EDD in Oct'09

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bblove

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Hi Mothers,

I'm new here.. EDD on 20 Oct.. Still very green and lost over many stuff.. Haha.. Hoping to get more useful tips and help fm exp mums/mum-to-be here.. =)

Jess
 
lonerjas

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hakisumi said:
hahaa.. ya .. slim down can wear nice nice.. HOt mama... hehe.. :) my fitting clothes are crying outttt for me... ahahha... now my taste bud also like abit change cant eat too sweet stuffs after that will feel nausea.. deep inside me is sweet tooth..see or will feel like eating but when the nausea feeling comes... very gao whey~
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mayb baby taste change haha..

Now i got craving for sour sweet.. like soursop haha.. hmm i so sian at hm.. 2week hosp leave haha... i going JP ( jurong point ) makan. heehee
 
-jOanna

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lonerjas said:
mayb baby taste change haha..

Now i got craving for sour sweet.. like soursop haha.. hmm i so sian at hm.. 2week hospital leave haha... i going JP ( jurong point ) makan. heehee
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2 weeks hospital leave ~ so good :S when ur maternity leave starting?
 
lonerjas

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-jOanna said:
2 weeks hospital leave ~ so good :S when your maternity leave starting?
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ooh haha i very keng de.. 22 sep haha.. rite after the Hari Raya.. Don wan my ML to be eaten by PH haha... HOspi leave not easy get de leh... haha got chance to use just use lor.. 60 days entitlement de ma haha
 
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hakisumi

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-jOanna said:
probably is baby telling you he/she doesn't like sweet stuff =p
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ya lor.. i think so too~ i adjust accordingly .. hahaha
as for me.. my no pay leave started from jul den i den maternity..cos company somehow gg thru some money prb.. dunno next yr can go bk or not.. if not, start afresh le~
 
-jOanna

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lonerjas said:
ooh haha i very keng .. 22 sep haha.. rite after the Hari Raya.. dont want my ML to be eaten by PH haha... HOspi leave not easy get ... haha got chance to use just use .. 60 days entitlement haha
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hmmm.. jialat.. but mine starts on 9th sept.. :( aiya.. bo bian.. juz rest lesser and hope baby comes out faster lor :tlaugh:

hakisumi said:
ya .. i think so too~ i adjust accordingly .. hahaha
as for me.. my no pay leave started from jul then i then maternity..cos company somehow gg thru some money prb.. dont know next your can go back or not.. if not, start afresh ~
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wah.. ur company eat u ahh.. hais.. start afresh also not easy somemore baby ard 3mths old only duno new company will wan to hire anot.. I wan change job also cuz of family..
 
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hakisumi

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-jOanna said:
wah.. your company eat you ahh.. hais.. start afresh also not easy somemore baby around 3mths old only dont know new company will want to hire anot.. I want change job also cuz of family..
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hmm.. ya.. some hear aldy like think very wat lor.. but my job require me to carry some heavy samples.. so think think might as well rest lor.. i also feel better..like i cook for myself everydae~..new start also dunno start from where..really is see 1 step walk 1 step...plus got new born i think i ll super bu she de
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lonerjas

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karoru said:
lonerjas mummy, how you get HL? i also want coz so tired and painful to go work daily nowdays...
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IS ur gynae private?? Just ask ur gynae give lor.. At 1st my gynae oso say cant give cos usually need to be discharge from hospital den hosp give not enuff den he can issue more days.

But i say nbm my coy will still acknowledge his HL so he just issue me lor.

