youknowsue
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hi hi
someone told me I've already felt lonely for a really long time, so when i realised my marriage is not gonna work out and heading for D, many says i will be able to move on and focus on my 2 kids in a breeze.
it's true to a certain extent, but who loves to be lonely (when i'm supposed to b cherished in marriage ie not the case as he betrayed my trust...) and yet i still have to continue walking the winding road with my 2 young kiddos in loneliness?
part of me felt some inbalance n inequality, as he has moved on with another woman (even b4 the papers are signed) and yet im here trying to be as strong pillar and act as normal as i can so tt people around me dun feel worried...
i've tried to hit the gym and do more activities to keep myself busy, i wanted my 'me time' as much as i can find time and seriously i need to feel tt i'm not alone... at times when i feel down, who cani turn to? hmmm i can't be telling my kids... and there's no one that i can turn over to talk to. i blame him for causing me in this situation.
he visits my kids once a week, for eg today, he will always bring his mum, bro n his gf along when he is out with my kids, i really wonder if he really wants to spend time with my kids or otherwise... we didnt communicate or look at each other, it's such a weird situation! Once intimate and married, now we're acting like stranger in front of my kids!! i dun like tt feeling at all, altho i know it's impossible for us to b back together as who would want someone who cheated, doesn't feel remorseful and has a MIL who says it's my fault?!!
do u feel this mixed feeling and lost feeling too?
someone told me I've already felt lonely for a really long time, so when i realised my marriage is not gonna work out and heading for D, many says i will be able to move on and focus on my 2 kids in a breeze.
it's true to a certain extent, but who loves to be lonely (when i'm supposed to b cherished in marriage ie not the case as he betrayed my trust...) and yet i still have to continue walking the winding road with my 2 young kiddos in loneliness?
part of me felt some inbalance n inequality, as he has moved on with another woman (even b4 the papers are signed) and yet im here trying to be as strong pillar and act as normal as i can so tt people around me dun feel worried...
i've tried to hit the gym and do more activities to keep myself busy, i wanted my 'me time' as much as i can find time and seriously i need to feel tt i'm not alone... at times when i feel down, who cani turn to? hmmm i can't be telling my kids... and there's no one that i can turn over to talk to. i blame him for causing me in this situation.
he visits my kids once a week, for eg today, he will always bring his mum, bro n his gf along when he is out with my kids, i really wonder if he really wants to spend time with my kids or otherwise... we didnt communicate or look at each other, it's such a weird situation! Once intimate and married, now we're acting like stranger in front of my kids!! i dun like tt feeling at all, altho i know it's impossible for us to b back together as who would want someone who cheated, doesn't feel remorseful and has a MIL who says it's my fault?!!
do u feel this mixed feeling and lost feeling too?