seems like alot of us struggling with no.1 n no.2...
my no.1 although she can self entertain herself, she has also become sticky to me... if she sees me carry no.2, she also wants me to carry no.1... then when she realise no one looking after no.2 sleeping n no one watching her, she will go over to no.2 crawl over him, "beat" him n do all sort of things to wake him up or make him cry... my mil at home also like not at home... she doesn't really help me even if she hears both crying.... either busy talking on the phone or playing hp game... tell her i go make milk or go toilet ask her help me look after that or carry no.2, she will reply orh but go back to her phone n ignore them...
nowadays i also keep crying n keeping telling my hubby i die with the kids better... no burden to him, no need to be stress... he keeps thinking i very free alot of time to rest cox his mum say i always sleeping n keep letting bb cry... then we will end up in quarrel... so sianz... My sil who has a miscarriage is having better treatment than me... luckily i still can run back to my parent's place for a breather else i dunno what i will really do to myself and children...
Now can't wait for them to faster grow up and things will be better...
my no.1 although she can self entertain herself, she has also become sticky to me... if she sees me carry no.2, she also wants me to carry no.1... then when she realise no one looking after no.2 sleeping n no one watching her, she will go over to no.2 crawl over him, "beat" him n do all sort of things to wake him up or make him cry... my mil at home also like not at home... she doesn't really help me even if she hears both crying.... either busy talking on the phone or playing hp game... tell her i go make milk or go toilet ask her help me look after that or carry no.2, she will reply orh but go back to her phone n ignore them...
nowadays i also keep crying n keeping telling my hubby i die with the kids better... no burden to him, no need to be stress... he keeps thinking i very free alot of time to rest cox his mum say i always sleeping n keep letting bb cry... then we will end up in quarrel... so sianz... My sil who has a miscarriage is having better treatment than me... luckily i still can run back to my parent's place for a breather else i dunno what i will really do to myself and children...
Now can't wait for them to faster grow up and things will be better...