HELP! I'm terrorized by this user!

[rorokidul]

I was trying to sell my BNIB Lamaze Spin and Explore Garden at around $50. A user called 'lizliz' negotiated. She wanted $25. I said too low. So I gave her a $40 tag. But she wanted $35 instead. I told her I will deal only at $40. Then she started her terror.

She: Hi,

I'm keen in this, but I have a tight budget of $25. Any possibilities of selling this item at $25 to me? Self collect and sincere buyer.

Pls consider.

Thanks!

Me: Too low. It's BNIB. I may consider if around $45.

She: Hi how about $35? Pls consider.

Me: $40 best price. Where do you live? (was thinking of delivering to her)

She: I alternate between jurong and town area. Budget is really tight. Pls consider selling below 40 dollars.​

Thank you.

Me: $40 is a good price. As I am not working, the extra small amount of $5 can help in my baby's expenses. It is brand new. Please consider if you are a serious buyer.

She: Hi

I understand totally. I'm also in the same situation. I am certainly a serious buyer but as mentioned earlier, my max max budget is $35. I will take it immediately if it's 35 dollars.

Thank you for your understanding.

Thanks!

Me: Save up to $5 to make up $40, then I will believe if you are a serious buyer. (I think I can stop being polite)

She: Hi,

I have to stick to my budget of $35.

If ok, I can meet up at jurong east mrt tomorrow .

Thanks.



Administrator and Moderator, please help me to stop receiving PM from her?

 

[gumbokins]

urm just say no? and you can just ignore her subsequent PMs. After all, nothing is signed, you are the seller and have every right to set the price.

 

[Ting]

actually u shldnt post this up publicly, simply tell her NO, u r not interested to lower the price and if she is not willing to pay the price u r offering then stop PM-ing u, if she still continues to bug u, then just PM the mods or admin to deal with this. i dont think it is very nice to do what u r doing cos she is just bargaining with u, not threatening nor terrorizing u or anything. its too exaggerating lor.

 

[apollo]

just tell her ur selling price is $40and tt's it. if both cant compromise on the price, den just dont go on the deal. ignore her PM =)

 

[rorokidul]

actually you shldnt post this up publicly, simply tell her NO, you r not interested to lower the price and if she is not willing to pay the price you r offering then stop PM-ing you, if she still continues to bug you, then just PM the mods or admin to deal with this. i dont think it is very nice to do what you r doing cos she is just bargaining with you, not threatening nor terrorizing you or anything. its too exaggerating .

No, thank you, I do not need your judgement. I have the right 'not to be nice' to her and it's none of your business.

 

[rorokidul]

Thanks everyone for your kind advices. I've asked the nice moderator for help. This person has been bugging me from other forums and even ebay!
So I decided to be 'not nice' and publicise her lowballing. Cheers ladies!

 

[lizliz]

To my knowledge, I do not own an ebay account. And honestly, negotiation is part and parcel of selling. There were no threatening words, nor were there any disturbing phrases.

On the other hand, I believe you've shown yourself to be rather entertainining too... from your latest PM to me...

"You are such an entertainment hehehehehe..... That's why I kept replying you kekeekekee!!!
I would love to see you in person. :001_302:
Believe me, if you save 10 cents a day, in time you can have $5. I can reserve for you while waiting for you you to get $5.
Have a nice day dear, I think you need a lot of rest. Maybe you need medications too to help you relax. :tongue:"

You have a nice day too dear, and I hope you will not associate entertainment with such cheap thrills that you're getting from your PMs. I have also seeked help from the moderator to reduce the entertainment I'm getting from your PMs too.

Good night!

 

[rorokidul]

Lizliz, stay far away dear. You are not negotiating, you are a lowballer borderline to annoyance. Please concentrate on your own matters and do not waste time in my thread. Also, try to find your own words and sentences k?

 

[diymummy]

Hi rorokidul and lizliz,

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