same here. 500 to my parents, 1k to inlaws..i give my parents $500 per month.. my hubby give my mother in law $1000 (as insisted by mother in law) as she takes care of my gal in the day.. they do not stay with us.. and on weekends when we dine out at restaurants, hubby is usually the one to pay for everyone (including sister In law + her boyfriend)..