FYI i did admit hosp last mth for 1 day. I heard from my nurse fren say usually private gynae can issue HL up to 1mth.. Just need say u not feeling good keep mC and already use MC finish just ask doc give HL. U can try lor
 
lonerjas

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hakisumi said:
hmm.. ya.. some hear already like think very what .. but my job require me to carry some heavy samples.. so think think might as well rest .. i also feel better..like i cook for myself everydae~..new start also dont know start from where..really is see 1 step walk 1 step...plus got new born i think i ll super bu she
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BUt u tk UPL leh.. so lugi, now oso haven deliver, can use HL or wat ma if really not feel gd. Even if they got $$ prob they still hav to give u ur ML hor.
U work more than 6mths with them?? they hv no right to not pay u ok?? 4mth ML 2 mth is paid by company and 2mth by GOVT.. U better go check with ur HR don lugi, is $$ leh.. With baby coming $$ can be very impt..
 
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lonerjas said:
BUt you tk UPL .. so lugi, now also have not deliver, can use HL or what if really not feel good. Even if they got $$ prob they still hav to give you your ML .
you work more than 6mths with them?? they have no right to not pay you ok?? 4mth ML 2 month is paid by company and 2mth by GOVT.. you better go check with your HR dont lugi, is $$ .. With baby coming $$ can be very impt..
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ya lo.. the ML they better give me.. UPL let it be le.. but gt agreement before i go on UPL..
 
-jOanna

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actually if company can give me UPL 1 mth b4 my birth i also ok cuz got savings and on leave usually at home ma so wont spend much also.. u work have to pay transport fees almost everyday and food.. haha..

My company very hard get HL de. dat time i admit hospital den got 2 weeks HL de.. and when i MC or HL, boss very mafan need change schedule.. so my job if MC too much boss will KPKB and complain to other managers say I keep MC..
 
lonerjas

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-jOanna said:
actually if company can give me UPL 1 month before my birth i also ok cuz got savings and on leave usually at home so wont spend much also.. you work have to pay transport fees almost everyday and food.. haha..

My company very hard get HL . dat time i admit hospital then got 2 weeks HL .. and when i MC or HL, boss very mafan need change schedule.. so my job if MC too much boss will KPKB and complain to other managers say I keep MC..
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UPL leh.. even no need transport oso need eat leh...

last yr i took my ML early lor.. 1.5mth before due lol..
 
lonerjas

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-jOanna said:
aiyo eat easy.. at home cheap and nutritious lehs.. haha..
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if i eat alone i dunno how to cook sia haha... unless week ends my kids all home den i will cook 2 meals.. if i alone i very lazy sometime don bother to eat.. mayb ham and bread oso will do liao..

but since i will be long term at home i decide to bring my gal back look after myself instead of MIL den i cook for her and i can eat oso lor.. i will bother to make nutritious foodfor her only for myself i lazy haha. While my son will still stay at MIL there for wkday cos his sch is just nx block
 
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lonerjas said:
if i eat alone i dont know how to cook sia haha... unless week ends my kids all home then i will cook 2 meals.. if i alone i very lazy sometime dont bother to eat.. mayb ham and bread also will do ..

but since i will be long term at home i decide to bring my gal back look after myself instead of mother in law then i cook for her and i can eat also .. i will bother to make nutritious foodfor her only for myself i lazy haha. While my son will still stay at mother in law there for wkday cos his sch is just nx block
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not a good choice to bring ur girl back now.. after ur pregnancy bah.. cuz if suddenly u wan give birth, ur girl how? ._. very jialat de when ur hse got u n ur girl only, nobody to take care of her or even you when emergency comes...
 
lonerjas

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-jOanna said:
not a good choice to bring your girl back now.. after your pregnancy bah.. cuz if suddenly you want give birth, your girl how? ._. very jialat when your house got you and your girl only, nobody to take care of her or even you when emergency comes...
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ok la my MIL just stay a few blk away no worries.. i will know when my baby is coming.. I miss my gal everyday even i know she is few block away.. i still go see her everyday might as well bring her home lol
 
-jOanna

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lonerjas said:
ok my mother in law just stay a few blk away no worries.. i will know when my baby is coming.. I miss my gal everyday even i know she is few block away.. i still go see her everyday might as well bring her home lol
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okok .. lol ..
 
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