EDD Sept 2012 mummies!
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ahwang
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Any one bb can slp by themselves? Mine simply not cutting me any slack.... Need to be carried shh/patt to slp.. tried to put in cot once drowsy... But wake up immediately... Don't wanna have the habit of letting him slp in my arm but no choice have to wait for him into deep slp then slowly put in cot. How to train them to slp by themselves? I can't imagine carrying hin further as he gets heavier.
Meltie think I have to be more diligent and patience in burping him.
Meltie think I have to be more diligent and patience in burping him.
ahwang
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Justamom what a waste I find Ronnie kitchen is gd... Today had pork and a whole fish! I like as they often give fish which is a natural source if omega 3 in our bm! And they always give 2 meat and 1 veg... Even the soup like seaweed soup I had today had chicken slices in it and for 145 I think worth it they arrive promptly also ard 11 plus to be consumed by 1pm.
Meltie looks like empire is bad... How cab rice turn bad ? Mine even eat aft 1 Still okay... Maybe u need to open up the rice and air it ?
Meltie looks like empire is bad... How cab rice turn bad ? Mine even eat aft 1 Still okay... Maybe u need to open up the rice and air it ?
Oh mine is tingkatdelivery.sg (also known as chu wei san tong).. i receive the rice at around 1pm, open is like that liao... :/ sigh.. waiting for 10 days trial to end.. i haven't got time to call ronnie kitchen.. bb is feeding every 1.5hr.. just latched again.. dunno why she so hungry ... i got stomachache.. 3 times today liao.. dunno wad i ate wrong... trying to tahan not to feed bb in toilet... :/ she fussing alot..
Any moms experience bb regurgitating / puking right after unlatching? realise my bb has been doing that quite often in these few days.. dunno if its sign of overfeeding.. coz i latch her and she can drink quite long.. unlatch den she will puke or milk will leak from her mouth directly onto her shoulders and me.. :/
Hey ahwang, my bb also doesn't slp by herself.. only times she can try to doze off by herself n slp is on the bouncer.. sometimes i need to rock more to get her to sleep.. in the day i just put her in bouncer liao .. training her to be carried less.. at night den we put her in cot in our bedroom... but she stirs alot too... once put down, will squirm and cry .. carry will fall aslp.. sigh.. my hubby is suspecting the bed too flat and too cold compared to our arms... even bouncer will sort of 'carry' her by the sides...
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hey NeSSa, read ur post .. cheer up ya! Our babies are our strength! Don't let anyone's opinion determine your life! Happy mummy happy baby! Alot of things are beyond our control.. maybe we cannot change what they think about us, but i'm sure we can get better always! As long as u're doing the best , giving the best to ur bb , conscience clear, thats it! We're 1st time mums ! Already started w steep learning curve of learning how to care for a newborn! Cannot expect us to be experts right? If they can do better, ask them to take care for a day and demo how to burp loh... i only can find out many methods to burp and what works for my bb... i take abt 20mins too.... my fren says its normal.. as bb gets older, they'll be easier to burp or burp by themselves...
Jiayou ya! I'm sure its not ez to hear so many negative remarks.. don't let it get to u ya! It'll not do u gd! Filter it! Just focus and concentrate on ur bb and use the energy to nurture ur bb.. no point wasting energy thinkng of what they say... i guess thats why i chose to stay alone w hubby in our own hse from the start.. its always not ez staying w in laws or others.. however, i gotta be independent and manage everything on my own loh... its either this or that...
