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Baby fair ? I thought its parenthood fair ??Oh by the way, anyone going for the baby fair this weekend at Expo? It has started today?
Not sure if I should go since I want to bring my gal for haircut, do update.
Baby fair ? I thought its parenthood fair ??Oh by the way, anyone going for the baby fair this weekend at Expo? It has started today?
Not sure if I should go since I want to bring my gal for haircut, do update.
Haha that's funny. Well you can make your own honey birdnest if you are craving for something to eat. It is certainly light and nourishing.hmm.. think confinement time, i have to call my mum everyday to cook my fave food. only she know what i like best. mother in law cooking and my taste dont match at all. every night go home dinner, i will have bad appetite... thus, eat VERY little. maybe 3 mouth of rice.. dishes all that also never really touch. =(
not good for my baby. so i had to drink milk all that to satisfy my hunger.
but i love fries to the MAX! every time da bao large fries from MAC before going home. haha. quickly finish before i reach home. *prevent mother in law naggings* LOL!
. Hi rabbymum: just a suggestion (hope u don't mind)... U can actually train Ashley to sleep through the night without the feedings. I know how u feel with the night feedings coz my son used to wake up at nite for nite feedings. But frm the 3rd mth onwards, we train him to sleep through the nite. It really makes everyone life much easier.Actually I agree with your thoughts too, for me and my hubby, we have no one to turn to for support, we are totally on our own, so by hook or by crook we have to put Ashley in the infant care. Planning beforehand is really really very important for our case, I cannot stress further. We are also restricted in our social activities too, e.g. recently I feel like going for a SSO concert but the first thing that comes into my mind ‘who is going to look after my gal?’ Also, when I need to travel for biz trip, my hubby will be alone taking care of our gal, imagine him cleaning up her poo, sigh, you know what I mean? We still have to do housework, we are totally exhausted, everyday we are in operational mode, do things quickly then sleep early cos our gal will wake up at 1plus, 4 plus every nite without fail. So, we feel that one child is really what we can handle at this moment, probably no more.
I also thought of the fact that Ashley will be lonely without any sibling butfund to go university, plus the quality time we can spend with her, I think we really have to make some sacrifices one way or another.
hmm.. other than Aunt, no one else u can turn to? cousins? if me, i will rather bring bb along. just put her in her stroller and walk around, when its time to go in, den u bring her in tgt. check up quite fast de mar. or find those infant care that has the 1 day service. not sure how much. but i heard there's such service. only scared aly cannot get use to the environment and teachers/friends.Aly is still on waiting list for infant care. That's why I got no choice but to rely on them for now. Sigh.
My hospital appt is on the 26th Nov. & I still don't know how to tell them to look after Aly for me. My hubby will be working. I don't think I'll be able to handle if I were to bring her along cos I foresee got to wait v long. Seriously don't know what to do...
i felt so blessed now althou i keep complaining. lol. my mum, mil , sibilings will help to look after my girl whenever needed. my girl stays over at my parents place over the weekend without fail. if she fall sick on weekdays, she will stay over there too coz i will be working.. so usually, i dont have problem finding someone to look aft if i need to go out chill, movie, dinner, concert,etc. i also cannot leave my hubby to look aft my girl alone for too long. maybe after 8pm at night, coz shortly after that, she will be asleep. ha. my girl is a good sleeper, so, as long as we make her slp, everything is OK. home chores, mostly done by hubby. i only does maybe 20%? ha. coz i will be looking after bb when he does the housework. so, i wont be so tired.Actually I agree with your thoughts too, for me and my hubby, we have no one to turn to for support, we are totally on our own, so by hook or by crook we have to put Ashley in the infant care. Planning beforehand is really really very important for our case, I cannot stress further. We are also restricted in our social activities too, e.g. recently I feel like going for a SSO concert but the first thing that comes into my mind ‘who is going to look after my gal?’ Also, when I need to travel for biz trip, my hubby will be alone taking care of our gal, imagine him cleaning up her poo, sigh, you know what I mean? We still have to do housework, we are totally exhausted, everyday we are in operational mode, do things quickly then sleep early cos our gal will wake up at 1plus, 4 plus every nite without fail. So, we feel that one child is really what we can handle at this moment, probably no more.
I also thought of the fact that Ashley will be lonely without any sibling but in our current society, if we want to give her the best, ensuring she got good foundation and sufficient fund to go university, plus the quality time we can spend with her, I think we really have to make some sacrifices one way or another.
then act blur till u need to tell them lor? u need to do housework or carry heavy stuff at home? try to avoid when needed. they cook for u? just lookout on the food that you shouldnt be eating lor.They knew about my pregnancy already. but in front of me they still act blur, as though they don't know anything. I think they're just waiting for me to break the news to them myself. This is so torturing !
hmm.. im not the only child, im the youngest infact. n my elder sibilings dont need to give her allowance at all. she somehow felt that im very loaded. -_-" im earning the least compared to my elder sibilings lor. she can say, my sis alot of bills to pay, so no $. I DONT Have bills meh? i cant be bothered to argue over such thing. n there's nothing i can do about it. apparently, both my sibiling are SINGLE still. n they have NO KIDS. so, who has higher expenses?!hi gem,
y ur own mother like tat? r u the only daughter she hv? she should b supportive of u mah, hvg a 2nd one will gv a companion to ur little girl
anyway , y should we care bout wat others say mah, my mil oso says to me not to hv another one yt until my first kid hv grwn up. its my own life n furthermore, i the one who take care of my own child n nobody is helpin at all
They knew about my pregnancy already. but in front of me they still act blur, as though they don't know anything. I think they're just waiting for me to break the news to them myself. This is so torturing !
haizzz.. what to do. my mum thinks im MORE capable and have better education so i am ABLE to contribute more. I paid 100% of my UNI sch fees on my own. my hubby paid for it at first then i slowly pay him back and i've finished paying $13K to him. maybe the way i spend $ and splurge on travelling and good food, my mum thinks that i'm freaking rich.yup...agree..every family hv his own problem n difficulty... but its not fair for u to b the one contributing whereas ur older siblings r not yet married n hv lesser expenses than us!....
oh. i went on friday to the fair without my bb too. haha. im going on 02 Jan - 09 Jan( 8 days ).. whao! yours is 13 days! sooo long! my bb wont be going korea too. ha! need a break man.u goin korea when?????
i goin frm dec 25 - jan 6...without my baby...i was at the winter sale too....n oso buying the winter clothes...heheheh
Thanks Moon Kok !,
Sigh, talk about $$, ytd my aunt told my girl again, "tell your mummy go work whole day la, then I stay at home look after you." I straightaway stare her, then she just smile smile. Irritating lor ! Last time also always bug me for money. Then she help me look after my girl. Wtf.
Ytd also told my girl, when her meimei or didi born liao, my girl go sleep with her. then I look after the small one. V angry !