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Lim2528

Member
Yes, finally my mense arrived after a week of medicine to induce!

Hi Babylemon, I thought of going acuputure too. Normally is done before or after the mense? Any TCM reccomend (never been to TCM before)? I searched the website so far that Raffle TCM has this service. Gynae give me Clomid for 1st time on this cycle as he said that due to PCOS I do not ovulate every month and it causes delay of mense too. Think this new cycle, I may have hell of pain in day 3 or 4 as usual.
 
justforgags, i understand how you feel upset about your hb's problem. My hb's SA results was 4% also, i totally broke down and cant concentrate on my work. My hb totally broke down also. But after our TCM reassure us that it's a common problem then we actually take it less seriously. I think you will have to spend more time to prepare your hb's body in order for you to conceive. At least that's how i divert my focus into lots of patience and energy to encourage my hb. Be strong k? Can tell that both of you love each other a lot. Jia you...
 

lawla12

Well-Known Member
Yes, finally my mense arrived after a week of medicine to induce!

Hi Babylemon, I thought of going acuputure too. Normally is done before or after the mense? Any traditional chinese medicine reccomend (never been to traditional chinese medicine before)? I searched the website so far that Raffle traditional chinese medicine has this service. Gynae give me Clomid for 1st time on this cycle as he said that due to PCOS I do not ovulate every month and it causes delay of mense too. Think this new cycle, I may have hell of pain in day 3 or 4 as usual.
OOoh...u'r oso PCO type !!!!!!!!!!!! same same ............

go TCM got help ??? i'm doing my 2nd IUI tis week...i shd b ovulating soon le......

if my 2nd IUI fail, i'm going to TCM (i duno where yet, but not at raffles ya)
 
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justforgags

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Is good news...

I am glad he can think in more positive now...

Good luck to you! Lets thing become natural, try your best but dont't give yourself stress....

'hugs' :tlaugh:
Thx for the hugs which i needed HUEYCHYE79.. heee:embarrassed:... Yea he's a very positive person n he'll be seeing 1 of the IVF specialist on man's prob in SGH Dr Roland Chieng. Hopefully Dr Roland Chieng can do somethin bout it..

I realised tat aft the news break up, we r more careful on each other's feelin n wanna spend more quality time together but wen we go out for supper n wen he see's a child he will like kept silence for awhile:001_07::001_07:

i tink your dear husband is very emo now......you should give him more support yaaaaa...

yes i understand that certain guys cant take such news.....but its really very common now and our lives are super stress.....or, it may be he's very stressful, tats why his sperm count is low at the moment....

maybe you wanna go for a short holiday ?????? both of you can relax relax and i'm sure your relationship will strengthen too....

life is not all about having kids....we married not cos of kids rite ????

my dear husband also say if after we try our best (IUI and IVF --last resort) and noting happen.....its all fated yaaaaa........but he doesn't wanna adopt 1 (worse case) .........

i believe that god will give us happiness in other form even if we dont have kids....

dearie, dont give up.......the gynae never say 100% confirm cannot cure......its also good to discover the problem early too........

give both urselves time ok.....

lets all JIA YOU JIA YOU~~~~~:shyxxx::shyxxx:

Thx lawla.. If im nt wrong u r treatin urself in SGH?
 

jal

Member
I would like to share this piece of info which I found on the net with all trying to conceive buddies.

Grapfruit Juice and trying to conceive
Drinking grapefruit juice while trying to conceive has long been recommended by mothers, doctors, and midwives to aide in the fertilization process. The grapefruit juice is said to help thin the cervical mucus so that the sperm can travel easily from the vagina, through the uterus and into the fallopian tubes to meet the egg. The egg white consistency cervical mucus is known to be the most fertile in every woman, but not every woman can product this type of cervical mucus on her own, and so many generations have turned to grapefruit juice.

Of course, like many home remedies there are varying rates of success with this cervical mucus remedy. Some women report that they see an instant improvement while others report minimal improvement and others still see no change. Its important to remember that every womans body responds to every drug, chemical, and naturally occurring substance differently so there is no way to determine if this remedy will work for you. But, if you are in search of a natural remedy to improve the texture of your cervical mucus grapefruit juice certainly is worth a try.

While there may be no medical evidence to connect grapefruit juice or any of its properties with a thinning of the cervical mucus, women for generations will swear on the remedy. Because of this, it is definitely worth a try. You may have to drink the juice regularly for a couple cycles before you see a change, so hopefully you like grapefruit juice. If you want to increase your chances of success with this remedy you may want to combine your juice with Evening Primrose oil or even Robitussin, which are also known to thin the cervical mucus and create a more fertile environment for the sperm and ultimately fertilization.

Even if it is not the grapefruit juice that works its magic on your cervical mucus, this remedy will help because it will increase your fluid intake. If you have very dry or spongy cervical fluid you need to increase your fluids and grapefruit juice certainly will count! So, whether this generations old home remedy really does work or not is not really up for debate because it does work at least by putting more fluids into your body, and that is important. If you see increased results, than that is even better. Remember that there are many natural remedies that you can try and even combine for proven results. Generations of women and doctors cannot be wrong, so dont hesitate to try this remedy and see what happens. Even if it does not prove to be useful for you, you wont be any worse off than you are now.
 