Remember at the end of the day, u run ur life ya? speak to ur hubby if he can listen to ur thoughts.. in the end , as long as bb healthy and happy, thats all that matters i feel! and we'll be happy!
meltie i told my hubby liao...he also told my mil wat my mum n dad said n she was angry wif them..and told my hubby if she look after my son she wont allow them to see him..but i will still bring him to see them once a mth..since they are nt working by choice they expect me to pay for anything that i go out with them...
i appreciate my parents help when they care for my son but they overspoil him which we dun wan n keep saying all those negative things in front of him..and they dun even let me touch him...when bathing i m not allowed near him...i can undress and change to new clothes but the actual bathing i m not allowed...
oh ya got a chk up today with the specialist abt my son problem and confirmed he has hypospadias more inform http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002265/
i appreciate my parents help when they care for my son but they overspoil him which we dun wan n keep saying all those negative things in front of him..and they dun even let me touch him...when bathing i m not allowed near him...i can undress and change to new clothes but the actual bathing i m not allowed...
oh ya got a chk up today with the specialist abt my son problem and confirmed he has hypospadias more inform http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002265/
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erlina my RO has a lot of comments and i kinda hv to redo my epms... or rather, add more stuff. i'm cracking my head. i'm expected to write as much as the rest and i really can't rem what really happened in those 8 weeks i spent in sch as it just zoomed pass which was why mine was rather brief... but nvm i'll just hv to think of something. i know my RO just wan to help me boost my epms...
there are a few new young parents in sch so we chatted and it was great catching up. on the other hand hearing abt male colleagues saying how they help their wives in this and that, and hearing the ladies say how their hubbies were so nice and helpful makes me feel so urgh. ok i know i shouldn't compare. but urgh... sigh.
yup my tummy also has that dark vertical line and dark belly button... groin area also quite dark... should be more diligent in scrubbing but often bathe in a hurry when hear bb crying...
nessa *big hugs* some parents really think they are know it all... yes like meltie says, don't let the negative talks get to u. just saw ur son's condition as well. will ur son needs to go for surgical correction?
my bb doesn't slp by herself at all, need to cuddle her n walk around n rock her n pat her >< but i'm telling myself it's ok, now just bond w bb n do it... won't be able to do it forever... so enjoy the moment while it lasts... haha...
there are a few new young parents in sch so we chatted and it was great catching up. on the other hand hearing abt male colleagues saying how they help their wives in this and that, and hearing the ladies say how their hubbies were so nice and helpful makes me feel so urgh. ok i know i shouldn't compare. but urgh... sigh.
yup my tummy also has that dark vertical line and dark belly button... groin area also quite dark... should be more diligent in scrubbing but often bathe in a hurry when hear bb crying...
nessa *big hugs* some parents really think they are know it all... yes like meltie says, don't let the negative talks get to u. just saw ur son's condition as well. will ur son needs to go for surgical correction?
my bb doesn't slp by herself at all, need to cuddle her n walk around n rock her n pat her >< but i'm telling myself it's ok, now just bond w bb n do it... won't be able to do it forever... so enjoy the moment while it lasts... haha...
felicity yup he does need to go for op..doc said either 2 yrs old or older maybe younger depends on how big his penis too small cannot if before 2 yrs old and it is suitable size they will do the op...they said better before he start walking..coz if no ops he can pee towards himself and may cause problems when he want to have children next time..
Hey nessa, read abt ur son too.. hmm hope docs will be able to correct it with minimal procedures... one step at a time ya?
Hmm gd that u have supportive hubby n mil.. stay w positive ppl and be positive ya?
Sigh my bb's feeding schedule is all messed up liao.. last night was crazy with colic and latched her, she drank n drank for 50mins.. even i dozed off.. last fed at 9.20pm then woke up at 12.40am to feed.. i thought maybe she'll slp through a longer interval.. but she woke up at 3.20am... zzz fed liao , changed diaper den changed again coz she pooped on the new one.. den when i wanna carry her back to cot, her eyes wide open and now fussing to drink again.. feeding her now... zzz i'm so tired...
