EDD Dec 2014

Joeychen85

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Starling.

Nope , his still waiting for his cc slot below my block . Apply him on when his 6 mths old . Even d cc not yet open offically . End up all slot still get occupied . And still have 150 over bb infront of him . Faint . I totally no time to cook , n he very picky nw .. dun eat wat ever i cook for him .. so i stop cooking for him . I on his fav tv show , let him play wif his ipad , but doesnt let him stay still for awhile . When ever i stand up go kitchen or toilet .. he will follow.. -_-"...

Apple poon

Hair fall is 1 of d symptom too.. i had bad hair fall ever since my #1 pregnancy till nw .. on n off drop alots .. lucky my hair like grass field . If not i can c middle of d ocean lo ( 地中海 )... lol.. anw dun worry , it will still slowly grow bk after u give birth .. but also after u give birth will experience hair drop again.. cos ur bb hair drop , ur hair will drop along.. like changing new hair tgt wif ur bb ..

Pris

Ya , indeed your is more easier den mine .. if im wrking mum .. sure slp like dead meat when i rch hme after wrk .. but im sure my boy wont let me rest jus for 5 mins .. lol .. i quit my job b4 i gt #1 pregnancy , till nw jobless for almost 3 yrs . Due to my boy no cc slot , no 1 can tk care of him , dun wanna hire maid to tk care of him , having #2 , hard to find job also . Rotting in d hse .. can c spider web around me liao .. lol
 
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Starling

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Joey, wow ur cc so hot!
U r not alone, my boy will also follow mi to toilet.

is ur boy slpg with u or he start to slp alone?
How will u cope when #2 arrives? Will u intend to get a helper?
Then when u go deliver, #1 how?

Initially i I wanted to let #1 start to slp on his own but then he still hasn't been slpg thru the night so decided tt all of us slp in the same room till mayb he is 3yo
when go deliver I will put him with my mum. Duno if my mum can handle him..
Now I will try to keep telling my boy tt got new sibling. Hope he won't b jealous when #2 arrives...
 

Joeychen85

Member
Starling

I stay in town area , tats y cc slot very hot.. some even apply for slot b4 their bb born lo.. omg.. faint.. he follow me to toilet den c me close d door , he will cry super hard lo..

Erm.. his still sleeping wif us , jus nxt to our bed .. currently kip repeating to him.. he going to b big bro soon , have to guai guai .. cannot hit my tummy.. inside gt ur sis/ bro.. so some time he will sayang.. but when he get excited , he will hit me again . When i going to deliver , tin i will ask my mil to cme over to stay lo.. only mil can help .. cos mostly mil will b d 1 helping me to do confinement . So she have to stay in my hse too.. so after confinement den decide wat to do lo.. mostly during confinement i will still tking care of my 2 kids lo.. cos my mil wrkin.. her timing is mornin n nite .. as part time cleaner . So she will help me in d noon , guess she will stop her nite part time job to help.. so haix.. cant do a proper confinement tis round too.. cos cl too exp .. dun wish to pay extra $ ... haix..cos jobless , hub salary is jus nice for our expense for #1 milk powder n diaper n some of our expense also .. how bout u ?
 
Joey

I always think stay home mum is a big big challenge which i dont dare to take up.. haha hence send bb to ifc.. luckily the ifc is good with only max 5 bb.. and teachers are real real nice... but yeah after work sometimes really tired but hav to tahan till 930pm when bb sleep.. but will hav to pack bb stuffs for next day..n her porridge always have to cook and freeze.. only wkend she can eat fresh food.. maybe after #2 arrive.. yr #1 will become gd big bro! When bb cry.. he will take milk btl.. haha

Apple poon

My hair fall only started like ard 4mths after birth!!! And finally after another 6mths then stop falling.. the forehead corners almost botak.. scare me... but during preggie hair got thicker n thicker..
 

Joeychen85

Member
Pris

Well , as long as he dun give me trouble can liao.. cos he nw always give me headache . Refuse to tok , wat ever he wan , jus pull me there only .. den wan milk , he will pull me to where i put my milk den point on d milk tin n knot his head.. den if im sleeping , he will cry den pull my hair , hit me for his milk.. haix.. troublesome boy i have.. teach him to tok.. jus refuse to tok .. dunno when den he will start toking..

Ur lucky to find ifc for ur bb.. i not tat lucky .. den still waiting 4ever for his cc slot .. faint.. but when bb go cc , i also headache.. cos he will attach more to virus .. den easily to get sick.. although is common.. but headaches if we dun have helper n have to tk care of ourself lo..
 
Joey
Haha i hear boys normally start talking later? At least able to communicate.. or u try telling him.. u want milk.milk? My daughter cant talk yet but able to express herself which i am happy already.. my nephew also start talking late..

Yah lor.. i heng kiasu early find one coz i cfm hav to go back work... but the ifc is not super near my home like downstairs kind.. need to take bus or drive... my hubby drive so ok.. else i take bus also not tt far.. now is consider whether to stay in same ctr for playgrp..

Anyway though u unable to do proper confinement.. at least must hav the massage!! I think helpz alot.. :)
 

Joeychen85

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Pris

Nah , no time for d massage. During my 1st i din do any massage too.. so i have to do most of d hse wrk during confinement .. i nvr find other cc beside cc below my block.. as i lazy to bring him to other cc.. cos i waiting for d cc below.. as if i found job , dun nid to travel so much place . Tats y i prefer cc below my block .. n nw pregnant more hard for me to carry him up n dwn d dwn bus.. as my tummy have inner bleeding .. waiting for it to disappear .

