fifilove
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I should have follow ppl say that we cant stay with mother in law, is a very bad idea. No matter how good they are if they offer me to stay.
The last 2 days my mil nagging of me for nothing. What she think of me is wrong. First she nagged at me for follow my husband to office but that's what my husband want us to follow, she tot i follow him coz i dnt trust him n coz of the haze. Coz we going there bring my 3 months baby boy along. But i know the reason is coz that time she come back from overseas n dnt go office coz she want to see my son.
2nd is my daughter, my daughter is 7 years old. So some of the thing she want to do by her self. My mil say i like dnt love her, went she eat i dnt feed her, went she take a bath i dnt bath for her. But that she want to do by herself coz she grow up already. N my husband say let her do by herself. She can do it, coz that time i was pregnant my husband say she cant depan on me coz we going to have baby..
3rd is abt fb, she say i always on the fb. Say post something stupid. But i just post my son photo. She say is better to ready abt our religion. But ppl say is u not reaady dnt, we do it coz we want to not ppl force to do it. Is by our heart. She told me n my husband to close my fb account. Who is she ask me to do that. But why her daughter can post photos of new shoes going out with her husband.
4th is abt our room she say why i ask the maid to clean our room, that time i not in the house for 2 days coz me, my son n daughter were sleeping at my mum place. So b4 im going to my mum place i clean the room first. But my husband was sleeping there so his the one who ask the maid to clean it. But that was the first n the last he ask the maid to help to clean. For the first time i stay there n now i never ask her to clean my room. Coz i know i not paying her salary.. I everyday clean the room. She say to my husband that everytime we going out or sleeping at my mum place say she n the maid always clean the room.. Lier... She say i always never clean the room..
5th is abt my husband helping me making baby milk n taking care baby for just a short time , if im bz helping mide to cook, or at the toilet or clean the room. N i not the want who ask my husband to help me, he himself that want to help me. I never ask him to help me. He say to his mum i never ask him to do he want to help me.. Mil say u always want to be on her side..
6 th is abt went the baby taking a nap, i also take a nap or laying on the bed.. Coz my husbad aunty from his father side say that if baby taking the nap, if i nothing to do n tried go n take a nap n reast.. But my mil dnt like me to do that my husband also say if u tired take a nap too.. But my mil dnt like me to do that.. One time she n my husband had a tlk went she in a gd mood, they tlking abt my son n she has say my son haveing a nap i also take a nap n rest.
And she say to my husband you the one who choose her, she say so many time to him. Like she dnt asap me.. Thats why everyday i feel dnt comfortable n feel dnt want to stay there. I always feel she just acting to like me.
Went i heard she say to my husband say u the one who choose her. I feel so sad n useless wife n mother what she had done to me. My husband is defend me, then she still nagging at me my husband close the door. He was crying n coz of that the last 2days my husband didn't tlk to me. Went ever i want to tlk he like not happy n not reply me.. I feel im going to loose him, n feel like want to ran away, stay at my mum place. If he ask for divorce, i dnt care.. But i never did.. Im so useless person everything i do always not gd enough. Now we at my mum place me n my husband we tlk, laughing n happy here.. But there we never always fight..
I want to move at my mum place, i dnt want to stay there. Is like leaving hell.. N had a chance that me n my husband will divorce.. Whats wrong with her... I hate her..
The last 2 days my mil nagging of me for nothing. What she think of me is wrong. First she nagged at me for follow my husband to office but that's what my husband want us to follow, she tot i follow him coz i dnt trust him n coz of the haze. Coz we going there bring my 3 months baby boy along. But i know the reason is coz that time she come back from overseas n dnt go office coz she want to see my son.
2nd is my daughter, my daughter is 7 years old. So some of the thing she want to do by her self. My mil say i like dnt love her, went she eat i dnt feed her, went she take a bath i dnt bath for her. But that she want to do by herself coz she grow up already. N my husband say let her do by herself. She can do it, coz that time i was pregnant my husband say she cant depan on me coz we going to have baby..
3rd is abt fb, she say i always on the fb. Say post something stupid. But i just post my son photo. She say is better to ready abt our religion. But ppl say is u not reaady dnt, we do it coz we want to not ppl force to do it. Is by our heart. She told me n my husband to close my fb account. Who is she ask me to do that. But why her daughter can post photos of new shoes going out with her husband.
4th is abt our room she say why i ask the maid to clean our room, that time i not in the house for 2 days coz me, my son n daughter were sleeping at my mum place. So b4 im going to my mum place i clean the room first. But my husband was sleeping there so his the one who ask the maid to clean it. But that was the first n the last he ask the maid to help to clean. For the first time i stay there n now i never ask her to clean my room. Coz i know i not paying her salary.. I everyday clean the room. She say to my husband that everytime we going out or sleeping at my mum place say she n the maid always clean the room.. Lier... She say i always never clean the room..
5th is abt my husband helping me making baby milk n taking care baby for just a short time , if im bz helping mide to cook, or at the toilet or clean the room. N i not the want who ask my husband to help me, he himself that want to help me. I never ask him to help me. He say to his mum i never ask him to do he want to help me.. Mil say u always want to be on her side..
6 th is abt went the baby taking a nap, i also take a nap or laying on the bed.. Coz my husbad aunty from his father side say that if baby taking the nap, if i nothing to do n tried go n take a nap n reast.. But my mil dnt like me to do that my husband also say if u tired take a nap too.. But my mil dnt like me to do that.. One time she n my husband had a tlk went she in a gd mood, they tlking abt my son n she has say my son haveing a nap i also take a nap n rest.
And she say to my husband you the one who choose her, she say so many time to him. Like she dnt asap me.. Thats why everyday i feel dnt comfortable n feel dnt want to stay there. I always feel she just acting to like me.
Went i heard she say to my husband say u the one who choose her. I feel so sad n useless wife n mother what she had done to me. My husband is defend me, then she still nagging at me my husband close the door. He was crying n coz of that the last 2days my husband didn't tlk to me. Went ever i want to tlk he like not happy n not reply me.. I feel im going to loose him, n feel like want to ran away, stay at my mum place. If he ask for divorce, i dnt care.. But i never did.. Im so useless person everything i do always not gd enough. Now we at my mum place me n my husband we tlk, laughing n happy here.. But there we never always fight..
I want to move at my mum place, i dnt want to stay there. Is like leaving hell.. N had a chance that me n my husband will divorce.. Whats wrong with her... I hate her..