thanks liang jia.. ya think my dh happens to be one with low sex drive.. he's quite a mcp also so i dun dare also to forbid him frm doing anything in case we ended up quarrel again.. i dun want my son to see us quarrel coz there's once he heard us quarrel (he's 16mths then) By the time i notice him, he look scared and was playing quietly with this toy car.. Make me sooo heartbroke. I told myself never to quarrel in his presence again :embarrassed:
Hmmm, we also used to quarrel in front of my ds too. after that i feel so guilty.
Hmmm, we also used to quarrel in front of my ds too. after that i feel so guilty.
Yours is rather simplier tham mine, my hb is also super mcp, i never stop him from doing anything. But as long as you still feel that ur hb loves u and family should be ok bah.
But my hb is very high sex drive loh, it is me that is very low sex drink. Infact we also quarrel about this many times, until he became very sian already, then he stop. Most of the time he initial, i like only once or twice a year that i intial hahha. Becos of many issue that i reacted this way also lah
don worry and think too much lah, let it be natural and don stress him on this
I just angry coz he admit to me he got diy regularly when he's bathing.. and i find that so unfair to me :embarrassed: I really find myself like the comment i wrote, am a living widow..
I think perhaps he is really tired, cos it needed some enegry to do that:err:We opposite case arh.
Let's look at this more objectively ...maine78 said:
Why he DIY when he had a sweet wife? Is it becos he got some problem that he don't want to disclose to you? Maybe he cannot substiate?We opposite case arh.
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Koala bear??? LOL. Can u teach me in more details please????Why he DIY when he had a sweet wife? Is it becos he got some problem that he don't want to disclose to you? Maybe he cannot substiate?
Encourage him, Help him, tell him you can "service" him, me and my husband always discuss the event (sometimes we will make an appointment for it), before, during and after it, so that we can improve on it, even if he din perform, I will inform him, told him to make it up the next time (IOU).
But when he is good, I will often give him many words of encouragement so that he feel very great of himself.
Men r all like tat, you only can crash with them when u noe that you already grip their hearts, before that happen, you need to pretend to be understanding, pretend that you will always compromise, when u find out that they can't live w/o you, tat's the time for payback. A few of my colleagues used this trick that I taught them, now their husbands r hanging on to them like kolar bear.
Boys in secondary school wank with their eyes closed & their head filled with images of Fiona Xie & Beyonce Knowles ... or even their form teacher.MsKoh1973 said:
If a relationship that's supposed to be "till death do us part" is actually so despicable a trick like yours ... where you are only waiting for payback time, then why did you even bother to start?MsKoh1973 said:Men r all like tat, you only can crash with them when u noe that you already grip their hearts, before that happen, you need to pretend to be understanding, pretend that you will always compromise, when u find out that they can't live w/o you, tat's the time for payback. A few of my colleagues used this trick that I taught them, now their husbands r hanging on to them like kolar bear.
Originally Posted by MsKoh1973
Men r all like tat, you only can crash with them when u noe that you already grip their hearts, before that happen, you need to pretend to be understanding, pretend that you will always compromise, when u find out that they can't live w/o you, tat's the time for payback. A few of my colleagues used this trick that I taught them, now their husbands r hanging on to them like kolar bear.
