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    What does this mean?

    I have a new male colleague in my department. I noticed that he will take the opportunity to take pics with me during company events but not with other female colleagues. He bought a piece of cake and my favourite snack during my birthday. he even got the rest of colleagues to sing me a...
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    Working mum, can you cope with your work and family?

    I am in a love hate relationship with my work. I love some aspects and hate others aspecs as well. I hate even more when I need to work ot every now and then and bringing my laptop back on weekends. Sometimes I work 6 days a week or 7 days if there are ugent things to rush. My boss is a...
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    hubby's career change

    The resentment that hubby is not contributing to the bread for the house is getting stronger. I would pick on him on every little thing. How? His ego will get bruise if I were to ask him get a full-time job. But the fact that the results (money) is not coming in makes me angry. Sometimes, I...
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    hubby's career change

    :elvis:Hubby changed his career from employed sales to self employed sales solely based on commission. Though his timing in the morning are more flexible so that he can fetch the kids to school but the income generated is not sufficient for his monthly expenses. He hope he will have a break...
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    Is this normal to have a job like this?

    I have been working overtime since I started this job since last year. I will need to work late at least once or twice a week, at least 2 weekend need to bring work home to do in a month. I have been so sick and tired of this job due to the never ending demand from direct and functional boss...
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    Don't get mad; get even?

    emotional cheating half a year ago and flirting is 2 years back. why can't men just be 规矩? if they think they can flirt around, so can we. I am not advocating flirting after marriage but women deserve equal rights as men.
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    Don't get mad; get even?

    he said he asked his ex colleague out was to maintain work relationship. I don't know if real or lie to get out of it. anyway, he know that he can't be funny and will tell me in advance if he is going out with other woman. there will be no 3rd chance and he jolly well know that. risking it is...
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    Don't get mad; get even?

    my hubby cheated on me emotionally more than half year ago with his colleague. i decided to move on for my 2 young children. i have not really completely forgive nor forget this incident. i would still have nightmare about it and wake up to check his phone. he has no issues about me checking...
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    How to wean off toddler

    My boy is coming to 2 and still not ready to wean off. He always ask for neh neh as a form of comfort at least 2-3 times during night. I tried to wean him off by sleeping in different room and getting my hubby to sleep with him. He will wake up in the middle of night and cries for me, in then...
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    I TRUST my partner!!!!

    I trusted my hubby and thought that the last thing he would do is do cheat on me. Alas! I discovered he betrayed me emotionally with one of his colleague through his mobile. My family members all think that he is a faithful husband. How to regain the trust? Still struggling with my emotions...
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    what should i do when DD dun wan to go home with me?

    thanks, mummies for your assurance and advices. Last night went back early to take my girl out. Had to coax her many times if she wants to go home with us or go out. She kept saying no. I told myself if she were to say no eventually we will bring her home by force. Luckily we did not have to do...
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    what should i do when DD dun wan to go home with me?

    DD dun wan to follow me and hubby last night again. She wants to stay at mil house and has been calling her mummy instead. This really made me feel so sad. i have been busy with work and only reach mil for dinner around 7 or 8 plus then bring the kids back. Not much of interaction except giving...
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    Jealous freak in-laws

    i am just to considerate for her feelings or i just dun wan things to turn ugly hence lied. I think i am just too nice or too weak. I should not fear her getting upset becos we r going out with my family. I should stand for my rights. Dun want to be a too considerate dil afterall....
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    Jealous freak in-laws

    we did tried to be truthful but it didnt help. Only involve bitternesss and arguement in the end. That why hubby chosed the easy way out by lying. I had to get my siblings to help me to cover up too. So ashamed becos my mil had phoned up my siblings before to complained about me and hubby. My...
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    Jealous freak in-laws

    hi mummies, anyone in the same shoes as me? I have a jealous freak in laws. Today is mid autumn. My dad asked me to go back home for dinner and my hubby need to lie to her mom that we r having overtime at work. Felt so sad that i cant even tell my in laws the truth cos they will get jealous...
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