yesterday hubby came home and sort of complained to me he is v tired.. coz he helps out for 1 or 2 feeds at night so i can bathe, pump, slp for 1-2hrs.. as he's studying, exams are coming.. normally at night bb at most feed once den slp till past midnight will be my duty liao.. but he asked me whether will i be able to handle all by myself as he finds that he cannot do anything but take care of bb when its his turn.. but den ard late evening, bb mostly slping nowadays or just playing by herself on bouncer beside him n his computer.. i feel that he can just study in that few hrs... wonder why he can't.. bb fuss just rock abit.. sigh many times i come out and check on bb and find him surfing net, 9gag or on his iphone playing games... he just don't have the discipline to study la... i'm already so stretched, whole day taking care of hse n bb.. the only rest i look forward to is when he relieve me for 1 feed.. if i dun even get to rest that hour, how am i gonna tahan through the night? He got ippt later in the morn, so last might he say he need to slp by 11.. in the end nv feed bb, he brought bb to me and dozed off.. i was so tired latching bb frm 9-10pm.. 10.45 he pass to me .. 12plus i feed and start duty again...for just now 2 feeds, i was dozing all the way, so scared bb slip from my arms.. or she drink finish in my arms and i am still slping.. hard to keep myself awake!
sigh with his exams coming.. will i really be able to take it all alone? 24hr w bb and with the current feeding of less than 2hrs? plus colic and stuff? i'm already in sleep debt... everyday is just adding on.... am i asking too much for some relief?
Meltie, I can feel you. Though my hubby tried to help me up with 1 or 2 feeds in the night, he also mentioned to me that his exams coming and he can't probably pass his exams. Felt sad for him and told him I'll take over the feeds, in the end, only get to see him on his phone, watching tv, surfing net and sleep. Make me feel depressed that he should make use of his time wisely as situation has changed. Even for me to finish up the work review form before meeting my reporting officer also tried to do it when my bb sleeping. Rocked her and do it at the same time. In fact, last few days, we were at my mum's place and my mum has been helping out with the feeds and assisted me here and there. But, have to consider in law's feelings, so, have to come back home, where I receive minimal help from my in law and end up need hubby to help out here and there and he's frustrated. Just hope can go back my mum's place more often..
My baby also don't sleep on her own. She refuse to let us pat her to sleep, even carrying her to sleep, she'll still fuss around till she get her comfort position. She doesn't like to lie down on her own, she doesn't like to be carried too. So, we also don't know what she want and he doN't really play on her own. Haha.. Hope it will get better as she grows bigger..
Nessa, don't let ur parents' comments affect u, though it's seriously very hard. Sometimes, just feel helpless when u can't decide for ur own child. Nevertheless, stay happy and we are all learning as well. Hope ur son requires minimal op! Stay strong!!!
My baby also don't sleep on her own. She refuse to let us pat her to sleep, even carrying her to sleep, she'll still fuss around till she get her comfort position. She doesn't like to lie down on her own, she doesn't like to be carried too. So, we also don't know what she want and he doN't really play on her own. Haha.. Hope it will get better as she grows bigger..
Nessa, don't let ur parents' comments affect u, though it's seriously very hard. Sometimes, just feel helpless when u can't decide for ur own child. Nevertheless, stay happy and we are all learning as well. Hope ur son requires minimal op! Stay strong!!!
Nessa.. Will pray for ur boy that minimal surgical procedures will b needed...
Meanwhile stand on e support of ur hb n mil... If distancing ur parents will help then just distance for e time being...
Jiayou as new mummy thats a lot to learn
Meltie will u b able to btl feed charlotte for 1~2 meals instead of dl? At least u not so tired... Or ly down on bed at least u wont drop her... Or ly down day time at least ur arms can abit of rest
Meanwhile stand on e support of ur hb n mil... If distancing ur parents will help then just distance for e time being...
Jiayou as new mummy thats a lot to learn
Meltie will u b able to btl feed charlotte for 1~2 meals instead of dl? At least u not so tired... Or ly down on bed at least u wont drop her... Or ly down day time at least ur arms can abit of rest