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hueychye79

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Thx for the hugs which i needed HUEYCHYE79.. heee:embarrassed:... Yea he's a very positive person and he'll be seeing 1 of the IVF specialist on man's prob in singapore general hospital Dr Roland Chieng. Hopefully Dr Roland Chieng can do somethin bout it..

I realised that after the news break up, we are more careful on each other's feelin and wanna spend more quality time together but wen we go out for supper and wen he see's a child he will like kept silence for awhile quote]

I think your dear husband still need sometimes to accept the fact.

Since you mention he is always very positive minded.

Meanwhile just try to coorporated with doctor, let them to help you and your husband. :tlaugh:

Jia You!
 
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justforgags

Guest
Thx for the hugs which i needed HUEYCHYE79.. heee:embarrassed:... Yea he's a very positive person and he'll be seeing 1 of the IVF specialist on man's prob in singapore general hospital Dr Roland Chieng. Hopefully Dr Roland Chieng can do somethin bout it..

I realised that after the news break up, we are more careful on each other's feelin and wanna spend more quality time together but wen we go out for supper and wen he see's a child he will like kept silence for awhile quote]

I think your dear husband still need sometimes to accept the fact.

Since you mention he is always very positive minded.

Meanwhile just try to coorporated with doctor, let them to help you and your husband. :tlaugh:

Jia You!
Thk u hueychye79.. Anyway i've alrdy spoke to my DH rgds to DADDY D n LAWLA ideas to seek 3rd opinion.. We'll be goin for it.. I know we had a tired weekend cryin all the time but we r focusing on the positive side now:Dancing_sad::Dancing_sad::Dancing_sad:
 

lawla12

Well-Known Member
Thx for the hugs which i needed HUEYCHYE79.. heee:embarrassed:... Yea he's a very positive person and he'll be seeing 1 of the IVF specialist on man's prob in singapore general hospital Dr Roland Chieng. Hopefully Dr Roland Chieng can do somethin bout it..

I realised that after the news break up, we are more careful on each other's feelin and wanna spend more quality time together but wen we go out for supper and wen he see's a child he will like kept silence for awhile:001_07::001_07:




Thx lawla.. If im not wrong you are treatin yourself in singapore general hospital?
no yaa...me seeing Dr Thong in Raffles :001_302:


y dun u try Dr Cheng from TMC ???? i tink u were ard when we'r discussing abt him n if i'm not wrong, 2 of them switch to him........tink he's not bad leh....
 

Lim2528

Member
OOoh...you'are also PCO type !!!!!!!!!!!! same same ............

go traditional chinese medicine got help ??? i'm doing my 2nd IUI tis week...i should b ovulating soon ......

if my 2nd IUI fail, i'm going to traditional chinese medicine (i dont know where yet, but not at raffles ya)
don't know if traditional chinese medicine will help but heard alot of ppl tio their body at there (such as acupuncture). Strange thing is, i put on weight about 1kg when mense not here but after a day lost the 1kg when the flow here. Stomach keep on bloating and guess is due to PCOS as I'm slightly overweight too.
 

Lim2528

Member
I would like to share this piece of info which I found on the net with all trying to conceive buddies.

Grapfruit Juice and trying to conceive
Drinking grapefruit juice while trying to conceive has long been recommended by mothers, doctors, and midwives to aide in the fertilization process. The grapefruit juice is said to help thin the cervical mucus so that the sperm can travel easily from the vagina, through the uterus and into the fallopian tubes to meet the egg. The egg white consistency cervical mucus is known to be the most fertile in every woman, but not every woman can product this type of cervical mucus on her own, and so many generations have turned to grapefruit juice.

Of course, like many home remedies there are varying rates of success with this cervical mucus remedy. Some women report that they see an instant improvement while others report minimal improvement and others still see no change. Its important to remember that every womans body responds to every drug, chemical, and naturally occurring substance differently so there is no way to determine if this remedy will work for you. But, if you are in search of a natural remedy to improve the texture of your cervical mucus grapefruit juice certainly is worth a try.

While there may be no medical evidence to connect grapefruit juice or any of its properties with a thinning of the cervical mucus, women for generations will swear on the remedy. Because of this, it is definitely worth a try. You may have to drink the juice regularly for a couple cycles before you see a change, so hopefully you like grapefruit juice. If you want to increase your chances of success with this remedy you may want to combine your juice with Evening Primrose oil or even Robitussin, which are also known to thin the cervical mucus and create a more fertile environment for the sperm and ultimately fertilization.

