume.So wait wait and wait,now recovered.
Now not daily online as busy overtime again.Wanted to start planning for family but I think I have not build up my health yet.Next year Chinese New Year is coming,for us in this supermarket line,have to wait after Chinese New Year over...
Anything you can send me a private message.

 

[arkin2010]

hehe.. I already got two kids. one boy (3yr)and one girl(1yr). They are so adorable and are my everything. I love them so much that my wife sometimes told me that I neglected her.

I find that two kids are enough but my wife who loves kids wanted a third one which I strongly refused, citing reasons like tiredness taking care of them and financially draining...because of that, she keep wanting to ML without using condoms but I always insist coz I'm afraid of her conceiving again. She will always start to arouse me first and climb onto me, resisting me getting up to get the condom. So far we had ML many times without condoms and thank god nothing happens. Actually I dont like to use condom but I got no choice.

Does anyone of you facing the same situation as mine?

Your wife love kids and love the feeling of pregnancy.
If you earn well and enough,why not have a third one?That is the last one.Of course everyone would be tired..thus needed to discuss and balance well.
Hmm everyone has its own ml desires..what matter is plan well and enjoy.

 

[justforgags]

Many yrs back, me and my wife tried for 2 yrs before conceiving. Both of us went for tests. She was ok but my sperm count was low and some were headless and some not moving.

I took lots of courage to go for the semen test as I need to masturbate and collect my sperm into a sterile container in a room in Thomson Medical Centre. At first I was afraid that I may take very long inside the room to produce the sample and the nurses told me that my wife can go in with me but no oral sex and sexual intercourse inside. Another option to speed things up is to borrow a porno vcd from the counter and watch it in the room, which has a sofa bed, a tv and an attached washroom. In the end, I chose the latter and I manage to produce the sample within 20min. Btw, the vcd did not help much...

The gynae will analyse the test results and prescribed some supplements like multi-vitamins and testosterone. The latter really helps in increasing my sex drive as I kind of like gets horny very easily. So we had sex almost everyday and recorded down on a little booklet and plotted the chart of ovulation and dates of ML. In the end, the gynae commented that we should leave a gap of several days in between our ML to let the new sperms re-generate to increase the chances of conceiving. We followed instructions and took our supplements regularly.

After few weeks, I had to go for semen test again to see whether things improve, which turned out to be the same. Just when we were deciding to go for iui, my wife conceived our first child!

So what I am trying to say is: never give up. keep yourself stress-free and miracles will happen! And yes, not forgetting that we went to temples to pray as we go along.

Good luck guys!

Hi thr,

May i know the medical term tat doc diagnose u?? My hubby's case is azoospermia but during biospy our doc found sperm in his testis.

 

[JJDad]

Hi thr,

May i know the medical term that doc diagnose you?? My hubby's case is azoospermia but during biospy our doc found sperm in his testis.

Dun remember any medical term was quoted to me. Juz analyze the sperm test report and prescribed to me supplements. I love the testosterone...hehe... u know what I mean.. nevertheless juz eat well, exercise well and I dun see any problem conceiving unless there are other kinds of problems like block falopian tubes, etc..

 

[justforgags]

dont remember any medical term was quoted to me. just analyze the sperm test report and prescribed to me supplements. I love the testosterone...hehe... you know what I mean.. nevertheless just eat well, exercise well and I dont see any problem conceiving unless there are other kinds of problems like block falopian tubes, etc..

My hubby is very active in exercising and im all well but afraid of failure if go thru IVF=( Doc showed us his spermies under the microscope but it isnt moving.. Is tt normal??

 

[JJDad]

Your wife love kids and love the feeling of pregnancy.
If you earn well and enough,why not have a third one?That is the last one.Of course everyone would be tired..thus needed to discuss and balance well.
Hmm everyone has its own ml desires..what matter is plan well and enjoy.

financially shd be no problem. it's the taking care part that is holding me back. my parents and parents-in-law are old and it will be tiring for them to help us take care. IMO, 2 is enough. at least got one companion.