He did show us when he wanna have milk , but doesnt speak out .. so some time really fed up when he wan some tin but doesnt wan to tok.. den n some more nw preggies.. hormo changes.. easily to get hot temper.. always accidentally throw temper on him... haiz.. sad.. hopefully he wont tin tat i dote on #2 n kip bully him...
 
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waisque

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I am really excited when I went to my gynae at week 6. Through the ultrascan, I saw the tiny little thing inside me and I could hear the heartbeat beating at a really fast speed.

For now, my appetite has been generally poor. Although I have not experience MS, but somehow I felt there is something stuck at my throat which can be quite irritating. I am easily restless these days. Suppose this is normal?

My next appointment will be 4Jun, cant wait!
 
Hey ​waisque​, that was my MS symptoms too at 6 weeks or so then it got progressively worse, today, I puked for the first time and I'm in my 10th week.

Hopefully, it'll all pass soon.

So, to apply for infant care we need to start now right? What about childcare at 2 years old? Usually, how long is the wait?
 

TingtingPYT

New Member
Hi mommies, its my first pregnancy and im at 9 weeks long, edd 23rd dec(maybe). still waiting for my first gynae visit at TMC on 31st this month. anyone seen/seeing dr adrian woodworth?
 

Joeychen85

Member
Hi welcome tingting to dec group .

Waisque & mistycloud

I already start vomiting & ms 2 weeks ago . Wat ever i eat , mostly will vomit out . I view my previous pregnancy group chat on june 2012 . Notice tat my ms getting faster tis round . My #1 i start to vomit when i rch 16weeks . Tis round i start vomit on 7 weeks . Appetite drop . Feel irritate when cmes to hungry . Wanted to eat , but scare of wasted d food i tk by vomiting .

Mistycloud

Some kiasu mummy already start apply for slot for ifc lo.. if ur area is hot , its tk a very long wait . I waited 2yrs for my son ifc & cc slot till nw..and still waiting ..admin staff told me , d slot will only available nxt yr lo . Which mth still not yet kno , if tats d case i will wait till he turns 3 , n apply for his nursery . Anw left 1 yr to go .
 
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Joey

but the massage quite pampering eh.. you very power!! during confinement still do housework yrself!! For me.. i stay with my MIL so the main chores she will do.. my focus was baby!

inner bleeding?? how come will have this??? you better try to rest more..

and yes i agree!! hormones bah.. haha when i had #1.. i suddenly become demanding of my step son.. everything he does seem to make me angry and he was already 13 yr old at that time.. but when reach 2nd trimester.. became ok again..

give your boy some time.. soon he will talk... =)

Waisque

I think that something stuck in your throat could be heartburn.. quite common.. try to eat smaller meals but more frequent.. since your appetite is not so good.. try to eat more healthy and nutritious food =) jiayou!
 

Joeychen85

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Pris

No choice leh.. i have to do hse cleaning myself , as theres no 1 would help me on tat . I cant take it when d floor so dirty , sticky . When my mil stay in hse to help me do confinement . She doesnt mess up my hse , i already thk god . When ever she cmes , all stuff , fd all on d floor . She purposely open a pc of new paper n place it on d floor . Den place all d fd on d news paper . Den leave it there , den she will help sweep floor , but she only c where dirty den sweep where , instead of sweep d whole hse , So when my so cal confinement food all on d floor , she will jus sweep d round shape around d newspaper . den i told her not hygiene to place d food openly on d floor where by there will b dust on d food . She dun care n continues put her food on d floor . Faint . So during confinement , im eating dusty confinement food. Haix her hse also full of junk , food also all around d floor .

Inner bleeding , i also not very sure how it appear . During my #1 , i did not have tis pro . I tin it shld b due to my dangerous theme park rides in taiwan , when i didnt notice im pregnant . so d inner bleeding appear ba.. 4get to check wif my gynae when i visit her last time . My nxt check up is june 11 . Will check wif her again .
 

Starling

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Joey, I shld b going to my mums place during confinement so tt she can help mi take care of #1 n bath #2 for the 1st 2 wks.
But she say she will not b cooking n ask mi to order confinement tingkat..
now need to source. I like mt a confinement food, not sure if they do catering like Thomson..
 

Starling

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Mummies, what is ur comfort food now?
For now, cold fruits n junks like instant noodle, French fries, KFC r my new fav... I know, not healthy..
I only hope faster reach 2nd trimester n hope ms will disappear.
 

Starling

Member
Joey, y ur mil dun place food on the table? Or at least cover the food then do sweeping...
Poor u.. Eat dusty food. Hope this time round she won't do the same...
 

TingtingPYT

New Member
Thank you Joey!

Starling, I crave for the exact same thing especially KFC mashed potato. I really love junks and potatoes now.
Does anyone experience crazy dreams? I have been dreaming about weird stuffs . I just got shaken awake by one x.x
 
Joey

Oh dear.. means your MIL bring her own lifestyle habits over o! Poor thing no wonder you have to do the housework on your own..
But yah I agree with Starling, why MIL dont place the food on the table?? rather she dont sweep rite?

My MIL is opposite.. very gan cheong.. i moved in with her and then she will keep niam me to eat my meals.. go rest.. and must bathe before sunset... haha sometimes bb crying then she just nice finish cooking my lunch.. die die also wan me go and eat first!! haha but i know she good intention but just that sometimes abit irritated with the nagging.. hehe

Anyway so this time your MIL also going to help you with confinement??

wahh haha so exciting rides.. baby next time also become very daring one.. hehe i think shud be fine bah since your gynae ok to set your next appt in June.. just try to rest more and carry your #1 less though i know really difficult to handle the lil #1..
 
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