angelwendy
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what if you going to give birth?? then he is out?? actually is not very good
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i guess ur husband luve himself more than u n ur kids. Is not his fren is his priority but he himself. He do not spare a thought for u n the kids. U r pregnant now, did he even ask u when is ur appt with gynae? or u need to remind him ur appt?last night he told me he gotta work late (at 12+) and he is asking his buddy for a drink at irish pub. at 5am, I woke up and he's still out (so i text him and ask 'which irish pub opens for 24 hr?'. he explained to me that his buddy went to zouk to fetch a gal and they hang out there.
i told him, this morning im going to the gynae at 10am, if he comes home so late, he wouldn't even have energy to last thru the day. then his workplace needs him to settle some urgent matters in the afternoon, so i met my friend for dinner (plus playdate for my boy instead). then he fetched us home at 9+, had his dinner and guess what? my boy didnt really play much with him (cos it's already 10.30pm!!), and now he is out drinking kopi with his friends again!!!
i told him since he can text me that he misses me and my boy, where is the 'action'? i dont and can't even feel that he misses us!! if he really care and miss us, he would have take the hint right? well, maybe he feels that i'm grumbling too much (which trust me, when he told me he's going out, i just say 'go , not like i ask you not to go you will stay at home')
i told him, i'm still awake what, if you miss me dont you have things to talk to me about? he just kept quiet... then went out.
i really give up , sometimes even have the urge to just opt for the big 'D' if this is to continue. i told his mum about him coming home at wee hr again, she also useless (just remain speechless, which makes me more pissed!) the fact is i'm planning to shift cos my mum is the main caretaker for my boy and girl and she stays far away from me (major regret!!), plus my boy is enrolling pri sch next your so i have to plan for their future and not let this selfish man enjoy his life so much while i suffer!
Sometimes I'm really at wit's end, already tell him how i feel he is still like that, write letter and sms to him also like no use, you tell me , how to continue this relationship? and every sun morning he will go cycling with his friends to destress, what about me? who is helping me destress? weekend is the only time for us full time working mum to spend qly time with our kids, i've been asking him what's his priority? friends or family, he didnt even bother to answer me!
i seriously feel sad and sorry for u.. wonder what guys are thinking sometimes.. and u said u have been hospitalized and stuff, why isnt he taking care of u instead? tell him off to the face! "ur friends so important go marry ur friends lah, im pregnant and sick here, can't u help take care of the 2 little ones and let me rest for god sake?"last night he told me he gotta work late (at 12+) and he is asking his buddy for a drink at irish pub. at 5am, I woke up and he's still out (so i text him and ask 'which irish pub opens for 24 hr?'. he explained to me that his buddy went to zouk to fetch a gal and they hang out there.
i told him, this morning im going to the gynae at 10am, if he comes home so late, he wouldn't even have energy to last thru the day. then his workplace needs him to settle some urgent matters in the afternoon, so i met my friend for dinner (plus playdate for my boy instead). then he fetched us home at 9+, had his dinner and guess what? my boy didnt really play much with him (cos it's already 10.30pm!!), and now he is out drinking kopi with his friends again!!!
i told him since he can text me that he misses me and my boy, where is the 'action'? i dont and can't even feel that he misses us!! if he really care and miss us, he would have take the hint right? well, maybe he feels that i'm grumbling too much (which trust me, when he told me he's going out, i just say 'go , not like i ask you not to go you will stay at home')
i told him, i'm still awake what, if you miss me dont you have things to talk to me about? he just kept quiet... then went out.
i really give up , sometimes even have the urge to just opt for the big 'D' if this is to continue. i told his mum about him coming home at wee hr again, she also useless (just remain speechless, which makes me more pissed!) the fact is i'm planning to shift cos my mum is the main caretaker for my boy and girl and she stays far away from me (major regret!!), plus my boy is enrolling pri sch next your so i have to plan for their future and not let this selfish man enjoy his life so much while i suffer!
