I realised after my 2nd child was born, me and my hubby quarrelled a lot more. Probably due to more than this reason. I don't know. But I find myself and him being less patient with each other and quarrel very often. It's really quite sad to see my marriage turning like this. I always complain about him placing priority over his work than us. Like whenever I ask him when his meeting ends, what time is he going to work (as his work is flexible working hours) he will snap at me. And ask me very rudely - what do you want me to do? I was just being concern, and would like to know what time my husband goes to work and what time he comes back. Does not necessary mean I need him to do something for me. Why the need to snap at me? I know during confinement I did ask him to run errands for me. But that is because I can't go out and he has the car. What else he expect me to do? I take care of 2 kids and still go out to run errands and buy groceries? I feel very unjust sometimes. Why do men place priority on their work over their family. Am I not important at all? probably is all these feelings building up, that resulted in us quarrelling very often. I also find him less loving towards me. All's on his mind is probably work. I don't see him buying me small gifts etc. My friend's husband all buy them stuff - like really loving and sweet. My husband don't do that anymore. I am really disappointed and sad to see my marriage gone down like this. I know I need to be strong for my kids. And I will be. I am just sad to see my own marriage to fail like my parents. I guess it's really true when you have kids, it's then a real test to how strong your marriage foundation is.
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