:nah:Last Sat, my SIL gv me a pc of her mind (again, yes again cos it happened b4) abt how I shld educate my dd abt wat to eat during recess time.
Well, my older dd (P2) had told tis SIL of mine tt for the 1st few days of tis new sch yr, she oni had fishball soup during her recess time. DD oso told SIL tt it was bcos she's afraid tt she'll hv not enuff time to finish eating (which is y she dun go for noodles or rice).
SIL's comment was "cannot like tt, u shld tell her tt it's alright even if she can't finish her food, u shld tell her tt she shld buy noodles or rice cos fishball soup is not enuff de ma, she said by the time u go fetch her from sch, she oredi going to faint cos of hunger.......":err:
I tried to tell SIL tt I've told dd many times to buy wat she wanna eat n highlight to her tt she shld buy noodles or rice if she's feeling hungry. But SIL continued with her comments with the "u r not taking gd care of ur dd" tone.
The thg is when dd is in sch, it's really beyond my means of restricting wat she wanna hv for recess, rite???
Well, I appreciate tt SIL is concerned abt dd but the way she put things across is like I'm a failure. :err:
The other time when dd told tis SIL abt an incident whereby dd dropped her watermelon at the sch tuckshop, a janitor saw it n gv her a 20cents telling her to get a new one. Tis janitor oso told dd tt she need not return the 20cents to him.
I appreciated tt SIL told me abt tis incident cos dd din tell me abt it. However, after telling me the whole incident she went on to say "I very angry leh, bcos hor ur dd always tell me everything but never tell u leh, u muz tell her tt she muz tell u everything de ma":bmad:
I was angry when SIL said tt. But I din show my anger. Instead I told her tt maybe dd had forgotten to tell me abt it cos dun expect her to come bk home n report on everything ma. N so happened tt dd remembered tt day thus mentioned it to SIL.
I am very certained tt if tis "not buying noodles or rice" thg happened on her dd, she'll juz brushed it off with "she's like tt de la, wat u wan me to do?"
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Well, my older dd (P2) had told tis SIL of mine tt for the 1st few days of tis new sch yr, she oni had fishball soup during her recess time. DD oso told SIL tt it was bcos she's afraid tt she'll hv not enuff time to finish eating (which is y she dun go for noodles or rice).
SIL's comment was "cannot like tt, u shld tell her tt it's alright even if she can't finish her food, u shld tell her tt she shld buy noodles or rice cos fishball soup is not enuff de ma, she said by the time u go fetch her from sch, she oredi going to faint cos of hunger.......":err:
I tried to tell SIL tt I've told dd many times to buy wat she wanna eat n highlight to her tt she shld buy noodles or rice if she's feeling hungry. But SIL continued with her comments with the "u r not taking gd care of ur dd" tone.
The thg is when dd is in sch, it's really beyond my means of restricting wat she wanna hv for recess, rite???
Well, I appreciate tt SIL is concerned abt dd but the way she put things across is like I'm a failure. :err:
The other time when dd told tis SIL abt an incident whereby dd dropped her watermelon at the sch tuckshop, a janitor saw it n gv her a 20cents telling her to get a new one. Tis janitor oso told dd tt she need not return the 20cents to him.
I appreciated tt SIL told me abt tis incident cos dd din tell me abt it. However, after telling me the whole incident she went on to say "I very angry leh, bcos hor ur dd always tell me everything but never tell u leh, u muz tell her tt she muz tell u everything de ma":bmad:
I was angry when SIL said tt. But I din show my anger. Instead I told her tt maybe dd had forgotten to tell me abt it cos dun expect her to come bk home n report on everything ma. N so happened tt dd remembered tt day thus mentioned it to SIL.
I am very certained tt if tis "not buying noodles or rice" thg happened on her dd, she'll juz brushed it off with "she's like tt de la, wat u wan me to do?"
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