Thunderbird
New Member
Hello mummies,
I'm getting a maid for the FIRST time and she's arriving in Sin in a week's time. She is a filipino. As I'm a "newbie" in this area, I really need experienced maid employers' advice on some stuff such as:
1. What is a normal acceptable time for her to go out on her off day? I initially thought of giving her 8am - 8pm off on her rest day but a friend said that's very long. She gives her maid 9am - 5.30pm.
2. Do I have to buy or give her money to buy her toiletries such as body wash, shampoo, facial wash, toothpaste, toothbrush, sanitary pads etc? If I have to buy, is there a standard list of items I as employer need to buy for her or must I pay for everything? My friend said her maid pays for such stuff herself and experienced maids will know that such items are under their own expenses. Is that right?
3. Do you allow her to have her meals together with you and your family at the dining table or does she eat separately elsewhere?
4. During CNY, do you keep her ang pow monies or do you allow her to have them?
5. Do you celebrate your maid's birthday and / or give her a present of some sort?
6. Anything in particular I as a new employer need to be mindful of?
Appreciate if everyone can share with me your experiences / best practices.
MANY THANKS
I'm getting a maid for the FIRST time and she's arriving in Sin in a week's time. She is a filipino. As I'm a "newbie" in this area, I really need experienced maid employers' advice on some stuff such as:
1. What is a normal acceptable time for her to go out on her off day? I initially thought of giving her 8am - 8pm off on her rest day but a friend said that's very long. She gives her maid 9am - 5.30pm.
2. Do I have to buy or give her money to buy her toiletries such as body wash, shampoo, facial wash, toothpaste, toothbrush, sanitary pads etc? If I have to buy, is there a standard list of items I as employer need to buy for her or must I pay for everything? My friend said her maid pays for such stuff herself and experienced maids will know that such items are under their own expenses. Is that right?
3. Do you allow her to have her meals together with you and your family at the dining table or does she eat separately elsewhere?
4. During CNY, do you keep her ang pow monies or do you allow her to have them?
5. Do you celebrate your maid's birthday and / or give her a present of some sort?
6. Anything in particular I as a new employer need to be mindful of?
Appreciate if everyone can share with me your experiences / best practices.
MANY THANKS