Even if it is not the grapefruit juice that works its magic on your cervical mucus, this remedy will help because it will increase your fluid intake. If you have very dry or spongy cervical fluid you need to increase your fluids and grapefruit juice certainly will count! So, whether this generations old home remedy really does work or not is not really up for debate because it does work at least by putting more fluids into your body, and that is important. If you see increased results, than that is even better. Remember that there are many natural remedies that you can try and even combine for proven results. Generations of women and doctors cannot be wrong, so dont hesitate to try this remedy and see what happens. Even if it does not prove to be useful for you, you wont be any worse off than you are now.
Oh, than red wine help? It made of grape too :001_302:
 
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justforgags

Guest
no yaa...me seeing Dr Thong in Raffles :001_302:


why dont you try Dr Cheng from Thomson Medical Center ???? i tink you were around when we'are discussing about him and if i'm not wrong, 2 of them switch to him........tink he's not bad ....

Oic, so u're seeing dr in raffles.. I'll c wat do the male gynae in sgh hv to say bout my DH cond if he really say cnt do much i'll try switch to pte hosp..
 

Ashbaby

Active Member
I have 2 clearblue ovulation kit unused. Anyone want it? I have manage to concieve, hence I dont need the kit anymore.
 
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lawla12

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I have 2 clearblue ovulation kit unsued. Anyone want it? I have manage trying to concieve, hence I dont need the kit anymore.

wow...gratz gratz...:shyxxx::shyxxx::shyxxx::shyxxx::shyxxx:

gif us baby dust plsssssssssssssssssss

kekkekeeee:001_302:
 

lawla12

Well-Known Member
Oic, so you're seeing dr in raffles.. I'll c what do the male gynae in singapore general hospital have to say bout my dear husband cond if he really say cnt do much i'll try switch to pte hospital..
dun worry dearie...let me know if u need the JE Zhong Hua gynae n add which my bubby's DH is seeing (he oso haf zero sperm count) .......i can get it from her yaaaaaa...
 
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justforgags

Guest
dont worry dearie...let me know if you need the JE Zhong Hua gynae and add which my bubby's dear husband is seeing (he also have zero sperm count) .......i can get it from her yaaaaaa...
my oh my.. lawla we r in the same boat, hi hi.. heee:embarrassed:..:embarrassed:.. So did it improve??
 
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justforgags

Guest
I have 2 clearblue ovulation kit unsued. Anyone want it? I have manage trying to concieve, hence I dont need the kit anymore.

Congratz!!! I also hv unopened box of guardian ovulation kit.. Not intending to use them anymore..
 

lawla12

Well-Known Member
my oh my.. lawla we are in the same boat, hi hi.. heee:embarrassed:..:embarrassed:.. So did it improve??
ooh, its my bubby's DH yaaaa.....

i'm oso having problems......tis will b my last IUI.....if it doesn't work out, then its up to fate baaaaa.....maybe i will consider IVF next yr (not at the moment, no $, spend alot on IUI le) ..........

see how it goes.....
 
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justforgags

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ooh, its my bubby's dear husband yaaaa.....

i'm also having problems......tis will b my last IUI.....if it doesn't work out, then its up to fate baaaaa.....maybe i will consider IVF next your (not at the moment, no $, spend alot on IUI ) ..........

see how it goes.....

Oopss.. *touch wood* to your dear husband.. Sorry sorry.. So how's your bubby's dear husband?? Any improvement?

Hope u'll strike tis time ard.. Ya me too now saving up.. Do u noe hw much do IVF cost approx wen thr is gov subsidy??
 

lawla12

Well-Known Member
Oopss.. *touch wood* to your dear husband.. Sorry sorry.. So how's your bubby's dear husband?? Any improvement?

Hope you'll strike tis time around.. Ya me too now saving up.. Do you know hw much do IVF cost approx wen thr is gov subsidy??
kekeke....its ok.....but i know as a matter of time, his sperm count will decrease cos his job has got to do wif radiation.....1 of his mgr who worked 8yrs in this line told my DH to faster gif birth....tat mgr claimed tat the radiation reduces his sperm count n tat he's getting old, late 30s....its hard for his wife to get preggie too le..........

i did heard from my bubby tat there's slight improvement.....but, only increase very little bit.......she mentioned tat for TCM, 6mths is consider short...so haf to take 1 step at a time.....but, meanwhile, they'r still :we2Randy-git: it......who knows, they might strike !!!!!!!!!!!!! heheheeee

for IVF, very much depending on ur medication...if its those jabs (like my case) , gynae told me its ard 13-15k ..........

for public (KKH), tink its cheaper rite ??? the subsidy is definitely more...for 1st timer its 8k, 2nd claim is 7k n 3rd claim is 6k.....max can only claim 3times yaaaaaaaaa....

anyway, its not a subsidy loh..its using ur medisave $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$....govt still say until sooo nice.....zzzzz
 

Daddy D

Alpha Male
kekeke....its ok.....but i know as a matter of time, his sperm count will decrease cos his job has got to do wif radiation.....1 of his mgr who worked 8yrs in this line told my dear husband to faster give birth....that mgr claimed that the radiation reduces his sperm count and that he's getting old, late 30s....its hard for his wife to get preggie too ..........
Wah... radiation?! Sounds like Incredible Hulk.... :p
I heard everyday use PC also will affect, isit? If so, every1 kenaa liao...
 
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