Sometimes I'm really at wit's end, already tell him how i feel he is still like that, write letter and sms to him also like no use, you tell me , how to continue this relationship? and every sun morning he will go cycling with his friends to destress, what about me? who is helping me destress? weekend is the only time for us full time working mum to spend qly time with our kids, i've been asking him what's his priority? friends or family, he didnt even bother to answer me!
Ting, don mind sharing how he try to get u back? just wanna to know if i am being too softhearted to my hb.....cos whenver he calls or meet us, i will always feel very upset and guilty like that....dun know if he really regret and pretend only or what....sue, i feel the same as joanna in this case.
i think your husband is really too much!
remind me of my preg that time.
my ex also like that. he was serving NS.
and he will take off on my appt dates to visit the docs.
well, SUPPOSEDLY duh, but end up? he stay home and sleep.
cos he told me, he is VERY SLPY. or can i reschedule my appt.
WTH right? i already purposely arrange for afternoon appt cos i know he wont be able to wake early.
so mostly i just went alone or my younger sis will accompany me.
and before im out, he will call me to buy food for him when im coming back.
other times, he is either sleeping, playing games or watching tv rather than accompanying me.
unless he wants to go out and watch movie or whatever but who pay? me.
after pin was born.
same, he only "play" with her a while. then either ask me acc him watch tv or he go play his stupid online games.
keep wanting me to dump pin at home and go out with him and his friends.
really pissed me off.
i cant take it, so kicked him out of my house one fine night.
that night, i took care of pin the whole day til 11 pm. he told me he will come at 10 am but end up? 11 pm then come my place. then i ask him to feed pin he only fed her once, next feed he refuse, saying he already fed her just now( and its cos he want to watch his stupid tv show), i got so angry, we argued, and i chase him out of my house at 4 am in the mornin.
i didnt give him any more chances after that, no matter what he did.
he tried to make it up to me by "caring" more for pin. but i know, its all a pretence to get me back.
for me, lucky i never marry him, so it was more clear cut.
so far about 4mths already. All along, i have been nasty to him though....but at times he also cannot take it lah...then he also got angry, that's why i think he is not real alsoPut the song 'Apologize by Onepublic feat. Timbaland' for them to listen..
liang`jia: try to see how long he can put up the show.. btw how long he've been showing ? cuz some guys really do repent what they have done wrongly, just like how i forgave my current hubby 2yrs ago..
Last night my hubby told me he's meeting his friends for a drink nearby (it's at 12am +) and that he won't be driving out since it's nearby. At 6am this morning, he is still out and best part, his car is gone! So I sms him and asked innocently "thought u didn't wanna drive? still drinking at 6am?"
He came home before 7am, slept, didn't even explain why he's out so late.
I'm now 7mth preggy with a 4yrs old son, and he has been meeting friends for kopi sessions even on weekdays, usually late at night when we are about to sleep. Do you also encounter this kind of incident? I just hate people who lie and betraying my trust.
I dun think I will even probe further as we are grown ups, if he feels restricted by me, he shouldn't even think of starting a family!!!!
what did u find outseems like this relationship is really going nowhere... im opting for D as he did fuck around behind my back and not repentful. it's over... finally an ending to all the doubt and frustrations...
Last night my hubby told me he's meeting his friends for a drink nearby (it's at 12am +) and that he won't be driving out since it's nearby. At 6am this morning, he is still out and best part, his car is gone! So I sms him and asked innocently "thought you didn't wanna drive? still drinking at 6am?"
He came home before 7am, slept, didn't even explain why he's out so late.
I'm now 7mth preggy with a 4yrs old son, and he has been meeting friends for kopi sessions even on weekdays, usually late at night when we are about to sleep. Do you also encounter this kind of incident? I just hate people who lie and betraying my trust.
I dont think I will even probe further as we are grown ups, if he feels restricted by me, he shouldn't even think of starting a family!!!!