hi, all,
Just wanna to share a good news with everyone, yesterday i received call from NUH nurse to inform me my amniocetesis result is out, it is normal !!!!! and my baby is a boy!!!. i was so thrilled to receive the news and feel like crying. Actually, I was watching movie " Australia " at VIVO GV alone, can't remember what happen to the story after i received the call, just wanted to let my hubby know the good news immediately. The next day, we quickly went to temple to thank all the Gods and pray my baby continue to stay healthy and growing.
Today happen to have chance to discuss with mother in law whether we shld hire maid or bring baby to infant care, sigh...really feel got no say in this matter when you live with parent in law. My mother in law insists to hire maid as well as bring baby to infant care at day time . And she also said let baby sleep in living hall during night time so the maid can take care of baby....no no no way, i won't allow my baby sleep in living hall at night, so miserable, i told her i will take care of baby at night, baby sleep with me in the room...
We are staying in a 3- bed rooms condo, actually just nice that one extra room can be baby room ....but too bad, my parent in law each of them need to occupy one bed room, so end up if we hire maid, there is no place for maid, maid will need to sleep in living hall...the reason is, my mother in law said she can't sleep with my father in law, as my father in law has too much stuff in his room now and not easy to get along with...jialat lor now...sigh...i am speechless and look like can't do anything....and only give in...
i told myself not to think too much over these small matters, just focus to stay happy and make sure i eat enough, and stress free....
Am i too much to ask them to move to one room and make the room vacant for baby? Sigh..that's why i never encourage pple to stay with their parent in law, very stressful, got no say at all, tolerant tolerant and more tolerant
Just wanna to share a good news with everyone, yesterday i received call from NUH nurse to inform me my amniocetesis result is out, it is normal !!!!! and my baby is a boy!!!. i was so thrilled to receive the news and feel like crying. Actually, I was watching movie " Australia " at VIVO GV alone, can't remember what happen to the story after i received the call, just wanted to let my hubby know the good news immediately. The next day, we quickly went to temple to thank all the Gods and pray my baby continue to stay healthy and growing.
Today happen to have chance to discuss with mother in law whether we shld hire maid or bring baby to infant care, sigh...really feel got no say in this matter when you live with parent in law. My mother in law insists to hire maid as well as bring baby to infant care at day time . And she also said let baby sleep in living hall during night time so the maid can take care of baby....no no no way, i won't allow my baby sleep in living hall at night, so miserable, i told her i will take care of baby at night, baby sleep with me in the room...
We are staying in a 3- bed rooms condo, actually just nice that one extra room can be baby room ....but too bad, my parent in law each of them need to occupy one bed room, so end up if we hire maid, there is no place for maid, maid will need to sleep in living hall...the reason is, my mother in law said she can't sleep with my father in law, as my father in law has too much stuff in his room now and not easy to get along with...jialat lor now...sigh...i am speechless and look like can't do anything....and only give in...
i told myself not to think too much over these small matters, just focus to stay happy and make sure i eat enough, and stress free....
Am i too much to ask them to move to one room and make the room vacant for baby? Sigh..that's why i never encourage pple to stay with their parent in law, very stressful, got no say at all, tolerant tolerant and more tolerant
