ethans mummy
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pls share ur views, mummies....
婚外情?
婚外情?
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yup, tommyboi! totally agreed!More and more women are doing that nowadays too...
yup, tommyboi! totally agreed!
love & lust are beyonds one human beings control...
so if applys to women, izit forgivable?!
hmm.. if u r the one doing that, what will u do??Ask him to get lost.
I can give you an answer of asking my hubby to get lost if i found out he's having EMA, shows that i wun do sucha thing too.
It's really redundant to ask sucha qns.
I'm a woman, who will not do sucha things.
Though im aware of those temptations.
Lust, money & looks.
EMA...does not only mean sleeping with other people. Emotional derail is enough to constitute EMA. Is that less or more forgivable than physical derail or just as bad?
hmmm...another school of thought is that if his heart is not with the girl, the girl will try to win it back again (and vice versa). why not?Once his heart is not with me, whats the point of being together?
Why be a burden?
hmmm...another school of thought is that if his heart is not with the girl, the girl will try to win it back again (and vice versa). why not?
Well.....i can give a definate answer right now. :embarrassed:Will give a definite answer here when thing really happens one day :001_302:
since u say u trusted her then hw u found out she went tt guy's hse? why u say she dun feel she at fault? wat did she said?Well.....i can give a definate answer right now. :embarrassed:
I never thought this would happen to me. Having 2 daughters to think of.
My wife & i married for 3 years....me working while my wife stays at home.
She now have a guy whom shower her with love & care. I found out 2 months back and swollowed my pride as a man to ask her back to this family afterall having 2 kids that's growing up. She promised to cut COMPLETE contact with this guy and i do even more that i can to make her feel worth and even trusted her to let her go out alone.
But just back then i found that all was a big lie to cut contact. She have been going to the guy's home & god knows what happen (what can a guy & a gal alone in home do?) and she have been going over like 3~4 times a week during weekdays as she told me going to "another friend's" place to do stuff & i trusted her.
I just felt so lost and cheated......and stupid to have give her trust again for the sake of this family. Right now i'm still feeling lost......she don't feel she's at fault at all and talks to me as if it was my fault to push her for this fling or more.
Her msn personal message gave the dog away despite it was in japanese (google language tools translated) and i accessed her laptop to find her msn conversation not closed and read through the chats between she and the guy. I admit i was at fault to intrude her laptop but the strong urge and insecurity drove me to check after seeing the personal message.......i nv expect to find the unclosed chat message there and all the "darling, muacks, miss you, massage while making love to you tomorrow" message there......it really sent rage down my spine.since u say u trusted her then hw u found out she went tt guy's hse? why u say she dun feel she at fault? wat did she said?
i feel tt b it man or woman they shouldnt take lonely as an xcuse to haf affairs. If feel neglected then speak to ur other half n even it doesnt wrk it doesnt gif them the reason to haf affairs.
When getting marry everyone take VOWS n if cant keep promise then for wat take vows? Take for fun or to SHOW ppl who come witness ur wedding only?:nah: