Koala bear mummy
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Hi mummies,
Hubs and I had lunch session with his friends and wives recently. A couple who brought along a very boyish and cute 4 year old son commented on how different their second 1.5 year old daughter look from her brother and themselves, saying things like small eyes, very little eyelashes, don't look like anyone in the family maternal or paternal, immediate or extended, don't know if she's picked up from somewhere (coming from the mother herself!) good full 5 mins basically about the daughter not as goodlooking as the elder boy..
This started me thinking that indeed parents can be 'big small heart' (favouritisim) towards their children, even modern and young parents. Perhaps becoz some people still favour boys? Or favour the smarter one? Or love the more obedient ones? The ones who help make their parents look good when parents compare with their friends?
What do you think?
Hubs and I had lunch session with his friends and wives recently. A couple who brought along a very boyish and cute 4 year old son commented on how different their second 1.5 year old daughter look from her brother and themselves, saying things like small eyes, very little eyelashes, don't look like anyone in the family maternal or paternal, immediate or extended, don't know if she's picked up from somewhere (coming from the mother herself!) good full 5 mins basically about the daughter not as goodlooking as the elder boy..
This started me thinking that indeed parents can be 'big small heart' (favouritisim) towards their children, even modern and young parents. Perhaps becoz some people still favour boys? Or favour the smarter one? Or love the more obedient ones? The ones who help make their parents look good when parents compare with their friends?
What do you think?
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