I think this is a good forum to let ask mummies about what Im feeling and facing now. Let me introduce myself. Im 25yrs old stayed home mum and is married to husband who is 21yrs older than me. (I dun think age matters) Had a son who is 2years old now and currently 35weeks preg with girl.
Recently I realised i had social withdrawals. I dun like vistors, phone ringing (other than my husband calls) I just like to be with my son and husband. I dun like to talk to anybody other than husband. Husband said there's something wrong with me. I said.. Maybe, but I dunno why I'm like that. I seriously dunno.
Recently, husband got another job interview with better prospect. As a wife, I should be happy for him, yes? I should!! But coming to think that he maybe alot richer, he might have affairs. He's indonesian chinese and has got really sweet tongue! He doesnt know HOW to draw lines between female collegues, female friends and wife. All he knows is as long as I didnt do anything unfaithful, Im fine. But he doesnt know that sometimes his impression that gives to his female collegues are.... "I like you" But the fact that he is not. Its just his character and attitude of treating women. Some women may get the wrong idea. He's sensitive to metal or chrome. Hence not wearing wedding rings. (-.-) Had got lots of older guys who are really rich, married, had children but keeping mistress. 9/10 keep mistresses.
Husband keep assuring me that he will NEVER NEVER EVER have any affairs. His assurance assured me for that moment. But after a few months, that insecure feeling came back. And I will ask him.... "What if you have affair outside?" He's dead drop generous to everyone. That's what Im afraid women may take advantages of his generousity and "likes" him. Honestly, no man can resist temptation EVERYTIME. Once or twice, maybe..
I myself came from a broken family. Seeing how loving my dad and mum were, to quarrelling everynight and ended up divorce, fighting for children custody, did leave a scar in my mind abt marriage. To be truthful, I dun trust MAN. Given the BEST MAN in the world, there will be still doubts whether he will have affair. In marriage, there should have trust and honesty. Trust!!!
I did thought of seeing a psychiatrist. Mummies, do you think I should?
Recently I realised i had social withdrawals. I dun like vistors, phone ringing (other than my husband calls) I just like to be with my son and husband. I dun like to talk to anybody other than husband. Husband said there's something wrong with me. I said.. Maybe, but I dunno why I'm like that. I seriously dunno.
Recently, husband got another job interview with better prospect. As a wife, I should be happy for him, yes? I should!! But coming to think that he maybe alot richer, he might have affairs. He's indonesian chinese and has got really sweet tongue! He doesnt know HOW to draw lines between female collegues, female friends and wife. All he knows is as long as I didnt do anything unfaithful, Im fine. But he doesnt know that sometimes his impression that gives to his female collegues are.... "I like you" But the fact that he is not. Its just his character and attitude of treating women. Some women may get the wrong idea. He's sensitive to metal or chrome. Hence not wearing wedding rings. (-.-) Had got lots of older guys who are really rich, married, had children but keeping mistress. 9/10 keep mistresses.
Husband keep assuring me that he will NEVER NEVER EVER have any affairs. His assurance assured me for that moment. But after a few months, that insecure feeling came back. And I will ask him.... "What if you have affair outside?" He's dead drop generous to everyone. That's what Im afraid women may take advantages of his generousity and "likes" him. Honestly, no man can resist temptation EVERYTIME. Once or twice, maybe..
I myself came from a broken family. Seeing how loving my dad and mum were, to quarrelling everynight and ended up divorce, fighting for children custody, did leave a scar in my mind abt marriage. To be truthful, I dun trust MAN. Given the BEST MAN in the world, there will be still doubts whether he will have affair. In marriage, there should have trust and honesty. Trust!!!
I did thought of seeing a psychiatrist. Mummies, do you think I should?