 

[JJDad]

My hubby is very active in exercising and im all well but afraid of failure if go thru IVF=( Doc showed us his spermies under the microscope but it isnt moving.. Is that normal??

frankly speaking, IVF sucess rate is not very high. sperm not moving is definitely not normal. ask the doc and he/she can tell u more...

 

[Px22]

dont remember any medical term was quoted to me. just analyze the sperm test report and prescribed to me supplements. I love the testosterone...hehe... you know what I mean.. nevertheless just eat well, exercise well and I dont see any problem conceiving unless there are other kinds of problems like block falopian tubes, etc..

Hihi may I know which gynae did u go to for the testerones? Maybe i should get my hubby to go there too ancing_tongue:
TTC for a year but no news...

 

[JJDad]

Hihi may I know which gynae did you go to for the testerones? Maybe i should get my hubby to go there too ancing_tongue:
trying to concieve for a year but no news...

Dr Adelina Wong @ Thomson Medical Centre on the 6th floor. She is highly recommended. Very gd and responsible gynae. Btw, any doc also can prescribe testosterone. Google on this and you will find out more. Ask urself what is the objective of getting ur hubby to go there? Dr Wong is gd and open to couples in her clinic to discuss ways to conceive. There was once she looked at the chart we plotted. She joking told us not to ML everyday as new sperms need to re-generate to replace old non-moving ones. I was blushed then and I told her my sex drive was extremely high so got no choice. After which I tried to control myself when I was horny and had at least 2-3days break in between our ML. hmm...those were the days. :001_302:

 

[dynamicdon]

Hi
Have u try TCM? It worked for me. Went to a chinese medical hall in Jurong East st 21. 90% of her patients are couples who had difficulties conceiving. The doctor is very popular.. but expect long Q.

 

[justforgags]

Hi
Have you try traditional chinese medicine? It worked for me. Went to a chinese medical hall in Jurong East st 21. 90% of her patients are couples who had difficulties conceiving. The doctor is very popular.. but expect long Q.

Doesnt apply to all patient REALLY.. Was very dissapointed in J.East st 21 traditional chinese medicine. She anyhow diagnose my husband n myself n expect us to see the gynae she recommended but i was reluctant to see the ones she recommended and go for fertility checks at a public hospital on my own and found out i was diagnosed NOTHING to what the traditional chinese medicine told me:wong13:

Other forummer not in this forum are also experiencing the same

 

[JJDad]

Doesnt apply to all patient REALLY.. Was very dissapointed in J.East st 21 traditional chinese medicine. She anyhow diagnose my husband n myself n expect us to see the gynae she recommended but i was reluctant to see the ones she recommended and go for fertility checks at a public hospital on my own and found out i was diagnosed NOTHING to what the traditional chinese medicine told me:wong13:

Other forummer not in this forum are also experiencing the same

I do agree with u abt the inaccuracy of Chinese doc diagnose at times. IMHO, Chinese doc are basically gd for building up ur health by prescribing u some herbs. I remember the Chinese doc I went to prescribed to me some medication to strengthern my kidney as she say it's gd for men trying for a child.

My advice to those trying to conceive in vain: go for fertility checks first. If no problem with both then follow the gynae's prescription and instructions (plot chart, supplements, etc.) plus visit a Chinese doc to build up ur health and fertility. But remember to have a 2 hr break in between Chinese and Western medicine dosage. Do not take both kinds of medicine at the same time.

 

[arkin2010]

I do agree with you about the inaccuracy of Chinese doc diagnose at times. IMHO, Chinese doc are basically good for building up your health by prescribing you some herbs. I remember the Chinese doc I went to prescribed to me some medication to strengthern my kidney as she say it's good for men trying for a child.

My advice to those trying to conceive in vain: go for fertility checks first. If no problem with both then follow the gynae's prescription and instructions (plot chart, supplements, etc.) plus visit a Chinese doc to build up your health and fertility. But remember to have a 2 hr break in between Chinese and Western medicine dosage. Do not take both kinds of medicine at the same time.

hello,
Did your wife before pregnancy taking any herbs,vitamins or etc to build up health?For woman with weaker health like myself,do u have any advices?